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Refuge provides specialist services to survivors of domestic abuse. We run the Freephone 24 hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247
Joined August 2010
This account is no longer actively monitored. If you need support reach out to the National Domestic Abuse Helpline 24/7 on 0808 2000 247 or visit For updates on our work follow us on.đŚ đ¸
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The crimes that #MetPolice officer David Carrick has admitted to committing are utterly abhorrent .When a man who has been charged with 49 offences, including 24 charges of rape, is a serving police officer, how can women and girls possibly be â or feel â safe.
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The misogyny and casual sexism witnessed on this series of #LoveIsland is extremely concerning. The double standards, gaslighting and coercive control being displayed by the men in the villa is hugely problematic.
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Our message to survivors of domestic abuse tonight is clear: if you need support, Refuge is here for you, round the clock. We will believe you and we will support you. You are not alone.
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We're outside New Scotland Yard this morning asking, how many more #BadApples?.These 1071 rotten apples represent the number of #MetPolice officers who have been, or are currently, under investigation for allegations of domestic abuse or #VAWG.
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Fiona Bruce stands down as Refuge ambassador - our statement following Thursday's BBC Question Time:
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@daz_black Thank you Daz for raising the profile of this important issue. For anyone reading this who needs help, Refuge is here for you. Call us on 0808 2000 247 24 hours a day. Daz we would love to connect with you to support women who need us.
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#DomesticAbuse isnât caused by matches being lost or won, itâs caused by perpetrators choosing to abuse. We do know tournaments can aggravate pre-existing abusive behaviours. Please help us answer every call from a woman who needs us. Donate now #Euros2020
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Share our Helpline details tonight. #Football tournaments donât cause abuse; abuse is always a choice an abuser makes - but they can aggravate pre-existing abusive behaviours. So please, share and let survivors know they are not alone: #ENG #Euros2020
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There is nothing funny about spiking womenâs drinks. This is not âmere banterâ. Violence against women & girls is a social issue and language is important, especially from those in charge of making legislation to protect women from these atrocious crimes.
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We know the England team losing the #EURO2024 is the worst outcome for some, for others however it's the reality of waiting for their partner to come home. Football doesn't cause #DomesticAbuse, abusers do. Share our helpline so women know they are not alone đđźđđż
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Refuge is appalled that ITV decided to include an individual with a conviction of domestic assault as a housemate in Celebrity Big Brother. (1/2).
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We were incredible grateful to Her Royal Highness, The Duchess of Cornwall, @ClarenceHouse for hosting an event today to mark Refugeâs 50th anniversary. Earlier in the day, The Duchess met privately with women who have fled their abusive partner. Read more
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Refuge raises the pride flag in solidarity with LGBTIQ+ communities here and across the globe who are under attack. We see you. We recognise abuse. We've got your back. If you need support our helpline is available 24/7, call for free on 0808 2000 247 /
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As the country enters #lockdown3 the Prime Minister is right to remind victims of domestic abuse that they can leave their homes and access support. We are here providing vital support every hour of every day. Call if you can 0808 2000 247. #YouAreNotAlone.
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Heâs only gone and done it, and then some! Thank you, thank you, thank you @Herring1967 for raising an unbelievable, humongous total of ÂŁ100,000+. Itâs been hilarious following your tweets all day. This will make such a difference to the women and children we support. Happy #IWD!
Raising ÂŁ100,000 releases me from the curse. Then I can go out with my wife and celebrate the wonder of women, rather than ponder on the stupidity of men (and also some women)
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. @nazirafzal says he wants to focus on why violence against women and girls happens in the first place: "The misogyny that drives it, the root causes that drive it, is what we need to be addressing". We couldnât agree more. Thank you Nazir.
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It is never okay to 'joke' about or threaten rape. All women deserve to feel safe. We stand with you @jessphillips
âI cried in the street in Birmingham city centre - I felt the weight of years and years of abuseâ @jessphillips. Police are investigating UKIP candidate Carl Benjamin after he saying âhe might rapeâ the MP.
