I love the energy in this video. Serena being shown as the fun-loving good spirited super talented all star athlete she is. Her smile just radiates. Gotta love her 🙌🏾
My boyfriend treats me with so much love, and every time I thank him after he does something nice, he tells me I deserve it. Do you know how validating it is, especially after years of being treated like crap?
Fat shaming people into losing weight isn’t helpful. It isn’t “tough love” and it’s not “pushing you” to be better.
That shit is dangerous. It’s spreading a very harmful rhetoric that hating yourself is a good catalyst for change, and that’s how eating disorders are formed.
Dear my fat fluffy queens,
Summer is approaching, and there will be people who tell you to cover up & that nobody wants to see “that.”
Kindly tell them to kiss your round ass & proceed to wear what you want. It’s hot, and you deserve to show off.
I feel like men from your past only hit you up to apologize/reconcile for their own egos.
They reconnect and “check in with you” to see if you still think about them, not because they saw the error in their ways & they’re truly sorry for hurting you.
People have entire YT channels dedicated to eating giant meals, and y’all love them.
But when a fat girl takes a few celebratory bites of a cake in a video and SHE’s promoting binging?
The “fat girls need to accept whatever they get & stop asking for too much” narrative is dead & gone.
We in the, “if he ain’t try show you off, show him the door” era now.
I just saw a picture of a person & I didn’t like it, so I scrolled past it and moved on with my life.
And that’s how you mind your business & avoid being an asshole on the internet.
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Being the fat friend is finding a stool to sit on by the dressing rooms & serving as the outfit judge while your friends shop for hours in stores with a plethora of choices.
Fat girls are allowed to have preferences of what type of partners we want.
That “take what you can get” mindset is OLD NEWS. We’re liking who were attracted to because we deserve it, and can’t nobody tell us a damn thing about it.
If you aren’t black, you can’t say ‘nigga’.
“But we don’t mean it in a bad way.”
Still can’t say it.
“My black friends don’t care.”
That’s YOUR friends. Around me, you can’t say it.
“It’s in so many songs.”
Yea, cause the artist is black. You ain’t, so you can’t say it.
This is why I do what I do. This is why I’m so adamant about speaking on fat discrimination in the medical industry & the need for more HAES doctors. This is not okay!
Medical professionals need to LISTEN TO THEIR FAT PATIENTS & not blame everything on their weight.
A coworker just passed away. She was a Black woman in her early 30s. She went to her doctor last Wednesday about shortness of breath and chest pain. He just told her to lose weight.
Well, she had clots in her lungs and had a massive heart attack Friday.
Y’all don’t care about fat people’s health. You just don’t like how we look. Fat folks being confident/not chasing the beauty standard is a direct blow to your self worth because being thin/fit/conventionally attractive is your identity.
Wait... is this a joke?
A fat girl who’s medical impairment caused her to lose weight, now she’s hot, noticeable, & angry at everyone?
Who thought this was a good idea?
Mac Miller was the white rapper we needed. He didn’t ruffle feathers, had a dope flow, never overstepped boundaries, actually connected with what he rapped around. He made feel good music.
Men love commenting on my pictures like “imma have pass on her,” or “too big for me,” or “no thank you.”
But I’m like... what makes you think I was even an option for you? Have you seen me? I’m way too fine for you to even be on my radar.