Ruchi
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Joined September 2009
Insecure people mistake narcissism for confidence. Confident people recognize narcissism for what it is: insecurity.
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women are taught that they aren't allowed to be angry, that it's aggressive, ugly, always unwarranted. so we cry when when we're mad, and we are mocked, diminished, dismissed. there is never a safe way for women to feel rage, yet even in silence we are blamed for saying nothing
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It can clear up a lot of confusion around childhood trauma, when you recognize abandonment is not just when someone walks away. It's also when someone who is meant to protect you, allows others to hurt you.
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He deserved at least 10 more slaps and pervert men who molest women like this in public totally deserve thrashing in front of all along with an FIR https://t.co/ietL98BTzN
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Just heard someone say “An insecure man will punish you for loving him” and per my experience, i couldn’t agree more.
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Shaming a person for responding to abuse in a way that’s “not acceptable” while ignoring what the abuser did to provoke them is next-level victim-blaming and gaslighting. Like how is a person supposed to respond to being pushed past their snapping point?
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A truly liberated society would not romanticize pregnancy. It would treat it as a choice so serious, lso sacrificial, that no one would ever be shamed for refusing it. Maybe the most radical thing a woman can do is look at the institution of motherhood
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साले बहुत कमीनें भरे हैं इस देश में। इज़्ज़त उतरवा रहे हैं दुनियां में।
गोवा के अरोम्बोल बीच पर घूमने गए कुछ देशी पर्यटक विदेशी महिला पर्यटक को देखकर सेल्फी लेने लगे। विदेशी महिलाए इस दौरान असहज महसूस कर रही थी। उसी वक्त एक अन्य व्यक्ति ने पूरी घटना का वीडियो बना लिया। वीडियो सामने आने पर वे पर्यटक उलझने की कोशिश करने लगे। कृपया इस मामले का संज्ञान
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A girl was raped for 7 months her pain filmed, shared, and mocked. Instead of justice, the police asked for a settlement. Shame on the monsters who did this. Shame on the system that protects them. @Uppolice this happened in Gorakhpur. You claim to have the best law & order ,
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So you rape, sodomize, use instruments while raping, and strangle a girl leaving her near death and you are out and about? How? It's called a deal and the DA made quite a deal with this devil named Jesse Butler. Everything was pled down to virtually nothing. Butler was charged
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I met someone who used to feel everything — people’s moods, silence, even tension that wasn’t hers. I asked how she stopped carrying emotions that didn’t belong to her. She said: “I stopped confusing awareness with responsibility.” She said she still notices everything — the
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The face of an angel....groomed raped and beaten died tragically aged 12. I will never stop fighting for justice for my daughter #seminahalliwell
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Manipulation is when they cry about the boundary you set, but never about the behavior that forced you to set it.
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A pattern I’ve noticed in charismatic people - they’re not trying to be charismatic. They’re trying to understand you. They’re intense listeners. They ask more than they speak. They make you feel seen and heard. You walk away from conversations with them feeling better about
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Remember when this came out, it shook and enraged the entire country to its very core. Nowadays statements like these are passed around at any random gathering, at tea stalls, on social media, amongst kids, and no one bats an eye. Just think about that for a second.
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If ‘sexual autonomy’ is their argument to legalise sex with 16 year old, then why stop at 16? Why not 15. 14? 9? The moment you allow it, you are encouraging content makers to sexualise teens, particularly school-going children My views at @ShivaniGupta_5’s show on @CNNnews18
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Let's talk about the other side of the story, the part nobody likes to admit. Men create drama in relationships too It's not just women "being emotional" or "acting crazy." No, sometimes the chaos, the tension, it all starts with a man being deeply inconsiderate and extremely
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Many people heal from the trauma, but it’s facing the loneliness, being ostracized, and having different needs from the trauma, that others still blame them for.
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People really do fumble you because they don't know what to do with you.. They never experienced someone of your caliber before so they treat you how they would normally treat everyone else & that's exactly where they lose you at.….
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