Yes, I am up and working on a Saturday. I reopened my Etsy shop the other day for very affordable content writing. I am adding more listings today.
Feel free to follow my shop and share with others please and thank you! 🙏
Has anyone actually landed a job from LinkedIn in the past 3 or 4 years? I am seriously starting to think these postings are borderline a scam anymore.
I no longer take calls with people just wanting to "pick my brain" to get help or advice with writing/content marketing. My time is limited, and dedicated to my clients. If people want to pick my brain, it's going to be at the rate of $60 per hour.
NO is a complete sentence. For the 3rd time this week, I have had to reiterate that numerous times. Can we stop training people in sales, marketing, & recruiting that no just means not right now? No means just that, NO. Not interested. Not needed. No necessity. NO means NO.
Cheers to 2 years no booze. I turned a 30 day detox challenge into an entirely different lifestyle choice. Now I use my old festival glasses as juice glasses 🤣😂
@AlyssaM_InfoSec
@WiCySorg
And just when I was going to put this on the 2024 roster... Guess I can save my money and time then. I'll be sticking to cons where I can go to that allows for the safety of my trans homies as well as me. I stand by you on this. So sorry this is hurting you.
As much as I have tried to make a career in security happen for me, until there is more true diversity, equality, & empathy happening, I don't plan to be returning to an FTE role in cybersecurity. It is a hard enough industry. Big egos & misogyny make things worse for everybody.
How is everyone able to afford vacations in this economy?! Asking for a friend. That friend is me.
I need a 🤬vacation without it costing me a small fortune...
Today is the anniversary of what I like to call my "independence" day. It was the last day of my toxic marriage & the first day of my future. If there are people in your life who minimize your ideas & tell you they are impossible… Do yourself the honor of setting them free.
If my Twitter buds could take a minute or two to send some good vibes my way today, I would really appreciate it. Still nervous to have this testing done. Trying not to let my mind spiral too much right now.
One of the hardest realizations I have had to openly admit (and now publicly) is that I am just not a fast writer. However, I am an effective writer. If you want a 24-hour turnaround time or less, then I am not your writer. Quality over quantity is my motto.
#writerlife
Today, I officially announced my departure from my current employer. It's been great learning experience for me in the CTI space & increased my knowledge base. However, with life being life, I felt the pull that it was time to return to something more flexible (>30 hours) for me.
Today is an important day to me. It's not only my gotcha day of my soul puppy but it's also the day I set myself free from my marriage to my ex that nearly destroyed me.
6 years later I am still nearly as broke as I was on that day in 2018, but despite all the ups and down that…
It's officially the 1 day a year that Facebook is the most popular social media for me. Can't wait for all the HBD wishes people who barely talk to me year round! I say that with both sincerity & mild distain.
Still going to be an amazing day! I get to see some of my homies! 🥳
@neonexdeath
my dude, the literal economic gaslight that we have been dealing with as a country, let alone the world, is coming to a end. Regardless of political affiliation, they are all in bed together. What's done in the dark will come to light. Politics itself is a grifters delight.
Hey
#infosec
folks. I am looking for several female leaders or pros to watch in the space to feature on my blog next month for women's history month. All women are welcome.
No TERF💩allowed here. And if you have a problem with it or anyone on that ends up on the list, I'll just…
I did a spicy thing this weekend and built out my pricing page on my website because I am tired of chasing my tail with leads. I wanted people to know what to expect and pay to work with me. Thank you
@kaleighf
for your podcast for this inspiration!
#freelancers
#freelancewriter
Is anyone else just feeling exhausted lately?
I feel like I have been just lying on the couch for two days. Been constantly tired all week. I can attest I have eaten, slept, and bathed. Might have been my only accomplishments, but I accomplished them. 😴💤
Been home for a few hours now after surgery. Procedure and process went well. Now to time to rest and recover for the next few days. I am sure I will be more sore tomorrow. Thank you all for the well wishes. 💚🫶🏼
My birthday is next weekend. Still pondering what I do to for it currently. I don't drink. Don't do crowds or parties anymore. I have like 4 friends around me I talk to regularly. Might just lay in the hammock all day and do nothing for once.
#freelancers
- Does actual passive income really exist, or are people just full of 💩? I have tried creating digital downloads, affiliate links, & selling cheap templates to keep some income continuously flowing. However, I have yet to find "luck" seeing a decent return on it.
I want to start a campaign to change the terminology of "zero trust" to something more realistic, like reasonable verification or trust architecture.
Literally, 1 tech dude coined the term in 2010, and now the tech sales and marketing industry has just run wild with it. 🤦♀️
S/O to my former self today. Got 1st solo account 5 yr ago today to prepare to leave my ex & have a safety net. Each $5 I hid for months, Xmas $, $10 a paycheck, & coins I stashed away. We made it out & are safe. Now the same account is where I make $$ for my biz. Proud of us. ❤️
Today would have been my 3 year no booze anniversary.