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If youâre scared of your partner Refugeâs expert Freephone 24 hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline team can offer non-judgmental support at a time thatâs safe for you: #SafetyInANumber
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Read this poem from start to finish and it depicts a family's happy festive time. Read it from the bottom up and it reveals a terrible story of domestic abuse. Support women who need to turn to us by buying a Refuge safety parcel this Christmas:
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For too long, we have heard that things will change, that lessons are being learned, that mistakes will not be allowed to happen again. What has to happen before crimes against women and girls are taken seriously?
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(1/8) Abusive behaviour is not entertainment and must not be normalised. Read our statement below. 𧾠. Weâre committed to challenging #misogyny in all its forms. Join our mailing list to stay up to date and get involved. #LoveIsland
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For confidential support, call our National Domestic Abuse Helpline, on 0808 2000 247. Free and open 24/7. You can also chat online Monday to Friday, 3-10pm, or fill in a contact form at any time: We know our team can be busy but we want to support you.
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This is a great win for #DomesticAbuse survivors. The previous practice of charging #survivors for proof of their injuries was denying vulnerable women access to the legal protection they needed to escape violent partners.
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If youâre a survivor of #DomesticAbuse with a secret or secondary phone, the governmentâs new #EmergencyAlerts could reveal your phone even if itâs on silent. Find out how to turn the alerts off >>
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âRefuge is increasingly concerned about the misogynistic and abusive behaviours being displayed in this yearâs series of #LoveIsland." .Full response from Refuge CEO @RuthKDavison below (1/4) đ§ľ.
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If youâre a survivor of #DomesticAbuse with a secret or secondary phone, the governmentâs new #EmergencyAlerts could reveal your phone, even if itâs on silent. Our tech team have created an easy guide on how to turn them off >>
What does the alert look and sound like? đ¨. Emergency Alerts will appear on the home screen of your device and you will hear a loud siren-like sound and feel a vibration for up to 10 seconds. Watch the video below đ˝ď¸đ
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On Sunday at 3pm the government will be testing the new #EmergencyAlerts. If youâre a survivor of #DomesticAbuse with a secret or secondary phone, this test and any future alerts could reveal your phone - even if itâs on silent. A guide to disable them
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1 woman is killed every 5 days by her partner or ex-partner in England and Wales. We are in an epidemic of violence against women and girls and must address tackling the root cause of misogyny.
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At a time of reported increased rates of #domesticabuse and terrifying uncertainty for so many women, @TheSun has chosen to amplify the voice of a perpetrator. There are no excuses for abuse. We, proudly, stand on the side of survivors.
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Thank you for sharing @LittleMix â¤ď¸đâ¤ď¸.
Since the lockdown, in just one 24 hour period, Refugeâs National Domestic Abuse Helpline recorded a 120% increase in calls. Now, more than ever, @RefugeCharity needs your help to keep the helpline running. Please donate at #YouAreNotAlone
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Refuge is extremely concerned that the verdict in Virginia yesterday will mean survivors of abuse are afraid to seek support, and that it will place additional barriers to accessing justice.
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âYet again @Herring1967 has dedicated his entire day to raising awareness of Refuge & the life-saving work we undertake. Through comedy & by gently heckling his Twitter community Richard has so far raised over ÂŁ75,000," said our Lisa King.
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The government is rolling out an Emergency Alerts system this year. The alerts will appear on phones and make a sound even when phones are on silent. Having a secret phone can be a lifeline for survivors so we've created a guide on managing alerts:
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Since #SarahEverard was killed by serving police officer Wayne Couzens, 81 women have lost their lives to #MaleViolence (report from @FemicideCensus, @K_IngalaSmith). Today we stand to say #EnoughIsEnough
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.@Herring1967 is creating a Twitter storm: almost ÂŁ50,000 raised already, more than 3,000 donations and both Refuge and Richard Herring are trending! So exciting! Can we break the internet this #IWD2019?
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There is no excuse for abuse. Myths that poor mental health, drugs or alcohol cause #DomesticAbuse are an extremely dangerous narrative that undermine survivors experiences. Abuse is a choice made by solely by a perpetrator.
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It beggars belief that ITV thought this acceptable the day before launching a domestic abuse campaign on their flagship daytime womenâs show Loose Women. A perpetrator convicted of #DomesticAbuse should never be given a platform for entertainment value.
