Can we skip to the part where I'm happily married to the best man to ever exist living in a big mansion, driving a Porsche, getting spoiled & kissed every 2 secs??.
So this man was face timing his girlfriend at the grocery store & I heard him saying 'I'm at the grocery store, should I get anything you'd like to have at my crib, in case U accidentally end up there? Tell me your favs". And I think that's the most romantic thing a man can doπ₯Ή.
I highly recommend you find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner whoβs super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.
I went to a party without telling my bf & instead of receiving texts with attitude from him, I received a Venmo notification for an uber, some chicken wings & fries. My embarrassed self thought about guy engagement rings for 1 hour bcz I was so ready to propose to himπ.
Yk what's attractive?? A man who is Vocal. A man who never invalidates your feelings by calling you sensitive. Tells you how much you mean to him. He listens, communicates & fixes the issue instead of arguing. A man who is still kind & respectful to you during disagreements.
Last night my boyfriend was drunk, he looked at me and said "you're the hottest girl I've ever seen" and I told him "I'm your girlfriend" and he was like "OMG THAT'S AWESOME, LETS GET MARRIED"π«π.
Dating an intentional man will teach you that U don't have to ask a man who really desires U for anything. Not communication, not time, not dates, not affection. Nothing. When a man really WANTS you, he moves differently on his own. It's a pleasure for him to do the most for you.
My elder sister asked her husband what would he do if she ever got plastic surgery & he replied "if you ever feel like you have to change something about yourself while being with me then I have failed as a husband & man for not making U feel more than enough as you are" CRYINGπ₯Ή.
We all know tampons & pads are super expensive but the most wholesome part of life is that I've never met someone who wasn't willing to give you one when you needed it. It's the little things.
I asked my 80 yr old neighbor & his 73 yr old wife who had been married for 57 years what the secret to forever was. She said "never forget why U fell in love with them, never stop dating" He held her hand & said "never forget that she could always find better" I'm still cryingπ₯Ή.
high standards because i don't want my kids to have a father who vapes, drinks alcohol, goes out everyday, shouts, only follow girls on social media, has wandering eyes, lacks emotional intelligence, lacks a relationship with God, or fails to show love & basic human decency.
Told my boyfriend when I met him "I'm dating to marry. So either that's your goal too, or don't pursue me." Nine months later, he got down on one knee. Ladies, U can set your own standards & raise the bar. Either he will step up, or walk away. You'll be fine either way.
I like clingy. I'd rather have someone who blows up my phone & shows they Care than someone who texts back 12 hours later. A nonchalant man has no business around me & my big ass emotions.
nothing wrong with being soft for your girl. that's your girl right? step out your comfort zone and do some corny effort once in a while just to make her blush or smile. social media ruin a lot of shit saying it's weak & simping. only U control your relationship! Not social media.
My mother once said "when a guy likes you all you have to do is exist" and it's so real. why do you like your crush? usually they don't even do anything remarkable they just exist and you go feral. wait for someone who goes crazy for your mere existence.
So I'm doing an internship at a hospital. there's a 56 yo man admitted. I observed whenever this lady visits, she literally lowers his blood pressure & heart rate by walking into the room. (Observed by other doctors too) I asked him who's she & he said "that's my wife". crying π.
I wanna marry into a funcional family. when they have cookouts, game nights, holiday dinners and bday parties. I wanna be able to go get breakfast with my mother in law & go shopping with their siblings. I don't want it to be just "US" I want a family that's oriented.