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@sunnysidesub

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Spankoholic, submissive and baby girl of @stoic_dom looking to learn about my submissive journey, make new friends and keep up with old friends.

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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
9 months
I was spanked (hard) literally 4 days ago but all I want is more spanking and to actually be sore and have bruises the next day. I'm needy and insatiable. I know my flaws...
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
2 years
I always give @Simply__Jake a hard time when my bruises are uneven so I have to give him credit when I'm well balanced too lol
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
9 months
Lately I've really wanted a spanking that I feel the next day or longer and it's so hard for me to get anymore but it does happen occasionally. I can't figure out what the magic formula is. Does anyone else struggle with this or have advice on certain types of implements?
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
2 years
Dear every top I know, Be jealous of this awesome frat paddle I found hiding behind a creepy doll at the antique store!
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@sunnysidesub
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5 months
Guys! I get to see my Daddy in 2 days and I'm soooo excited!!
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@sunnysidesub
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9 months
This is the MOST IMPORTANT! One of the first things I say to anyone I'm starting any kind of dynamic with. One of my first "disciplinarians" use to do it and it's absolutely unacceptable. If you give me the silent treatment I will give it back but mine will be permanent.
@_EdensHaven
marley
9 months
Silent treatment IS NOT an acceptable punishment. You can fuck right off with that bs, fake Dom ass. Do not ignore your subs, that headspace is very vulnerable and dependent, by ignoring it you are causing mental/emotional damage. That absolutely makes you very unfit for kink.
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@sunnysidesub
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1 year
Just burning some old, worthless sticks around the house. Won't be needing this one anymore since I'm so well behaved. 😇
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
2 months
All spankings have safewords! ALWAYS!
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
3 years
Early morning flight ✅, nap, ✅ let's get this party started... let the bratting begin...
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
3 years
I was having a v shitty birthday and my @WL3271 sent me a peanut butter DQ cake then my @_karina_isabel came over with chinese food and we did nails and hung out... my spanko friends are the best even when what I need isn't a spanking!!
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
5 months
Everyone should read this thread. Dom/top consent and limits don't get talked about enough. Everyone deserves respect and this is the bare minimum baseline no matter your preferences.
@sluttynoirsub
princess kitty ⛓️
5 months
Came across this on Reddit A 🧵:
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@sunnysidesub
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1 year
Happy birthday to the best brat partner around @_karina_isabel
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
7 months
I need this cup. I resisted buying this cup but I need it. Right?
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
2 years
So yesterday I was in a hurry and I needed to email my new realtor and I emailed her from @spankopodcast email address on accident... how am I ever going to look her in the face again...
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
10 months
I'm dropping off @JonWelts soon and leaving for @OasisPartiesLV all under 24 hours from now. I have sooooooo many emotions!!! 😭🥳😭🥳
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
My butt hurts, but also I really want a spanking. Why am I like this? 🤷‍♀️
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
This is so true except I'm usually like "make the face, make the face!!!"
@thekinkery
The Kinkery
1 year
😂 😂
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
I got paid real, adult money to build what is, essentially, a blanket fort in my office today. Now I have to go little mode and crawl through the tunnel to escape my office. It feels a bit like a metaphor...
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
Who's ready for an awesome Harry Potter spanko party?! 🥳
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
I have been waffling for so long about going to this party and got this sale notification today. Immediately purchased! So excited for my first Oasis! It's also 2 weeks before my birthday so I need to know who is going to spank me while I'm there? 👀
@OasisPartiesLV
OasisParties 🌈
1 year
One of the trickiest parts of spanking parties is the whole "getting there" thing. Luckily Southwest is having a sale from 6/13-6/15! A few of our friends have been able to score some cheap flights, so we recommend checking it out 👀
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
Ready for mardi gras themed fun on our only fans tonight, join us for spanking, chatting and shenanigans!
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
I broke an implement!!
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
These results are very concerning. I'm not usually one to get on a soapbox but I have a strong opinion on this one and our community needs to do better to protect newbies in the scene that don't know any better so: see rant in comments. I'll make it a writing on fet too.
@OTK_for_all
Spanking Polls
1 year
Do you play with safewords during a spanking scene?
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 month
Not only can they be "sexually dominated" they can be dominated outside the bedroom. Just because I choose to allow ONE man to dominate me does not mean any other man has any right to and it certainly doesn't mean that I am lower than anyone, including the one I submit to.
@Dark_Oone
DarkOne 〰️
1 month
Interesting! Any thoughts?
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
3 years
This... except need should be bold instead of want...
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
2 years
I started baking cookies at 11:30pm. Which, in my experience, is the best and only appropriate time for baking. I also finally got to use my stacking cooling trays and I'm so excited 😁
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
4 years
I had the best birthday weekend ever! I got to see my friends I haven't seen in a year and got my butt and thighs bruised!! And I got to pet baby cows!!! For the first time I feel like I might make it through this year!!! I have the best friends in the world!
