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“Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities.” (Voltaire). Welcome to the trans ideology movement which encourages medical experimentation on children & thinks male-bodied people should be in women's sports, prisons, hospital wards & changing rooms.
Many who know me are puzzled by my position on gender ideology. It's simple.I've been a lifelong (nearly 50 yr) feminist & lesbian activist.This is the biggest threat to women's rights in my lifetime.Trans ideologues are attempting to literally erase the sex-based class "woman."
Just to be very clear: men having the mental health issue of gender dysphoria and/or the sexual fetish of autogynephilia is not a civil rights issue. Women being deprived of safety, privacy and fairness by those men is a civil rights issue.
From its inception, I questioned adding "T" to "LGB" as one had nothing to do with the other. It never made logical sense. But I let it go. After all, "transsexuals" were a very small cohort and I had no issue with people with gender dysphoria pursuing treatment.
Do you ever wonder why there is no male equivalent for "Terf?" Do you ever wonder why there isn't a big issue about women identifying as "trans" playing on mens' teams?" Do you ever wonder why most of the trans ideologue vitriol comes from men at women? See e.g.JK Rowling.Answer:
Now, the vast majority of men identifying as "trans" are straight men with autogynephilia, they derive sexual pleasure from thinking of themselves as women. We used to call this "cross-dressing."
Women's prisons, changing rooms and bathrooms have been historically single sex for reasons of safety and privacy. Over 97% of sexual crimes are committed by men. Since women cannot tell the predators by looks alone, single sex spaces are intended to promote safety.
I came out as a lesbian at age 16 in the mid-1970s and I've been an "out" lesbian since then. Indeed, I was expelled from my first college dorm for being gay and I've been called "queer," a slur, more times that I count.
I've been an out lesbian for nearly 50 years. I could never have imagined a time when saying lesbians aren't attracted to male bodies, & don't have male bodies, is considered "hate speech." And apparently now we eject lesbians from Pride events for such speech.
Men who identify as "trans" have committed murders (see e.g.Dana Rivers) and rapes (see e.g. Stephen Hayes). Men identifying as trans have been transferred to women's prisons and committed multiple sexual assaults.
People suffering with genuine gender dysphoria-that is a persistent lifelong feeling of being the other sex-deserve respect, privacy, and treatment if sought. Trans people are not the same as trans ideology. Just as gay people are not the same as "queer theory."
When women speak out in an effort to preserve their rights whether for safety, privacy or fairness (sports), they are subject to vicious attacks often accompanied by death threats (see. e.g. JK Rowling).
Trans issues are confusing for people on the left because they mistake the small number of people with genuine gender dysphoria with trans ideologues who empower men with sexual kinks & pose the greatest threat to women's and children's rights in our lifetime.
While the effects of hormone blockers may be reversible in the sense that when stopped, the hormones will start up again, the effects of the "pause" on children and adolescent bodies may be damaging and permanent, affecting bone and brain development and fertility.
"Trans" used to mean "transexual"- a very small group of people (mostly men) who suffered from a lifelong sense of gender dysphoria and sought medical remedies (hormones and surgery) to relieve their suffering.
Note that most of the accusations of transphobia are directed at women who seek to preserve same-sex spaces and rights-there is even a word for it "TERF."
Many children and adolescents grow out of feelings of being "trans." But surgery (most often done on young girls in the form of double mastectomies) is quite permanent. Remember, boys and men usually keep their genitals fully intact.
Trans ideologues have also done damage to the gay community. They have attacked gay people calling them transphobic for refusing to date people with opposite sex genitals. They have brought down, among other things, Boston Pride and the Michigan Women's Music Festival.
But then, over the past decade, this small cohort has become an ideological mob, threatening the foundation of women's sex-based rights, threatening the health and well-being of children with unnecessary surgeries and experimental medications, and threatening gay rights.
Lesbians and gay men need to reclaim the gay rights movement or we put at serious risk the positive gains hard fought and hard won over the past half-century. In the words of
@jk_rowling
"this is not a drill."
#LGBWithoutTheT
But what I realized over time is that there is no there, there. The Emperor has no clothes. "Trans" ideology is a regressive and dangerous social contagion steeped in misogyny and gender stereotypes.
