The way I hid my trauma behind good behavior, shyness and people pleasing as a kid. People thought I was an angel but really I was terrified to have a personality so I chose obedience. So much to heal as an adult.
To this day, many of my family members including my parents are just now meeting the real me. It’s something I carry a lot of shame around, but it’s taken me decades to recognize and display the dynamics of my actual personality beyond just being agreeable.
@thekayanova
@F_AName
I didn’t realize I was a “good child” until I was 20 and I’m still recovering from all those years of hiding myself. Like my family would be so surprised when I revealed things about myself that I thought they already knew
@thekayanova
The way you’ve verbalized my whole life into actual words, that I’ve struggled severely to find for so long, should really be studied. Wow.
@thekayanova
Wow, this sounds like my childhood as well. I felt shame… oh I mean lots of it! I figured if I hide it then everything would go away. But trauma never does, it only resurfaces. So glad I’m not that little girl anymore but I still honor her.
@thekayanova
@imprettylikeart
i appreciate you and your ability to put this into words for the countless adults who had this same feeling and for the kids who are going through it now ❤️