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Man, Uncle, Geologist, Proudly Agbafian. Umunede First son. SONDER.
Ika First Son. Earth 🌎
Joined October 2012
Embrace the grace of now, separate from the haze of what may follow. In the symphony of existence, each birth emerges from the echoes of the past. Yet, let us treasure this fleeting life, for its essence is woven in the tapestry of eternity.
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Your man is the one who teaches you how to be a wife to him. Marriage is governance. He leads, protects, provides and guides the family. Your role is to listen, follow, support and inspire him. Every man leads differently and a wise woman learns his way. 1/2
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If religious leaders were true "seers" of marriage compatibility. Some of their wives won't be cheating. Some, would not be divorced. And some of them, would not have children that are lunatics. They should have seen that marriage with their spouse, wasn't compatible. End.
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There’s a clear difference between hiding pain and being damaged. Someone who’s hiding pain still feels the hurt but is trying to move through it quietly. They might use tattoos, smiles, or confidence to mask what they’ve been through. The pain is there, but they’re still
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Please distant yourself from any of your brothers that is into fraud. Avoid taking anything from him. Encourage him to turn a new leaf, from that distant. Because when he starts to see the consequences, you'll suffer with him, if you enjoyed his money. He'll be a thorn in
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Any business you start with fraudulent or stolen money, will not last. One way or the other, you'll see that business crash. If you pay rent with it, at some point, you won't be able to pay, & you'd be kicked out. If you build with it, after sometime, that house will become a
@jon_d_doe People will always say, use the money and start other businesses as if it erases the fact that the money is a fraudulent money. The repercussion is always heavy.
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Asides cheating, genotype compatibility, or tribal differences. Another reason why some of you are still single, is because some religious leaders have made it so. Until you stop going to them for whatever prophecies on your relationship life, you'll continue to be miserable.
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You can be anything in life & do anything in life, but one thing that you must never do, is to steal from another man. Everyone loves money, because we need it to get by, daily. If you deprive another man & his innocent children of his legitimate sweat, you have crossed the red
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A young man must learn how to cook, so that when he's on his own, he can survive. He's not learning how to cook, so that he will cook for his gf or wife. A young woman must learn how to cook, so that when she's on her own, she can survive. She's learning how to cook, so that
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If you're a single lady below 25 years of age. Your real boyfriend should be young, broke, or just starting life. And he should be legitimate. That's how you build a relationship, & earn your place in a man's life. But you're allowing your greedy mother to deceive you. End.
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That's what a lot of men have failed to realize. They allow the crocodile tears of women to deceive them. When a woman has conquered her greatest fear of losing you, there is nothing she would fear anymore. Disrespect & repeated cheating would be the order of the day. End.
@jon_d_doe She was caught previously, but your brother forgave her. He's reaping what he sowed.
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6 major things may delay a woman from getting married. 1) if she's looking for a man that she'll love 2) if she thinks being a virgin is all that matters 3) if she's greedy & impatient 4) if she's a single mother 5) if she's a habitual cheat 6) if she's too religious End.
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Some of you will be reacting to my posts in a way that seems as if I sniffed cocaine. I don't understand you ooo. There are wives suffering from untreated fibroid, and it sometimes causes them to bleed, even when they're not on their period. There are wives that are suffering
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Once you marry off your daughter, you have transferred your authority over her, to her husband. She'll answer his name, & live by the rules, culture & traditions of her husband's father. Your married son retains your name, culture & traditions. Your authority remains. End.
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Anytime you date or marry a girl from a family who takes pride in getting rich at all cost, you will struggle in that relationship or marriage should anything go wrong with your finances. I had a friend who was dating a lady whose brothers were into fraud. This guy will do
A married man and his wife, have a 5 year old daughter. He was working with an energy company as a contract staff, but was making good income that was putting food on their table. Frustrated by the company's refusal to convert him into a permanent staff, due to their nepotism,
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I'll say this because it's what I'll do. You don't have to believe me, neither do you have to do it. If you are feeding your wife & kids with legit money, but your wife's brothers are criminals. Please, warn her not to use the money that they give her, to feed your kids. End.
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@jon_d_doe Most men today seem weak, largely because many weren’t raised or mentored by their fathers or grow up with their brothers. Even during courtship, they often fail to carry out simple tests that could help them identify red flags in a relationship. Instead, their attention is
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You're married, & you travel with your wife to the village, where your married brothers also came with their wives. You all are staying in a big family house. 7am, all other co-wives are awake, doing different house chores. But your wife is still in bed. Shame on you. End.
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It doesn't matter if she works from 6am to 10pm, weekly. A lady that was trained properly by her mother, will not be in bed later than 6am. I have told you young men. If you like, keep making baseless excuses for her. You'll see the result of your excuses in marriage. End.
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I am a very strong advocate of men taking good care of their wives and children. And as long as that is happening, I'll never advise any woman to leave her home. Even if the man is a cheat. But where I draw the line, is if the man is an extremely violent man. And a criminal
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Make no mistakes, we have lovely wives and good mothers who are the main providers in their families. And they will raise a very responsible family, with the fathers of their children. But those men have to be "responsible" husbands. Good night.
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