Hi. Here with a little reminder that good sex is allowed to matter. And frankly, if your partner is so great, why aren't the attuning to you in this area?.

Friendly reminder, boundaries are focused on you. Your actions, your choices. Telling others what they can/cannot do is a control tactic. For example: "my boundary is that you can't surf with men" -- control tactic.

Conscious hip hop and leaving the gym at midnight. Is it 2013 again?.

Ever get stuck in not really knowing what to do with a hottie you want to play with? Or be uncertain about how to bring your desires to life? I'm talking about this and more for CUFF. Come!.

'This Barbie is a bus driver ' I mean, not for a few years but. 😂

Wait, is this saying I need to marry a hot barbarian?. That actually tracks.

I said I would cry at my enemies.

Perimenopause, as usual, can eat my whole ass.

Something that's always come pretty easy to me is not really being a jealous partner, but y'all it's 10:22 PM and my partner just made himself a post-sex ice coffee. And he'll be asleep by 11pm.

RT @SunnyMegatron: “Our job is to incentivize the p rn industry to only sell legitimate product” → at the end of the day that’s what EVERYO….

. Was Luther always this intense? Did I just use some much more stamina for fictional evil?.

RT @QueeringPsych: As long as you know how to regulate yourself and/or regulate nervous systems with others, then do you. It’s more than re….

RT @QueeringPsych: The point of somatic/mindfulness/trauma work is NOT to be present all the time. Ew no. The point is so you have options….

If you're Canadian and looking for some homegrown talent, check out @lunamatatas for consultations OR workshops (another fantastic date night idea!).

@GoddessCecilia is another fantastic and very affordable US-based option.

If you're in the US, @DirtyLola would be a FANTASTIC choice - you might remember her from Netflix's Principles of Pleasure or recently winning Sexpert of the year.

It's 5pm on #ValentinesDay Did you space on a gift? Here's a last-minute idea that doesn't suck. Hire a sex educator for a guided sex toy shopping date. From the pleasure of your living room, you & your sweeties can relax while working with a personalized shopper!.

Okay, I know late night scrolling is bad for my sleep. But if I don't on top of my bed, said bed is TOASTY when I eventually get in it!.

I was excited about this when I first heard. Got the update today. It's confusing as heck. I have to keep shelling out gems to fail tests for levels I apparently completed?!. Super hate it.

Ah the STBBI and safer sex lecture. The class where at least one student learns cold sores are herpes simplex virus and that, yes, they have herpes.