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Win or lose, you should never be scared of your partnerâs reactions after the #Euros2024. Our Helpline Team are here to support you 24/7. Call for free on 0808 2000 247 or visit #NoExcuseForAbuse #ENGSPN #SPNENG
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If you need support, Refuge is here for you. You can contact us 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on 0808 2000 247, or contact us online: .You are not alone.
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All our specialist services remain open as usual including our Helpline. If you are experiencing domestic abuse, support is available, you are not alone - call our National Domestic Abuse Helpline, on 0808 2000 247. Free and open 24/7.
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We are thrilled to announce the incredible @AlexScott as one our new Refuge Ambassadors! đ. We have been working closely with Alex since the launch of her autobiography in which she bravely details her childhood trauma of growing up seeing #DomesticAbuse.
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âIf one man can destroy everything, why can't one girl change it?â Happy birthday, Malala Yousafzai. #malaladay #thursdaythoughts
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We're extremely grateful to HRH The Duchess of Cornwall @ClarenceHouse for supporting our Emergency Appeal. Thank you to everyone who's donated during this challenging time. You're helping provide food, clothing & toys to the women & children we support
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Threats to share intimate images traps women with abusers â we need the government to act now and make threats to share illegal images part of the #DomesticAbuseBill. Join our campaign and support survivors by sharing this tweet and tagging @pritipatel and @RobertBuckland.
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It's not your fault. You don't deserve this. We believe you. You are not alone. Our Helpline team are here to support you. Call for free on 0808 2000 247 /
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This is the man we salute tonight for raising over ÂŁ150k - the equivalent of a stonking 2,885 nights in a refuge for a woman and her children. You are a diamond @Herring1967 @JustGiving #JGAwards
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Weâre at #ScotlandYard this morning to call on the government to take urgent .action to address violence against women and girls. Are you with us?.#EnoughIsEnough
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"Refuge is devastated by the news that Zaraâs killer has won an appeal to reduce the minimum term of his life sentence. Our thoughts are with Zaraâs family, and the families of all the women and girls who have lost their lives to male violence. (1/5).
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âThe verdict sends a chilling message to many survivors of domestic abuse that their experiences are invalid and open to public scrutiny' @RuthKDavison on Depp v Heard verdict. Full statement below đ .
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Fantastic to have the incredible #LittleMix sharing the Freephone 24 hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline number - together we can support women to escape #DomesticAbuse. đŞ#SafetyInANumber #IWD2020.
1 in 4 women experience domestic abuse in England & Wales. So for #IWD2020 weâve partnered with @RefugeCharity to help highlight the National Domestic Abuse Helpline number. Itâs a number every woman should know, so please save it now. #SafetyInANumber.
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#thearchers Rob - controlling, threatening to the very end. Helen we are here for you @BBCTheArchers.
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#DomesticAbuse can happen to anyone. Our thoughts are with Katie Price and her family. To the many woman who will read this story and see their reality in it, our message is you are not alone. Our team are here on 0808 2000 247, and online, Please share.
Man arrested after Katie Price taken to hospital with injuries
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No-one should live in fear of their partner. Your partner may tell you that nobody will believe you, but there are steps you can take to rebuild your life. Please call Refugeâs Helpline if you need us, 0808 2000 247 #Chantelle #EastEnders
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A new Emergency Alert system is being rolled out by the government this year that will notify all phones with a sounds - including when they are on silent. Having a secret phone can be a lifeline for survivors so we've created a guide on managing alerts:
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A huge thank you to @EmAtack for raising vital awareness of #OnlineAbuse. New documentary #AskingForIt airs tonight discussing the impact of online harassment and whether enough is being done to protect women online:
'All these behaviours can escalate and turn into something way worse'. Emily Atack has told #BBCBreakfast why she made a BBC Two documentary about the huge amount of explicit images and messages she receives every day.
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There are many barriers women face when escaping an abusive partner. We work with @CatsProtection so leaving a beloved pet behind isnât one of them: #Caturday đť
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Our statement on tonightâs @BBCPanorama . 'Panorama this evening revealed some horrific details around the trading of nude images online, and the sheer extent of online harassment and abuse that women and girls face every day.â.