I ruined that goal 8 months back when I picked up drinking occasionally again followed by smoking 🚬 cigarettes again too after life just got to me.
The truth is 2023 was a bad year for me. I made a lot of life decisions…
I did a BIG thing for myself today. I wrote the letter that someone needed to see almost 2 decades ago. Then I burned it. It was messy & gut wrenching but I needed it to be said & written somehow even if the person in question never hear it from me. This is what healing looks…
@cybersecmeg
I don't understand why people take notes or care so much about what someone is wearing. Sorry, but that is corporate toxic life that I DO NOT MISS. If you can get the job done successfully in a hoodie and leggings, why does it matter if you are in your jammies?
#justsaying
I felt the calling to share my story and journey into
#cybersecurity
today. The real one. Not the edited one you may have seen. Feel free to give it a read, if you want. Grateful for this community and putting up with my own brand being unapologetically me.…
Things I am not:
- stupid
- a moron
- some "youngster" in tech who knows nothing.
- a dumb blonde
- a diversity hire
People need to think about this when retweeting my posts with their added bias & commentary. I don't not appreciate being a target for someone else's bigotry.
Lost another one to the big C today.
Tell people you care about you love and appreciate them before it's too late.
If anyone needs me I'll having crying intervals while working today. Love ya'll. Take care of yourselves, please.
Update! So good news, but not glowing news. There is another cyst again. However, they are confident it is not cancerous so we are going to take a monitor and watch approach before resorting to another surgery. Endometrial issues are no joke my friends. Take care of your body.
If my Twitter buds could take a minute or two to send some good vibes my way today, I would really appreciate it. Still nervous to have this testing done. Trying not to let my mind spiral too much right now.
It is extremely likely that there are several people who have had an absolutely enormous and positive impact on your life and career.
Have you ever told them?
Today is one of those days where I want to remind people that in the grander universe, life really is short. This why I always think it's important to tell your loved ones you love & appreciate them. Also, that you should them often. Because one day you may not get to anymore.
I try so damn hard to not complain here, but I am so sick & tired of just it being one thing after another, after another, after another.
Can I catch break, please??
Finally scheduled getting my car fixed now everything around the house wants to break this week. I give up.
For those looking to level up or grow as a freelancer you need to read this article. Happy to see familar faces like
@upmostmike
and
@kaleighf
providing valuable insights. The key takeaways of this post should help you level up your freelancing biz.
@herfirst100K
All of thisssss! I got sober in 2021. Now 16 months alcohol-free. Paying off debt regularly. Went into business for myself. Yesterday I had to drop almost $900 on car maintenance stuff cause it was due, & for the first time in 13 years, I didn't flinch or complain about the $$.
Sometimes I do still put on a full face of makeup occasionally. Although, my eyeliner skills could use a refresher training!
Hope you all enjoy your Saturday evening! 💃
@cybersecmeg
Where to start...I want to live life differently. I want to show people that you can come from nothing & create something amazing for yourself. I want people to know you don't have to stay in the trap of generational trauma. That you can break the pattern & live on your own terms
Does anyone in my
#infosec
mutuals know who runs the Cybercriminology Podcast on Spotify. I randomly came across it from other podcasts I listen to and I am really enjoying it!
I don't often share my private life publicly. However, I will share that I am so grateful in 2023 I choose healing me first. I have spent nearly 20 years & some change doing it myself mostly. I had someone walk into my life this year & say hey let me help you carry some things.
@LaurenEM26
Honestly, an excel spreadsheet and blocking projects on my calendar have been the best for me. It's not fancy and may not help everybody, but it seems to work well for me.
Got up early today because I was so excited to start my day. Now still laying in bed with my spouse & pup to enjoy some peace while I prepare for my day. Here's to day one of this new chapter in my
#infosec
career for me. My gut keeps telling me this is the right path for me!
To my infosec baddies... and well anyone in general... Don't forget to scrub your mugshots tonight before you go to bed. Your skin will be grateful you did.
Thanks for coming to my Amanda talk
@realBrookNash
You lost me at waking up at 5 am and fasting for 16 hours a day. Absolute hard pass. No thank you. Not subscribing to that kind of anxiety-riddled life. I need my beauty rest. Also, food is bae.
Ps. I cannot tell if you are serious or joking here?! 🤔
Find the type of friends who make you cry happy tears at dinner. Finding good people with no agendas except just love and support is what makes it all worth it. 💚💚
Had a great convo with a dear friend and mentor this morning. In that convo I realized something... I've lost a lot over the years. I am no stranger to loss in this world and never will be.
