John Boyega saying he dates only black women isn't a problem.
Double standards are a problem.
If a white actor said they only dated white women, many would not defend his right to have "preferences," they would call him racist.
The rules have to stay consistent, that's all.
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@ada_akpala
Literally no one would care, we already know what they like anyway. It’s natural to want to be with someone who looks like you and shared the same culture.
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@ada_akpala
who cares who anyone dates 💀 folks too caught up in other people’s preferences in every regard
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@ada_akpala
They don't say it, they just do it. And I don't know why you guys are so quick to fall on your sword for white celebrities that don't care about you anyway lmao
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@ada_akpala
I find it very weird that someone could rule out an entire group based on skin, hair....anything. There are beautiful people in every group.
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@ada_akpala
I call bs on that. I've yet to meet a man who would turn down a fine woman because she doesn't have the right skin color. He can talk all he wants, but if push came to shove and she was 🔥 he'd be pushing, not shoving.
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@ada_akpala
black people have many valid reasons to only want to date within their race it’s not a double standards the two scenarios are v different 😭
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@ada_akpala
they don’t have to be consistent because you can’t simply confine relationships to political choice and there are also issues of power
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@ada_akpala
Agreed. I am white, my wife is black. I have a friend (white) who only dates white women. Guess what... we all get only fine because we are adults and understand that people are allowed to have their sexual preferences! Its not a crime to fancy a type. Well, not yet!
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@ada_akpala
Very true.
@JonHaidt
says the biggest metric people wish to live by isn't diversity, inclusion or equity, it's FAIRNESS.
Not surprising really.
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