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Resplendent @ranvir01 rocks it for Refuge on @Catchphrase and raises ÂŁ1,200 - the equivalent of 23 nights in a refuge for a woman and her children. Am-az-ing. Such a fabulous supporter of ours. Thx so much @ranvir01
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We are concerned that despite the definition of #misogyny being really clear, the justice Secretary, @DominicRaab, hasnât understood that it is hatred directed at women. Gender inequality is at the root of #VAWG and we must see all governments departments understanding that.
Raab really put his foot in it this morning. Again.
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If you are scared of your partner, our expert Helpline team are here to support you. Call 24/7 for free on 0808 2000 247 or speak to the team via live chat, Monday to Friday, 3-10pm:
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If anything you've seen has impacted you, our National Domestic Abuse helpline is here if you need support. Call our freephone 24/7 on 0808 2000 247 or contact us online:
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Todayâs #GQHype report, created with Refuge, asks @BritishGQ readers to educate themselves on #DomesticAbuse and to #ChooseToChallenge the gender inequalities that causes it. Thank you for putting #VAWG on the front page Report from @geochesterton #IWD2021
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Children arenât just âwitnessesâ of #DomesticAbuse, they are deeply affected by it. Itâs essential we listen to their #SurvivorStories during #16Days and always. Refuge Ambassador @SirPatStew has used his experience to raise awareness â thank you.
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#DomesticAbuse is a crime. Standing in solidarity with @MissMalinSara today as a brave survivor of domestic abuse, as her perpetrator's sentence is handed down.
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Honoured to have been joined by @number10cat today as we visited 10 Downing Street to hand in our petition calling for the immediate suspension of police officers accused of #VAWG while under investigation!!
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It doesn't matter what she was doing, it does matter what we do next. Take action today, email your MP asking them to vote for the @baronessnewlove amendment to make #Misogyny a hate crime. Together we can build a world where women can be safe:
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"It felt like Grace was on trial, yet not able to defend herself." Grace Millane's family have welcomed the news that the 'rough sex defence' will be banned - an essential step forward in ending victim blaming of murdered women:
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.@patel4witham launches #youarenotalone campaign to support those experiencing #domesticabuse and show them they are not alone. The campaign signposts our confidential, freephone National Domestic Abuse Helpline open 24/7.
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This is appalling and dangerous advice @richardm56. Women live in fear of their partners across the country - many are isolated and alone; Literally trapped. Womenâs lives depend on people calling out abuse. We support @GudrunBurnet to retract this ASAP.
This advice is alarming @richardm56. In many Domestic Homicide Reviews the neighbours were aware but did nothing thinking it was a âprivate issueâ. Saying âI think theyâre both just fine. If they were going to kill each other, theyâd have done it by nowâ is unhelpful. Pls retract
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"More than half the Metropolitan police officers found guilty of sexual misconduct remained in their jobs." With women already lacking trust and confidence in reporting to the police, what message does this send to survivors?
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It takes around 7 attempts before a survivor can safely leave an abusive partner. If you're contemplating leaving, we can help. #Chantelle #EastEnders @bbceastenders.
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MASSIVE thanks to fantastic feminist funny man @herring1967 for raising a staggering >ÂŁ118,000 (and counting) this #IWD2019. That could pay for 2,269 nights in a refuge for a woman & her children who've fled domestic violence. Thank you ALL for another amazing yr of fundraising!
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As we celebrate all the great dads on #FathersDay, pl think about those who wonât be. Read top down,@RefugeCharity @McCannBristol poem reveals a happy child reminiscing his loving father, but in reverse, a terrifying tale unfolds. Pl RT:no-one should have 2 live in fear.#TurnToUs
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Every day women are abused online. It is incredibly worrying to hear that X may be removing the block feature, which, for many women and girls, provides vital protection. Whatever replaces it must be a step forward for online safety, not a step back.
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Thank you to @nazirafzal @junodawson @ranvir01 @CHIMPSINSOCKS @LutaloMuhammad @TVSanjeev @bronaghwaugh for joining the call to make #Misogyny part of our hate crime laws. Add your voice:
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"Hereâs to strong women. May we know them. May we be them. May we raise themâ & may we continue to support them through our life-saving services. Weâre watching @Film4 #Suffragette on @Channel4 now. Stay tuned for our #Refuge100 launch next week & how you can get involved. .