If you want to search for it (but I recommend you don't), men identifying as "trans" have filmed and published all sorts of porn with the setting of women's rest rooms.
But I would never have believed it then (I barely believe it now) that in 2022: a) straight men would "identify" as lesbians b) lesbians would be called "transphobic" for not wanting to sleep with them and c) "queer" would be considered appropriate as a descriptor of gay people.
Trans ideology is a men's rights movement. From it's earliest days a primary goal was to invade women's spaces. Men identifying as "trans" protested their exclusion from the Michigan Women's Music Festival which has been a safe & joyful environment for lesbians for 4 decades.
When they hear "trans" a lot of people on the left imagine the former meaning of trans-someone truly suffering from lifelong gender dysphoria. So, of course, they sympathize. But "trans" doesn't mean that anymore.
Of course, there still are a small number of people with serious body dysphoria. They should have access to medical and mental health services to relieve their suffering. But the movement/cult that has been built on the backs of those individuals must be exposed and stopped.
By the way, one of the "trans" leaders of the Michigan Women's Music Festival protests, Dana Rivers, later murdered two lesbians and their son. And some wonder why women want to exclude men, however they identify, from women-only spaces.
I would never have believed that men could simply "identify" as women and, based on that, could lay claim to women's spaces and women's sex-based rights to safety, privacy and fairness.
I've been suspended on Twitter for saying Lia Thomas was a male-bodied person. But it's fine with Twitter if trans activists post death threats and pornography.
@jkrowling
has to beg for help in response to threats of violence. Yup.
#twitterhateswomen
and free speech.
I am fed up and feel disheartened daily by the reach and growth of this ideology. But, I am inspired by all of the people I see fighting this battle, often at great cost. Onward!
Trans ideology seeks to eliminate women as a sex-based class together with women's spaces intended to ensure safety, privacy & fairness. That is a goal not a collateral effect.
"If you research the etymology of the word gender you discover that the word gender, up until the 1970's in academia, and up until the 2010's in the general populace, had an identical meaning to sex."
They do not understand the implications of "self-id" and the reality that most men identifying as "trans women" do not suffer from body dysphoria but rather autogynephilia, a sexual kink (f/k/a cross-dressing).
Unfortunately, this ideology/theology is a social contagion. It is rapidly being incorporated into law and policy (including language requirements). Sadly, its incorporation into educational policy means a generation of children are being raised on it.
But, in the past decade, there has been increasing harm to our cause driven by the cult-like ideologies of trans activism & "queer theory" which have pushed "hearts and minds," policy, & law in the wrong direction & given right-leaning culture warriors an effective foothold.
Just a note that the pronouns everyone is increasingly performing are not their 1st person pronouns (the ones the person uses about themselves), they are 3rd person pronouns & are a request/requirement that other people use them. I don't do compelled speech. I enjoy free speech.
The very idea of being "trans" means discomfort with one's biological body. Children are already incredibly vulnerable to body image issues. Selling them "trans" (or "non-binary") ideology as a trendy alternative will only increase that kind of dangerous self-hatred.
As noted, I started on this with road with an open mind seeking to learn as much as possible. That has led me to the inescapable conclusion that "trans ideology" is a dangerous cult-like, theology posing grave harm to women, children & gay people.
At first, my instinct was to be open and listen, especially when so many of my friends, colleagues and neighbors seemed to embrace "trans" ideology. I read as much as I could (from all perspectives) and talked in depth with people who identify as "trans" and "non-binary."
I posted previously that a neighbor of mine reported that more than 25% of her son's public school 5th grade class (and the teacher) identify as "trans." How many of those children will go on to medical interventions and how many parents will support that?
Decades ago,the gay rights movement made a huge strategic error by adding "T" to LGB. It was obvious then that one of these things is not like the other. Now, the chickens have come home to roost. "T" is causing significant damage to gay rights & reversing decades of progress.
They ultimately destroyed it. Ask yourself-why didn't they attend any other of dozens of mix-sexed music festivals? Why the only festival by and for women? Answer:
It is mind-blowing to me that people on left support this ideology given the damage to children & young adults. Many (especially women) pursue irreversible surgeries, like bilateral mastectomies. Many children are sold experimental hormone blockers which cause permanent effects.
I would have been so happy when I was a young lesbian, if I knew then that someday I could legally marry and I'd be able to be a mom; if I'd known that positive social change can happen so quickly.