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
16 days
@PaddlesSpankin1 It means I'm important, my needs are important, I'm not just a play toy for their desires and I'm precious enough for someone to take the time to correct and take care of.
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@sunnysidesub
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6 months
I'm in this picture...
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
6 months
Some days you feel like a mess. Other days, you spend 15 minutes trying to explain to someone how to open an application on their phone and suddenly your life is pretty put together 🙃 #ITlife
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
6 months
I'm about to watch the barbie movie with my very conservative family, I don't think they know what they are getting into... wish me luck...
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
3 years
Yesterday my big mouth combined with talking on @spankopodcast got me put in the corner by @Simply__Jake in front of EVERYONE for 10 WHOLE minutes... the worst part was all the conversations I wasn't allowed to participate in #fomo ,also I really enjoy being pulled across a room.
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
2 months
Please go read this whole thread because it is so well stated but especially this. Your play is going to be exponentially better the more comfortable you are with using safewords. Having them does NOT make anything less real or less sexy.
@Spankingland
Alex Reynolds
2 months
Honestly, safewords are what allows the magic to happen. While I’m still obviously reading the bottom’s mood and body language, I’m freed from the responsibility of keeping a heavy mental load in the scene, just like how as a bottom SWs free me to have my most genuine reactions.
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@sunnysidesub
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8 months
@OldSoul14884161 Gross and I wouldn't call this guy a Dom either. He's someone who is using kink as a cover to get more sex. Dom's enjoy being Dominant that means so much more than "suck my cock" or whatever bullshit this guy's peddling.
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
9 months
Ummmm I think someone needs to inform this reviewer that they are kinky 🤷‍♀️
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
@Kinklitico A party that allows publicly known and admitted consent violators to run events is not a safe space, full stop, no excuses. Experienced players who go to these events, knowing this information, because it is convenient, aren't people you want in your friend circle.
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
When you're dying but your bestie hooks you up with garlic and herbs like it's the 16th century, thanks @_karina_isabel
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 month
Highly underrated gesture ❤
@gentlemandom85
Gentleman Dom
1 month
Squeezing your hand tighter so you know I gotchu when in a busy place 🖤
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@sunnysidesub
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1 year
These are great Dominant phrases but also just anyone who cares about you phrases. My friends say many of these to me all the time and I love it 💜
@ddlg_playground
DDLG Playground
1 year
Underrated Dominant Phrases: “Have you eaten?” “Drive carefully.” “Good morning, beautiful.” “What did you have for lunch today?” “Sleep well.” “I’m proud of you.” “Are you feeling better?” “Take a sweater, it’s cold out.” “Be safe.”
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
3 years
Well this is a first, spanking and plumbing!
@Simply__Jake
Simply__Jake
3 years
Rewarding @sunnysidesub for fixing our plumbing. Why wait?
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
3 years
I've been podcasting about Spanking for an entire year!! And people listen!! Thanks to everyone that listens to our shenanigans!!!
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@sunnysidesub
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2 months
The possibilities...
@Rainmaker1973
Massimo
2 months
Brilliant DIY Q-Tip bow
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@sunnysidesub
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2 years
The bunnies had a run in with the strap. Getting ready for @spankopodcast recording with some of our Michigan friends!
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
7 months
Had a great meeting with @BurningRiverSSC Cleveland spanking party this morning. Lots of exciting things coming in the new year! Can't wait to see everyone at our last munch of the year on the 14th! Details below!
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
3 years
This 🤩... minus the slapping... hmmm maybe scolding needs to be the next @spankopodcast topic...
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@sunnysidesub
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2 years
Anddddd it's already been a good day...
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@sunnysidesub
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3 months
If it wasn't for the men on my TL I wouldn't have known it was woman's day... so thanks, but also can you be this outspoken when there are predators that need called out? That is what we need. Thanks.
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@sunnysidesub
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9 months
@LizzyLynn13 Right! Why are these two words so powerful...
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@sunnysidesub
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1 year
Why is it that when it hurts to sit is when I'm feeling the absolute brattiest? Can't wait for @BurningRiverSSC party this weekend, I'm bringing my brat A game!
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@sunnysidesub
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2 years
Today: international women's day Men of fetlife: Good day to send random women unsolicited hey sexy messages...
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
3 years
Bruises!! I wish my thighs still bruised like this but happily enjoying the soreness of my arms instead. Thanks @NYS1115 and Uncle Jake!
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
11 months
Can't wait to see all my local spankos at the munch tonight. Come meet us and get vetted for the next play party!