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There are 1071 #MetPolice officers who have been, or are currently, under investigation for allegations of domestic abuse or #VAWG. We cannot accept anything but a zero-tolerance approach to this behaviour. Demand immediate action from the Home Secretary:
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We are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of @tinaturner, a legendary singer, performer & in her own words a survivor of domestic abuse. We were privileged to work with @TinaTheMusical to celebrate the rock goddess. She was iconic. May she rest in power. #TheBest.
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#GalentinesDay is all about women supporting women. 1 in 4 women will experience domestic abuse in their lifetime - someone you know may well have been affected. If you know a friend, family member or colleague is experiencing abuse, point them to us:
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Amazing news for #Sallychallen. Congrats to @David_Challen-who has not only fought tirelessly to end the suffering they've endured together for the past 9 years, but also campaigned tirelessly to raise awareness on #coercivecontrol with this landmark case.
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Sadly, many women like #Chantelle are killed before they are able to leave their abuser as it the most dangerous time for survivors. 2 women a week are killed by a current or former partner in England and Wales â a statistic which should horrify us all. #EastEnders @bbceastenders
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Our thoughts are with Sarah Everardâs friends and family at this awful time. She should have been safe to walk home, she should be here now. Yet women continue to be in danger, on the streets and in their homes, simply because they are women.
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We welcome the Governmentâs announcement that it is launching a review into the presumption that child contact is always in the best interests of children in cases of #DomesticAbuse. Thank you to @TheSundayMirror for its campaigning on this issue:
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It takes tremendous courage to leave an abusive partner, if youâre thinking of leaving we are here to support you. Speak to our expert National Domestic Abuse Helpline team, Freephone, 24 hours a day - #YouAreNotAone:
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.@ClarenceHouse Take a look at our #COVID19 Survivor Tips for women experiencing #domesticabuse during this time of crisis. No one is alone in this - we are here for you.
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Alcohol or football matches do not cause abuse, it is always a choice. However, we do know tournaments can aggravate pre-existing abusive behaviours. Please help us answer every call from a woman who needs us. Donate now: #Euros2020
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Many women & children are forced to stay with violent partners because they don't want to abandon their pets. We work w/ charities inc. @DogsTrust & @CatsProtection to offer pet fostering services until pets can be reunited w/ their owners: #LoveYourPetDay
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Big thank you to @ChelseaFC which has partnered with us and is matching every ÂŁ1 donation made to us. With experts warning of a "domestic abuse pandemicâ, women experiencing domestic abuse need our support today. Donate now:
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âFundamentally domestic abuse is a manâs issueâ, says Refuge champion @sirpatstew. âWeâre the people who have to take care of it and solve it.â Powerful words from our incredible #RefugeSheroes
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"Refuge stands in solidarity with all survivors of domestic abuse and believes that all survivors must be believed and supported. We know that high profile cases in the media can be extremely triggering for survivors of abuse." @RuthKDavison (1/4) đ§ľ.
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"People don't understand how much psychological abuse can take its toll on a person. It is as damaging as physical violence." Today @David_Challen's mum will appear in court to appeal against her conviction for murdering her husband. Listen to their story:
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We are so pleased that the ârough sex defenceâ is finally being brought to an end. This is an essential step towards challenging victim blaming and ending violence against women and girls.
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Our CEO @RuthKDavison on the decision to allow #AndrewTate back onto Twitter. âThe decision to allow Andrew Tate back onto Twitter shows that online misogyny is not only welcome, but apparently encouraged.
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âThis is not one #BadApple, or two, this is a fundamental problem of a culture of violent #Misogyny within the policeâ @RuthKDavison, Refuge CEO. Demand radical change, add your name to our open letter >>
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We stand in solidarity with Gisèle Pelicot. Her powerful words and courage on behalf of other survivors to change the narrative is nothing short of admirable. "Itâs not for us to have shame - itâs for them".
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Gray tells #Chantelle that he knows her every move and that she should play along in front of family. Being coerced into doing what your partner wants is abuse, and 1 in 4 women in England and Wales will experience it in their lifetimes. We can help
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If youâre a survivor of #DomesticAbuse with a secret or secondary phone, the governmentâs new #EmergencyAlerts could reveal your phone even if itâs on silent. The emergency alerts are being tested this Sunday at 3pm, find out how to turn the alerts off >>
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