Marry a MAN that loves you enough to care about how his actions will effect your feelings & stop settling for immature BOYS that think you are supposed to love them after all the trauma they put you through. A real MAN knows his woman's happiness is key to a happy relationship.

There's a thin line btwn someone who's emotionally unavailable & someone who just doesn't want you. And when you're emotionally invested, that line doesn't just blur, it dissolves. Bc when the heart is hungry, even breadcrumbs feel like a meal.

it is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. a woman feeds off his energy. Women are reciprocators, not initiators, this is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. she can't feel safe with you if you're not leading properly.

Emotionally unavailable boys will ruin you btw. Stay away from nonchalant men that lack affection and compassion, especially if you're a very loving girl.

Girl, if you catch yourself begging a man for human decency, a response, time together, clarity, respect, reassurance, communication & some kindness, You need to take a step back and realize that you're begging someone for the bare minimum. That's ridiculous and beneath you !!.

Any man who can fall asleep soundly while knowing that you're Crying yourself to sleep because of him, is never the MAN for you. Let that sink in !!.

Sis, a Man who loves you, will naturally wanna feed you, take you out, call/ text you, buy you flowers & treat you like a priority. If he's not doing those things then he doesn't care about you. Believe me, a man will always ACT right for a girl he really WANTS !!.

Girls be saying "i miss him" what do you miss sis?? The disrespect? The lies? The bare minimum & attention he couldn't give you? The times he made you cry? The insecurities? The flowers he never bought you? You just miss the version you created of him in your head. Move on !.

I love when men are men. Thank you for paying for my meals, thank you for opening my doors , thank you for letting me yap, thank you for reminding me how beautiful I am, thank you for making plans, thank you for talking things out with me, Thank you for the GENTLE love. Big Fan>.

If you don't mind sharing, what is your wish for the year.

Until he signs the marriage papers, it ain't that serious sis.

Ladies, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.

Ladies, there's a huge difference between a boy who kinda likes you & a man who wants your soul next to his. Don't settle !!.

Vocal men are top tier. Imagine telling you how much they love you, point out your wrong doings in a nice tone, never invalidate your feelings, communicate with you when you hurt them, and telling how worthy you are and how much you mean to them.

Girl to girl:.

Sis, Until you date a provider man, you won't understand how much men love to PROVIDE for their woman. The right man will be willing to do anything for you & understand you without asking for anything. Stop asking for bare minimum. The right one won't let you beg for ANYTHING !!.

I will marry a 6ft, dominant lover boy with provider mindset who loves me like breathing.

Please date romantic men. Please date men who love you more than you love them. Please date men who are kind & Gentle. Please date men who like to plan dates & buying flowers instead of dating non-chalant men who think romantic stuff is unnecessary & make you feel hard to love.

I like a calm man. I find soothing, gentle, calm auras so attractive. I love a man who's good at comforting me, who doesn't yell or slam things when they're upset, who brings me peace, when talking to him eases my anxiety and I just feel calm and safe. Be with a calm man.

I will marry a lover boy who can't breathe when I don't text him.