Of course, when people speak up, they are targets of the ideological mob. See e.g. J.K. Rowling (and so many others). But speak up we must. Whether it is an oped, a court case, a school committee meeting, or one-on-one conversations.
Despite the exponential growth of this ideology, I find that most people support the ideology of "trans" inclusion unwittingly. They still think of "trans" as that small cohort of people with terrible body dysphoria who pursue treatment to relieve suffering.
I see people questioning puberty blockers for young children. And I see gay people calling out the homophobic insistence that they date people based on self-declared "gender" rather than sex. Trans ideology rejects same-sex attraction.
I see glimmers of hope recently. I see the occasional article about why it's unfair for men (identifying as women) competing against women in sports. I see people bravely speak up about women's sex-based rights to safety, privacy and fairness.
The world has changed a lot for gay people over the past 50 years. There have been amazing positive changes driven in large part by smart, strategic activists using appeals to "hearts and minds" and legal challenges.
Most women I know prefer female gynecologists. I wonder how they will react when a male shows up claiming to be their "female" gynecologist & then, when they discover that if they complain, they are a "transphobe." Many chapters yet to be written the nightmare of trans ideology.
Twitter censorship reminds me so much of the Cultural Revolution. Twitter says you cannot say that an athlete like Lia Thomas is a male-bodied person (I was suspended for that) but Twitter says it's fine to say "I hope you get hit by a bus" or "I wish you were dead."
There was a discussion on Twitter this AM about males (IDing as women) in women's sports. Martina Navratilova
@Martina
weighed in & a man ("trans") responded to her saying "I'm not going to listen to some random woman on the internet" about women's sports. Can't make it up.
@GStandingready
As noted, women (& young girls) identifying as trans are far more likely to have major surgery (e.g.double mastectomies). This is beyond troubling. But women identifying as trans don't pose a great threat to women's spaces or women's sports. Most of the trans ideologues are men.
Trans ideology really comes down to The Emperor’s New Clothes. Most people know the truth but are cowed into silence in the face of political power and peer pressure. But some, and this amazes me, just disregard their eyes and mind and become true believers, impervious to fact.
A friend said her 10 yr. old son has a "trans" teacher & 25% of the class IDs as "trans" or "non-binary." Some say "what's the harm." The harm is that these children are being taught to disown or reject their bodies and many will seek dangerous medical intervention.
If women don't wake up and fight for their sex-based rights to safety, privacy and fairness, they will be lost. They will be lost through law, policy and custom.
I know that people who list pronouns in their bio may be well-intentioned but, when I see that, I assume that you are: not very bright, conformist, performative, and superficial. Just so you know. I may be wrong, of course. You might not be superficial.
The "trans" cultists have somehow managed to characterize people trying to protect women's sex-based rights, children and gay rights as "right wing." Au contraire. I've been a lesbian feminist activist for over 50 years and definitely lean left.
But male-bodied people with a sexual kink should not have access to women's changing rooms, hospital rooms, prisons etc. This is what we are fighting against.
It now largely means men with autogynephilia, a sexual kink, who keep their male bodies fully intact. Current trans ideology says a man can just declare-presto-I'm a woman and have access to women's spaces.
LBG with the T is causing serious harm to the gay rights movement which, until recently, enjoyed broad support across party lines. So, yes. It was a terrible mistake to align the T with LGB-they are entirely different things. Let's fix it.
#LGBwithouttheT
But I do care, very much, if law, policy, media and other people are forced to enter into this fantasy. Why? Because people should not be forced to believe in things that are not founded in facts and science, e.g. religion and ideology.
@colbertlateshow
@SenSanders
We can look back and go forward at the same time. It is why we study history. To learn from it so we go forward better informed.
So tired of hearing that people supporting women's rights "don't want trans people to exist." That is a classic and, frankly, stupid straw man argument. The issue is not with people identifying as trans. The issue is with male-bodied humans in women's spaces.
So the left was angry, rightly so, when Mike Lindell was invited to the Oval Office. But why no complaints when Biden invites the equally disturbed Dylan Mulvaney? Mulvaney is an adult man who newly identifies as a young girl and refers to women's vaginas as "Barbie pouches."
