The Odin
@TheOdin_II
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Rebuilt bachelor. 2 kids. No drama. Wore the ring, did the time—now walking light. DMs open for matchmaking & real talks. Might post receipts. No cash requests.
England, United Kingdom
Joined January 2021
Matchmaking profile. A 30-year-old Muslim entrepreneur based in Lagos, Nigeria (Genotype: AS), 5’7”, smart and grounded wants something serious, a relationship that leads to marriage. She’s hoping to meet a Muslim man between 32 and 35 who’s truly ready to settle down and build.
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She said she gave her love, her time, even her body, now he says he has moved on and blames her for everything. She still loves him. Agbafians, please, what should she do? 👇
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7. Final truth:. When she says “be vulnerable,” she’s asking:. “Can I feel safe with you emotionally?”.“Can I see the real you without walls?”. That’s what builds deep love. Dear men, your woman doesn’t want you to fall apart. She wants to feel close to the part of you that’s.
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6. The biggest mistake? Oversharing without self-control. Many men go from hiding everything to pouring out every insecurity. That’s not what she wants. She wants balance, truth, confidence, and openness.
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5. Real strength is staying open, even when it’s uncomfortable. Many men were raised to believe that showing emotion = weakness. But real strength is showing up with emotion, not being ruled by it.
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4. She wants emotional maturity. Vulnerability means you can say things like:. “I’m struggling right now.”.“I don’t have the answer.”.“I felt hurt when that happened.”. Not silence, shutdowns, or anger.
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3. It’s about trust, not therapy. She doesn’t want to be your therapist. She wants to trust that you’ll speak your truth, even when it’s hard. That’s strength, not dumping your emotions and expecting her to fix them.
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2. She wants honesty, not emotional overload. Being vulnerable means being real with your feelings, not hiding behind silence, pride, or fake strength. She wants to know what’s truly going on with you, not your daily panic.
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1. She’s not asking you to cry every day. When she says, “Open up,” she doesn’t mean she wants endless emotions, tears, or weakness. She’s not asking for you to be an emotional mess.
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What does a woman really mean when she says: “Be more vulnerable”?. Most men misunderstand this. And that misunderstanding causes problems in many relationships. Let’s break it down 👇. 🧵.
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Men need to ask themselves, “Am I trying too hard to be in control?. Do I feel like I must be above others to feel worthy?” That’s where healing starts. Women need to keep rising, to speak their truth, be bold, and not shrink themselves to make others comfortable. When men and.
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For too long, the world has made people think that strength only means power, control, and being tough. That’s the “masculine” side. But the “feminine” side, being kind, calm, patient, emotional, and wise, has been pushed away or seen as weak. This is not just about women. It’s.
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All of these claims are based on fear, not fact, they have nothing to do with sex itself. Sex, by itself, doesn’t carry spiritual curses or destiny swaps. What matters is the choices, mindset, and values behind your actions, not the act. 🤷♂️.
@TheOdin_II Pre-marital sex can bring you down. Premarital sex can implicate you. Pre-marital sex can exchange your destiny. Premarital sex can make you miss your destiny helper.Pre-marital sex can drain your life. Pre-marital sex can finish you. This is the spiritual part.
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Sexual chemistry is not the same as emotional connection. You can feel strong attraction to someone, your body reacts, the energy is hot, but that doesn’t mean you truly know them, trust them, or feel safe with them. Sexual chemistry is physical. Emotional connection is deeper,.
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People cheat even in happy relationships. It’s not always about lack of love or bad sex. Some cheat because of ego, boredom, opportunity, or emotional emptiness. Regardless, it’s a choice. 🤷♂️.
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Many people think that once you get married, you’ll have more sex. But that’s not always true. Some married couples go weeks, months, or even years without having sex. Just because you’re living together or wearing rings doesn’t mean you’ll be close all the time. Sex in.
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What sex can affect is your focus or energy level. If you don’t rest well afterward, for example, you might feel tired. But that’s just biology, not luck. Blaming your success or failure on sex is a way of avoiding responsibility. It’s like saying eating bread makes you pass.
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A lot of people grow up hearing things like, “If you have sex before an important event, you’ll fail,” or “Sex brings bad luck before a game, interview, or exam.”. Others think sex can magically bring good luck, like it’s some kind of charm or curse. Let’s set the record.
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Marriage is a beautiful and meaningful union. It’s more than just companionship. It’s a deep connection built on love, trust, and shared purpose. As the saying goes, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing,” because finding the right partner brings favour, stability, and joy.
@TheOdin_II Marriage is a trap set by the dev!l to pvnish men.
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“The Odin, your advice is always too soft.”. That’s exactly why many of you keep ending up in trouble, you think soft means weak. But in real life, softness is wisdom when emotions are running hot. Let me say this clearly: as a man, the system is already tilted against you in.
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I hear you, but I believe I don’t have to push anyone too hard, especially a man already facing deep struggles. What he needs is a gentle, steady push, not force. A hard push might only trigger anger, poor decisions, or even something as serious as ending up in jail. You all.
@TheOdin_II @TheOdin_II I applaud your commitment to helping young me find their way but to be honest, your advice is too watered down to help this man that’s already drowning. I wish I can have a one on one session with him to share how I dealt with this same issue in the past! I would….
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