@transgabalus
Even when and where it exists, it’s probably as simple as “when people feel good and confident about what they’re wearing, their libido increases” rather than any sort of Blanchardian pseudoscience
@GiaPaige
Him & Riley Reid are the two biggest pieces of evidence for the industry caring more about clout than consent. A creator who’s small, niche, or outspoken against the establishment will catch more hell for a patently false accusation than someone who’s big and gleefully admits SA
@twinkdefcon
If Chris Chan looked like Blaire White, truscum would treat her like their own Tupac 😒 she’s become shorthand for the “non-passing-trans-woman-as-predator” trope, rather than merely an individual who did something unthinkable
@cisgenderhaver
I feel like there’s this giant void between “nerd and tech” trans spaces and “drugs, unsafe sex, and dead by 30” trans spaces and those of us who want neither are often painted as judgmental qssholes for wanting something that’s neither
@judgementshae
See also, asking “are you attracted to women?” and getting misinterpreted as angling for a threesome when you’re actually softballing “will you still want to be with me if I transition?”
Everything I do is for Chloe, the trans woman who loved me and helped me take my first steps outta the closet. She died of violence in 2009. I changed my name to hers to pay homage.
Every transgender activist you know carries with them the deaths of dozens of trans people whose stories made an impact on us.
It never gets any easier.
We owe it to all of them. One day we'll make a monument in their names and their memories will live forever.
Hold onto them.
It’s AMAZING how many people think that someone who isn’t “conventionally attractive” but has a partner who is hasn’t “earned” their partner’s affection.
Y’all keep picking partners based on who looks good next to you on instagram and wonder why you stay dealing with heartbreak
@pepronimacroni
@plazynoodles
At least for me, it’s less about raising awareness or “cancelling” than it is about making sure there’s enough readily accessible information to ensure that once her “family” steps off a plane here, and they eventually will, that - [REDACTED]
@sundaysundya
The root of this is white zoomer trans girls who grew up in some cul-de-sac using ballroom slang
Calling themselves “the dolls” when they were born in 2002 in Orange County 😂
This is why we need better wages and working conditions for trans performers, on par with what cis women make. If one of the top five performers in trans porn is struggling to afford insulin, what chance of financial security do any of the rest of us have?
We gotta demand more.
@utilitylesbian
@tronsgender
Best thing I ever learned was to either run in the opposite direction or attack whenever I hear therapyspeak or nonprofitspeak