In case you thought we were not serious or truthful when we said that men can just declare themselves women and instantly walk into women-only private spaces, here's the glossary from GLADD ("GLBTQ Advocates and Defenders") describing what it means to be "trans."
Men believing or pretending they are women is not a civil rights issue. It is a mental health issue and/or sexual fetish. Treating it as a civil rights issue infringes on the genuine and important civil rights of women, children and gay people.
And because allowing that person's imagined self to become policy and law damages women's sex based rights to safety, privacy and fairness, damages children, and damages gay rights. This is a five alarm fire and people on the left need to wake up.
I don't know anyone who doesn't empathize with someone suffering with the rare condition of sex dysphoria. They should have medical and psychological support, as needed.
The best analogy is The Emperor's New Clothes. People saw the truth but were afraid to speak. Everyone knows that fable but if asked to apply it to trans world, the most factually analogous situation imaginable, they draw a blank. Truth:The Emperor was naked & men are not women.
Let me make this point on my feed. I don't care if someone wants to imagine themselves a different sex. I don't care if they take experimental hormones and surgery (if they are fully mature and fully informed adults).
For the life of me, I cannot understand how any woman identifying as a feminist is not fighting on the front lines against trans ideology. That ideology seeks to erase women's spaces and boundaries, even the word woman.
@andylassner
@jk_rowling
It is not an either/or. The question is whether someone can be fired from their job for simply having a point of view that sex is biologically determined. This is an issue of free speech and I always side with that, whether I like the speech or not.
@AdamParkhomenko
Remember the response when George Bush waited seconds to respond to 9/11? DJT waited hours to have any response at all and his first response was to "love" the terrorists.
Quite extraordinary that women are called bigots for not wanting male-bodied people in their changing rooms, hospital rooms, prisons & sports. TAs argue that "trans women" are not male-bodied by virtue of their imaginary identity. Nope. Male in every cell in their bodies.
That confusion is intentional.Trans ideologues use language games & blurring of common sense lines to try to intimate people not to ask any questions. If you question males in women's changing rooms or medically unnecessary surgeries on children you are called transphobe or TERF.
@genspect
@mcgilead
@USATODAY
It's very disturbing when male humans are designated "women of the year." Were there not enough adult female humans to chose from?
@LancsLGBT
@Mermaids_Gender
Why? LGB simply reflects a sexual orientation. T reflects some discord between body and mind. What do they have in common in your view?
GLADD: "It is important to note that being transgender is not dependent upon physical appearance or medical procedures. A person can call themself transgender the moment they realize that their gender identity is different than the sex they were assigned at birth."
@marcorubio
Last night, in the dead of night, the GOP took one of the most extreme anti-democratic actions by stealing a Supreme Court seat ignoring the "principles" that they used to deny Merrick Garland a seat. You have diminished the Supreme Court.
@BenSasse
Ben Sasse-Did you know that abortion levels were the lowest in 40 years under the Obama administration. Why? Access to contraception, education, and opportunity.
@hoovlet
@Harvard
It is beyond belief that this could happen to you simply for talking truthfully about biology. "Testosterone" is an important book for anyone who wants to understand the critical role that this hormone plays. It's also highly readable. So sorry for what's happened to you.
Happy Adverb Day! I made that up but surely every part of speech deserves a day of celebration. So, let's bravely, independently, thoughtfully and joyfully go forth to challenge orthodoxy and respect critical thinking.
@WalshFreedom
Which policies? Universal health care? Immigration Reform? Fair Tax system? Gun safety regulation? Ensuring access to voting? Civil rights? Investment in public education?
"Gender meant sex. Gender was used in writing and conversation in preference to the word sex, because sex also meant sexual intercourse. So to prevent confusion and so as to not evoke the thought of sex, the word gender was used."
I don't do compelled speech. No one can compel me to recite oaths or change my language to suit their preferences. I might choose to do it but no one has the right to compel me. One of the central problems with trans ideology is the efforts to compel speech.
I am very clearly a "trans" atheist (read my timeline). Men are not women and can't become women. And I think that gender ideology poses a massive threat to women's and children's rights and safety. But...
@leighfinke
@USATODAY
This is offensive to women-the idea that a male is superior to an actual Women of The Year. You have simply taken an honour that should have gone to a woman and you are proud of it. Disgusting, actually.