As a hyper-independent person, I’d love if someone just took a load off for me once in a while or did something to show I’m appreciated. The smallest act would mean a lot.
my financial advisor told me to close my savings account with my bank and to put it all into a high yield savings account. i feel like this is something more of us should know about.
I’m not built for entrepreneurship and that’s ok. I’m good at working 9-5’s and I find value in benefits like health insurance and 401K contributions. I don’t like when people try to convince me that owning a business is the only way to go.
I feel like men don’t realize how far simply planning something will get them with us. Even if it’s not expensive or extravagant, we be so impressed with effort, planning and thoughtfulness.
I went to karaoke last night and a fellow black girl started to sing an Erykah Badu song. So I did the “okayyyyy” yell of comradeship. A white chick turned around smiling and asked me “is this an African song?”.
Lol it’s mind boggling how my family thinks I’m not progressing because I’ve been back 2 years and I’m not a pioneer. My foundation was trash and I’m close to the point where it’s solid. THAT is progression.
We also can’t blame Satan for everything bad in our lives. Look at the choices you make everyday and sometimes you’ll find the problem been you this whole time.
Casual sex is one of the biggest scams sold to women because it only benefits men. If that man is not benefiting your life substantially in someway it’s best to keep your legs closed.
Black girls have this “angry” stigma but there are millions of middle aged white women abusing retail, food service and other customer service industry workers everyday. Where’s their stigma?