Y’all haven’t dated highly intelligent people with low EQs & been forced to argue about nonsense in dictionary english cos they don’t believe they can be smart in their heads but wrong in their understanding of emotions. That Intellectualizing feelings can drive you nuts. 😂

I’m an advocate of separate bedrooms. Too much constant togetherness can turn once cute habits into irritations, then resentment creeps in… Personal space is important. You’re partners, not clones.

And that includes your father.

The worst when you know you have the power and time but zero drive

The pain I've experienced the past four weeks is something I'd never wish even on my enemy fr. I've been through I think three surgeries and they weren't as painful as these burn wounds fr! Today I even wished for death so that all this can just end mahn 🤦🏾‍♀️ I'm tired

I think nimerogwa fr. I was in so much pain so my cousin came to rush me to the hospital and we almost got into an accident. Like I'm already suffering from one yet the universe wanted to add another one???!!! Kwani nilikosea nani

I just know the salt would stop concentrating when it’s me

i was playing aki

Children don’t “bounce back” from trauma. They bury it. And buried trauma doesn’t vanish it leaks out later as anxiety, rage, shame, addiction, and self-destruction. So no, kids aren’t resilient. They’re hurting.

Working while being a full time student

I promise you that when you have a lot going on in life, this won't really bother you

Mshahara ishaisha jamani

Our HM has really helped me throughout this period. The caregiving side plus making sure I'm well fed. I'm actually thinking of taking her through a caregiving course. She actually wanted to be a nurse but life happened which is sad cause she's good! Manifesting the money 🕯️🕯️

rather be tired from work than bored and broke

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Not having to worry about this at all>>> because I ain’t got no nigga and no nigga ain’t got me😭🙏🏾

deleting later but my hot take of the day is that you can be there for your friends without expecting anything in return but you can also be sad when they dont show up for you

unaona vile parents say "As long as hakuna ugonjwa the rest you can manage" they were right.

Not wanting kids because you know you're selfish and too emotionally absent to care for them is not the villain y'all make it out to be. That's one less child that would have to experience neglect. That's one less kid in the foster system or one less abused kid

I think your parents relationship really do determine your view of love and relationships.