Surprised that this needs to be said but a person can't give informed consent whilst drinking so alcohol should not be present when any porn is being filmed and should not be consumed before or during a shoot because it automatically invalidates any consent
@beckymil1
I mean I agree but put the blame onto the buyers who only spend money on "teens" and the exceptional milf and not onto the workers who need to make a living
@kneeyockartee
Counter point - someone actually has more self-respect when they don't allow social shame/stigma to prevent them from acting on their desires
@SummerHartxxx
@ManyVids
This is why I find adult creators using AI platforms to edit photos so dangerous because that is training these algorithms and giving them liscence to use the photos that were uploaded
If I see anyone say the phrase "Why didn't she say no?" in response to a SA allegation I'm going to immediately be on guard around you because that is a big neon red flag comment.
I was raped. I didn't say no because I didn't think it was safe to do so. I didn't consent.
They aren't a "part of the job" but they are always a possibility of sex, especially unprotected sex (which this industry seems to love for some reason), and getting a STI is not a character flaw, doesn't make you "dirty" or "unclean".
Doctor Tampa, Can Elon Unshadow Ban Me Since I Pay
Getting an STD is not part of the job in this industry.
I have been doing boy girl scenes for over a decade, everybody is freshly tested, and I have never had an STD.
Anybody making you think STDs are part of the job, is simply a nasty fuck who can't keep their dick clean in
Send out a message to existing subs on OF that I'm fully closing down the page and removing all posts/media to focus on other platforms.
I will keep my page so existing scene partners can still tag me, but i will no longer be making scenes on that platform
This is a sad day - it was
@GhoulsMagazine
that gave me a platform to publish my writing and through them I found wonderful community and friends for life 💜
The work that
@ZoboWithShotgun
and
@PendlePumpkin
did with this mag was amazing.
@livieblainn
Can you keep it up while a camera and lighting person is breathing over your shoulder to get the best angles?
So much research that folks don't do
Define "attracted to" because that can mean something different to everyone.
I'm personally never working with people who's morals/politics/ethics are different to mine because I would not enjoy their company/would feel unsafe.
Some may say that is attraction?
@T_Anne21
I like to think I'm perfectly average which means very easy to dress them up 🩷💜💙
Also love the concept of this thread - only celebrating big dicks is boring 😴
Queerness being fetishized to sell content with the Cishet male gaze should not be swept under the rug as "just part of the job" because every straight person (regardless of gender) who shoots "gay for pay" is removing opportities for actual Queer sex workers
@SummerHartxxx
Honestly it is scary- I'm based in Ireland and rumblings of our own govt trying to either make it fully criminal or so hard to access that it may as well be illegal.
The fact so many people don't see how sex worker rights and LGBTQ rights are linked worries me
Well lived out a real life Queer rom-com by flying to Iceland to have a weekend long second date with the most amazing and wonderful Transmasc person from Seattle that I men when he was visiting Ireland.
Unfollowing any creators I see that drop ads for their sites under random viral tweets
Its such a icky thing to do and unless a tweet calls for porn replies, it shouldn't be done
@ZoboWithShotgun
Honestly- dating at any age is the same realisation of "most humans are awful and not worth my time"
As a solo polyam person, I love and value my own space and time enough that someone has to be pretty spectacular to want them in my space
@gingercorners
Starting to here more and more stuff creeping out of the woodwork about this guy. Very sorry you got fucked over. I've been there when someone petty blocks you and you can't then use the content (also when I was naive and didn't have release forms).
@plantgal666
It really pisses me off when I see white creators using racist fetishized terms to describe co-creators of colour - shows a lack of empathy in my eyes
I had one of the most fun and erotic and passionate Queer sex experiences of my life that ended in simultaneous orgasm while Orange Wine by Jasmin Savoy Brown played ✨️💅🏻
@liss_dolledup
Honestly- and the amount of creators I see making light of minorities for "funny tiktoks" to try and go viral really makes me question the moral compass of some folks in this industry
@JayElHarris
Hanging out at a friends house isn't "going out" and I think it is pretty disingenuous to ignore that.
If the question was "socialise with friends" then that changes the parameters of the potential answers