every now and then i remember the guy who, 11 years ago, in my first week in NY, saw me unknowingly drop my wallet, keys attached, while rushing to get on the L at Bedford and scooped them up and absolutely fastballed them into the train as the doors closed
he did not say anything, the wallet/keys smacked against the back wall of the train and fell to the ground, and i was able to get back into my apartment in the middle of the night. anyway i just almost lost my wallet again and that reminded me! i hope he's doing great
I’m not even particularly picky about tv shows but I cannot tell you the last time I opened Netflix and there was something new that seemed even vaguely worth watching
I keep thinking about the interview Simone Biles gave about choosing not to retire in part because having one of Larry Nassar’s victims on the Olympic roster would put more pressure on USA Gymnastics to actually do something to make the sport safer for younger athletes
Where do I buy a floor lamp that’s not the worst thing in the world and not a shiny metal orb projected into the middle of the room on a long curved arm and not a bare bulb thing that looks like it’s from a coffee shop in 2012 whose decor theme is Reclaimed Wood. Not wayfair
Among the most reliable shots of dopamine available is spotting a daycare class slowly walking down sidewalk in Brooklyn with all the tiny kids in their tiny coats holding on to the strap that makes them a 12-pack
The dog has voluntarily gotten onto my lap for the first time since I made her go on an airplane for Christmas. The capacity chihuahuas have for grudges…honestly it’s inspiring
this may not be a novel observation but i thought gorbachev had been dead for like a decade. i thought he was like 75 when i was a kid in the 90s. no part of my brain suspected he might still be alive
It's one thing for Amazon to systematically choke to death the American retail and labor markets, but it feels altogether darker that they also insist the general public regards them as benevolent and generous for doing so, and that they are insulted by implications otherwise.
I understand that the podcast ad market is what it is but I sometimes listen to a podcast that is broadly about grift and scams and when the host does ad reads for therapy apps and health food startups…like…are you aware the call is coming from inside the house…
If you’re full time WFH, you’ll prob pay for your workspace and equipment—maybe with the exemption of your actual computer—out of your own check, and you’re also not creating a need for your employer to supply those things to you in an office. You should prob get a raise.
Bruce Springsteen is the only celebrity whose diet and exercise routines I've ever wanted to see. the man played for three solid hours last night, no breaks and not even much talking. hopping around the stage in a pair of doc martens. he is 73 years old.
many unintentionally funny things in the age-gap essay but none as funny as the author's apparently mistaken belief that she's writing about marrying a slightly older man when actually she's just writing about marrying rich
@rebexxxxa
the arc of "reading is ableist," "criticizing me for being a defense contractor is problematic," and "people who say i'm privileged because i own a home are lying bc i have a mortgage" all emanating from the same YA person. not convinced they're not a psy op tbh
i haven't really known what to say about this, but we lost my dad a few days before christmas. he was sick but his passing was still very much unexpected. he was the best dad anyone could ask for—he is the reason i am who i am—and i miss him terribly.
Has anyone else with an iPhone had a problem for the last few weeks where you get no notification or indication you have a new text, it’s just in there unmarked like you already read it? I feel like I’m losing my mind
I’ve been listening to a very good podcast about the Elizabeth Holmes trial called The Dropout and I need you to know that at one point in it, a famous investor says he thought Holmes would come by medical talent naturally bc her grandparents had their name on a hospital
can't get over the cruelty of "now's the time to cut people out of your life." america is a country so lonely and isolated that it's actively harmful to population health. we've seen in the last 15 months how crushing that is. now's the time to bring people in to your life.
Crazy how you can clean your whole apartment in three hours with no problem when people are coming over but during the average week there is simply no way to do that
will never forgive american politics from being too omnipresently weird and bad in the past few years to let "hobby lobby has amassed a collection of ill-gotten ancient artifacts" properly breathe, as a story
Problems with "the supply chain" get invoked a lot now, and I am here remind you that "the supply chain" is people doing labor, and that the often dangerous conditions of that labor have always been an existential threat to your sense of normalcy.
vyvanse generics were approved literally on monday and cigna already has a letter in my mailbox telling me to get my filthy hands off the brand-name version immediately
This is a sale aisle getting flipped, you can tell by the signage, but I guess it shouldn’t surprise anyone that this guy doesn’t know how stores actually work
ESPN doing a Gameday segment about how conference expansion and realignment makes the sport fragile so we need to hold onto it even harder makes me feel like I’m going insane. My brothers in Christ you’re the ones who did the expansion and realignment
I wrote about why it's so hard to buy a good sweater these days. What's currently available in stores really is much worse than what you could find a few decades ago.
Hey it’s your dad Amanda reminding you to clean the filters on your window ACs when you install them. They prob got last season gunk. Also check for mold spots behind the vents and clean that out with some white vinegar if you see any. Might need a screwdriver to get back there
My contribution to the airport morning drinking discourse is that people do it because, regardless of other clear reasons (stress, boredom), the airport is fundamentally separate from the temporality of life outside it, which should be obvious to anyone who’s been to the airport
in college i sold Matt Stafford a PS3 when i worked at Best Buy and now he's going to the Super Bowl, and I may host a Super Bowl party. big time for both of us
@BrandyLJensen
i once got yanked out of the security line at JFK when i had Midge in a carrier bc the guy with the sniffer dog was like, is there a chihuahua in there? apparently the dog, a rhodesian ridgeback, hated chihuahuas and became incapable of performing his duties around them
something my parents believe wholeheartedly that i rejected for ages but have recently come to embrace: some stuff on some crackers is not only a meal, but it is a pretty good meal
very slightly unnerving after a long weekend to be confronted with all the tabs you left open on your work laptop on friday, when you were a completely different person
I wrote about why American shoppers are such abusive nightmares to service workers. It's gotten worse during the pandemic, but consumerism was always designed for exactly this result.
i'm begging people on this website to stop trying to justify their existing lifestyle or consumer preferences by trying to reverse engineer them into whatever they think are good politics
seen a lot of posts lately about people asserting they were not meant to work but to, like, eat pizza and vibe. unfortunately i come from german peasants so i was literally made to work
I wrote about all the types of relationships that can't really exist in a pandemic, and the under-recognized but incredible value of casual friends, acquaintances, and near-strangers in our lives.