But in all that loss, what I gained was beyond anything I ever thought was even a…
Confession... this is the real reason why I moved my office into this room. If the sunset is going to set at 4:30 PM at least I get to watch it set right before my eyes. 🌅
I am going to be (mostly) out of office and off for social media the rest of the week. I need to enjoy my existential crisis' in peace.
Apparently doing some design work is more therapeutic right now for me than writing. 👩🏼💻🖼✨️
Just an FYI... this is my least favorite week of the entire year. If I am MIA this week, it is for good reason. I'll spending a lot of time just giving myself kindness and grace. Oh also having lots of outside hammock time when it isn't 100 degrees out. Love you all! ❤️🫶🏼
@RayRedacted
Just gonna leave this one here for people to read. It's a forever screenshot. And one I had to send to my bio dad to remind him to not ever talk religion to me again. I left Catholicism for a reason. Line
#5
is 🎯
I just had a man on a dating app tell me I had beautiful eyeballs. Okay there Buffalo Bill. Thank you, but also that's super creepy. WTF.
This is what I get for "just testing the water." The water is poisoned. MY GAWD. 🫣😳🙄
Trying to cut back on my sugar intake for September. I realized my morning hot/iced coffees were the biggest sugar consumption I made throughout the day. So it's low sugar & now no coffee September. On day 5 & haven't killed anyone yet. So far, so good.
I have decided all of my social media pages are just going to be me posting all the unabashed opinions I have about security anymore. Why? Because I'm sure there is someone out there that probably needs to hear them. So, here is one for you today...
If you are a security company…
Finally signed 4 contracts from 4 separate leads I have been nurturing since the beginning of December. Also finally doing a test article from a lead I had to put on pause last September. The tide is finally changing for February. Fruit is in the follow-up. LFG!
#FreelanceChat
I realized I completely forget to update my Tweeps about everything from last week.
Surgery was a success. All questionable polyps that were found & removed came back as benign! 🙌
Thank you everyone for the good vibes & kind support these past two or so weeks.
Honestly the best industry I have ever worked in. I feel like I have not only met amazing smart, knowledgeable, and experienced people but also the kindest and most supportive friends I have ever met.
#grateful
#blueteamcon2023
Compared to a year ago, so many things have changed.
In a year from now, so many things could also change.
My hope is that a year from now, I will be in a better place in my life than I am today.
Storms can't last forever.
Here's to speaking things into existence in my own way.
One thing about me... I will always be genuinely happy for others, even if I am screaming internally. Jealousy is an ugly disease of the mind and doesn't serve anybody.
Cheering on others in their winning season even if you are losing big time currently can ensure when it's your…
Contemplating launching my YouTube officially soon. Any rec's for mics, lighting, other video equipment for filming on a budget? Emphasis on the fact ya girl is on a budget. 💸
I want to use it as a platform to teach the non-techies & kids more about
#infosec
& donate to causes.
This has been a rollercoaster of a day. I have sat long and hard about what I want to do with my career right now. I enjoy this industry. And writing too, I do, but I cannot do it for everybody. Even with ADHD plus treatment, I'm burnt out of doing it day in and day out.
I'd…
Woke up to 30+ notifications on my Twitter. I don't keep any social media on my phone aside from Instagram. Grateful to know sometimes I say things that hit the spot and help people in their
#freelancer
journey and business.
#writersoftwitter
My friends are awesome and I am proud every day to know them. They all have diverse and immense backgrounds in security. Seeing and hearing their talks about security is always so inspiring to me. 💚
Hey ya'll. I had to lock down my account today today for the time being. I had a weird situation happen this morning that I need to privatize some of my social media again temporarily.
It's been an interesting April Fool's Day.
@run4pancakes
I sleep well at night over the fact that the heads of historical misogynists would roll if they knew I own my own house. Only me. It was not inherited or granted to me in my divorce either. All me... First female homeowner in my family.
I just want to say thanks to my FF friends who don't sit there & shade me for being vegetarian. I respect your carnivore lifestyle as much as you respect my choice. It's nice to share that about me without hearing the crap I get from my family who thinks it's just a phase for me.
One of my besties for the past 15 years is moving into my neighborhood soon! I am soooo freaking excited her & her family. Not only will it be a fresh start for them but also I'll get to have company over more regularly! This really is shaping up to be a great spring already. 🥳
I am just going to put this question out there now... Does anyone who took pics with me this weekend have a problem with being posted on other social media platforms aside from this bird site? I want to make sure people didn't mind being posted in other areas aside from here.
When I see people saying no alcohol or dry January is a trending joke, it really burns me up inside. Alcohol causes more issues & deaths per year than any other legal drug. Do the research. 🙄 Maybe it's trending because we really do need to re-eval our usage of it as a society.
Finally felt like cooking after several weeks. I think I used up all my energy to make dinner. Decided to try some steak tonight for the first time in 6 years. I'm going back to bed now. 💚🫶🏼