@BurningRiverSSC
Burning River SSC
11 months
This Thursday: Burning River munch at the Spaghetti Warehouse!! Be there or be squared! See Fetlife event for more details!
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@sunnysidesub
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3 years
Looking forward to chatting live with our fans tonight
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@sunnysidesub
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4 years
Creating Halloween content for @spankopodcast with @_karina_isabel ... never had my butt blow dried before... thanks @BigGirlSpanker lol
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@sunnysidesub
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9 months
The mice ate my peanut butter cups!! This is war! The cat doesn't get food until she catches a mouse!! 😑👿
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@sunnysidesub
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7 months
Today I learned a new word and everyone here needs to learn it too: Callipygian... look it up it'll be worth it.
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9 months
@NicholeThorneIN Everything! I do what I want, ask anyone...
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
Dear my job, I don't fucking speak French! You don't pay me to speak French! Stop being such a fucking cheapskate and hire a God damn contractor or I'm going to start speaking a different kind of French. 🤬 Yep, I do feel better now thanks for listening.
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
8 months
This is one of my big things I talk about. Tops have feelings and limits and are putting themselves in a risky place too. I always ask tops what their limits are and 99% of the time they are so taken aback by the question because no one takes the time to ask them.
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@sunnysidesub
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10 months
My chaos energy is catching up to me and I'm officially in panic mode packing for @OasisPartiesLV while simultaneously trying to spend as much time as possible with out of town friends before they leave!!! 😧😧
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
10 months
Only 18 days until @OasisPartiesLV Can't wait to see everyone there. We'll be selling badges Friday night for all the good girls and boys 😇 to wear at Oasis School of the Arts and Littles school! Unlike that bad influence, the @DenimDealers
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
9 months
So this was a suggested post on Facebook... I was like ummmm nope this couldn't possibly be correct...
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
3 years
I am too old to still be explaining to boys on okcupid that kink happens in places besides the bedroom and that a spanking doesn't happen while you are watching Netflix! 🤨🤔🙄 #whatevenislife
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
2 months
For all the newbies (and everyone) this is IMPORTANT: just because they are older, been in the scene for awhile, leaders or teachers in the community absolutely does NOT mean they are safe players. PLEASE talk to their past partners, get references, have light first sessions.
@pulluppuddles
blazie
2 months
yeah this is personal but it happened to me with 3 different Tops that were leaders in the local community (and 2 to 3 times my age) when I was 18-21 and I am *not* the only victim like this
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
This was @_karina_isabel and I a few weeks ago!! I was deprived as a child, I get SO excited now!!!
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2 months
For anyone wondering, this is my favorite from this list 🔥
@heavensbvnny
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2 months
Constantly keep a hand on their shoulder/arm/hip/lower back, and guide them exactly where to walk.
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@sunnysidesub
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2 months
Doesn't uber know I do what I want?
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1 year
I took some vacation days for the holiday but for some god forsaken reason chose not to take off today (my Friday). Spoiler: coming back from vacation to only work Friday is the most unproductive thing I could possibly do. 😴 #overit
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
2 months
Y'all! 😍❤
@Rainmaker1973
Massimo
2 months
Electric water guns use a small electric motor to create high-pressure water streams and they actually have totally different performances (and appeal) vs the classic ones. [📹 shop.gadgetistics]
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@sunnysidesub
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10 months
My first day back from @OasisPartiesLV and I forgot my work password and don't want to be at work today. My butt is still sore, something that rarely happens. Thanks @Aaron_spanks and everyone else who spanked me. Thanks to all the party organizers. Can't wait to go back!!
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
1 year
I don't think I've ever craved that but to be more specific I want spanked and scolded. I'm just so well behaved there is nothing to scold me for 🤷‍♀️😇
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@sunnysidesub
sunnysidesub
8 months
This doesn't get said often enough. Even us brats need to be reminded when we are good girls too.
@MasterBly
Master Bly
8 months
It's important to remind her she's a "good girl" often because the relief she feels when she hears she's done well is a like a valve temporarily releasing some of the constant pressure she puts on herself to perform, to be pleasing, to do right. "You can relax; you did great."
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@sunnysidesub
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2 years
Another year @cheekyspankos academy in the books and no one searched my bag although apparently @Gaby31191 has a big mouth so I'll just have to throw her under the bus next time I see her. (And no this isn't everything in my bag, no one gets to see the bottom)
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@sunnysidesub
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11 months
I took a nap after work, woke up to the neighborhood teenagers screaming and I immediately felt like a cermudgeony old lady so I decided I needed to do something about that and made dino nuggies!! Definitely better than regular blobby nuggets. 😆
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@sunnysidesub
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@firm_but_fair The sound of the implement has never been my concern... the sound that I make when the implement hits me... that's a different story lol
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