I told the bartender at our happy hour that we made a union at work today and he gave me a free shot, so don’t let anyone tell you that organizing doesn’t pay immediate dividends
And she’s right—if you have someone in her position in front of press, they have a clearer reason to ask about it, and she can bring it up if they don’t. Especially someone who has enough power to speak freely, which is not really anyone but her among active athletes. It’s a lot.
I spent the last two weeks down a retail-theft rabbit hole, trying to figure out if the shoplifting surge is real and why news coverage of it is so bizarre (and, honestly, so bad).
Hard seltzer sales have been pretty stagnant in the last year, and many experts have posited why that is and what it means. I have another theory: A lot of people tried hard seltzer because of the memes and realized it's just not good.
i'm still mad we were denied summer world cup bc watching one in overflowing NYC sports bars with the front windows open to the street on a weekday when everyone and their boss has left work to drink cheap beer and care immensely about a sport they don't follow is my fav thing
All celebrities used to be at least as weird as Hilaria Baldwin but now they’re all media trained within an inch of their lives so they can sell branded Instagram content without alienating a single potential customer. Bad trade imo
just walked past a long line that had formed for a guy with a hand-written sign selling barbecue out of his smoker on the sidewalk. had to keep walking bc i already have dinner plans. do you know how hard it is for a southerner to pass up random sidewalk barbecue guy
i got some kind of marketing email from dyson earlier this week that suggested i should vacuum my mattress and i did it and you should vacuum your mattress but be prepared to be presented with information that could upset you
i worked in the accessories industry for a decade and in that time nothing ever mystified me as much as the current popularity of the Marc Jacobs bags that say TOTE BAG on them
A memory that occasionally pops into my head unbidden is when my high school debate team got a table at the school craft fair for a fundraiser doing living and simple wills under the supervision of someone’s lawyer dad, using laptops from his law firm. We made so much money.
Fast Car has always been an obviously brilliant song, but to me the most striking thing is how timeless Tracy Chapman's voice and approach is. It was released in 1988 but I thought it was new when I first heard it as a kid in the mid-90s, and it doesn't feel aged at all now
an underrated way to be driven insane is booking a hotel. every fifth review of every hotel will be the most harrowing shit you've ever heard, and then you've gotta pick one and spend a grand or maybe only like $900 if you use a website you've never heard of
"white collar workers with newly remote jobs are heading for more space in suburbs or the sunbelt" and "you can't rent an apartment in new york right now because someone will offer the landlord $500 per month over asking" are somewhat in tension with each other
Sorry if this is a crank tweet but listing clothes for resale makes you look at their labels and it’s wild how much of the stuff I bought 10-15 years ago is 100% natural fiber and how virtually all of it from the past 5 years is at least part plastic, even if it’s more expensive
Three days in the office, two days at home is the ideal combo in my mind, and every time I write about remote work I come across more evidence that lots of people want something roughly similar, but so much of the talk is about all-or-nothing scenarios that most people will hate
There is an inclination to think that contemporary vices—alcohol, drugs, caffeine, sex, whatever—must be more pronounced than what the old prudes were doing a few generations back but until the 1970s the whole country was absolutely tweaked on amphetamine diet pills
Have you noticed that all the shirts and dresses look like this now? And last summer, too? I wrote about why that is, why it happened with the cold shoulder and peplum before them, and why there's so little variety and so much volume in modern fashion.
how do i get instagram stories to stop spontaneously prompting me to make reels of photos from the month my dad died set to imagine dragons that blares even when the volume is off
The olympics are convenient bc it’s the perfect type of television to have on mute while I listen to a podcast and play a phone game, forestalling my brain’s ability to have a single thought
I am not a New York exceptionalist in general BUT something that does feel exceptional about the city is that every block I’ve lived on here has had a guy who screams. Not every city can give you that density of screaming guy
When I was 22 I spent six months rolling onto a quilt burrito every night bc I didn’t feel like putting sheets on my mattress and I don’t appreciate having my Lived Experience erased by the men’s bedding discourse
Seems bad that apparently one of the only viable ways to challenge the power of someone who has a long, well-documented history of being abusive to his colleagues, underlings, and constituents is to find where that behavior was at some point sexual
said in an interview yesterday that a lot of media discussion of retail theft was done by people who have never worked in a chain store and didn't really understand how they function. now to take a big sip of coffee and check out this link a coworker sent me. oh it's by matt y—
Something I think about occasionally is how I once saw someone on here say “hit dogs holler,” which is a southern regionalism meaning “people to whom a criticism applies always shout the loudest about how the criticism is unfair” and then got yelled at for advocating animal abuse
I've seen the take going around about how maybe it's good that the pandemic forced people to jettison most of their friends and, counterpoint, no it's not
wish that craft beer bars would have a section of their menu labeled, like "stuff for the friend who didn't want to come here" and put their three most High Life-tasting beers in it. or just let me bring in a 6 pack and pay a corkage fee i don't care