Hi, my name is Sthembele Gwacela & on the 17th of April 2020 I would’ve graduated from the University of KwaZulu-Natal with a BA in English and Performance Studies. Here are some pictures from the grad ceremony I held in my room the other day..👩🏾🎓📜✨
#ukznalumna
i love this corset so much 🥹 you’d never say i made it in 4hrs the morning of her grad. (the ceremony was in the afternoon.)
(ps, i only take last minute orders if my schedule allows & if you’re in Durban. 🫶🏽)
Grace Mondlana went to Durban on the weekend & uploaded 17 tiktok videos from that single trip. 17 videos in real time. i’ve never had anything bully me into getting on my zoom like that discovery alone last night. 😭
her MD was y/day. she traveled all the way to Durban from Eshowe just to have a dress made by me. i don’t take that lightly. 🥹
ps, i’m new to the beading life but it’s a skill i really want to master.
i have a client coming in tomorrow for a fitting for her MD. when she came for her first consult wayehamba w/ her mom & (i assume) 2 older brothers. the one brother? yoh. 🫦 what a fine Zulu gent & uphansi. 🥺
people are okay with scripture as long as it’s ‘no weapon formed against..’ or ‘for i know the plans..’ or ‘the Lord is my shepherd..’ once you dive into the parts that bring uncomfortable truths to the surface then it’s ‘maybe you shouldn’t say that like that’ lol, gtfoh.
your entire brand is built on posting TT videos here bcs you don’t have half the brain cells to engage your audience with your own thoughts. you know exactly what you’re subjecting those people to when you bring their TT’s here. you’re full of shit.
i didn’t get time to follow up with you guys during the week but i ended up finishing on the Tuesday. 🤣 i’ll link the tiktok below when i’m done editing x.
when your finally out of a situation, and no longer caught up in love? It really hurts to sit back and think like “Damn I can’t believe they really did me like that”… … “and i really fw them.”
..and then one day the delusion suddenly wears off & you realise you actually don’t like them no more. the person that they are, the way they move, the way they think. there was nothing really there; it was all but a figment of your imagination.
good riddance.
le advice kuncono ukthiwa it’s coming from a high earning individual, it’d explain le mpakamo. manje siyitshelwa uwena with a struggling hair & make up business. doesn’t land.
It makes no sense to be over 25 and you’ve never left your parents house honestly makes me wonder don’t you have ambitions and dreams to fulfil? Sometimes you’re not progressing because you’re too comfortable with your parents nesting and feeding you.
wish i could’ve gotten nicer snaps of this dress (time wasn’t on my side ☹️) but i love it’s simplicity. it’s self lined = double layers, invisible zip closure and the trims were done by hand. thoroughly enjoyed making it; it’s gonna look so good on its owner. 🤞🏾
i’m actually quite triggered man. i’ve lost 2 siblings due to the negligence in the public health sector & you guys want to come one here & tell us we are all beneficiaries? being afforded basic human rights (their job mind you) & being a beneficiary isn’t the same thing man.
i get that thing of not wanting to give up on people but aowa, i’m going to need us to learn to dip at the sign of those first red flags. you’re young & unmarried; couples therapy yani when you’re clearly incompatible??
block, take the L, uqhubeke nempilo. 👍🏾
but mina umuntu when someone shows me akasangidingi impelweni yakhe, i remove myself gracefully. 🙏🏾 i like/d you dawg, but i definitely do not like you more than i love myself. goodbye. ❤️
she’s not wrong. blasphemy against the Holy Spirit is the only unforgivable sin.
it’s just hard to digest bcs it goes against ‘culture’ & culture doesn’t do too well with things that make it uncomfortable.
lol, a mutual friend invited me to groove 2 years ago & he was in the section. besides him being condescending, ngabona that day ukuthi akasile lo when he took one bottle of the champagne everyone was drinking & hid it under the table. the table was glass.
so, basically ndiGhostiwe bantase. 🤣🤣🤣
i’m not going to act tough , i’m not going to act like a starring 😂, it hurts. this person had gotten me into a routine of speaking to him almost every day so kuyezwela lmao.
around 7pm i pack my shit & omnye ke i keep on rotation picks me up (nb, never drop your hoes 🙏🏾) sihambe, & i spend the night at his.
i heard nothing from isiboshwa the whole night; weird from someone who’d supposedly been released from jail at 3pm.
into ephoxayo about this whole situation is the bitter taste it leaves in the mouth. that gent, in his core, umuntu ogrand. it’s really unfortunate that his final acts will always be how i remember him.
the CT scan at Port Shepstone Hospital hasn’t worked in yeaaars & it could’ve saved my brother’s life had he been diagnosed sooner. we were only able to learn of his illness sekuphume an order from the provincial office 🙃 to hasten his case bcs he’d worked at the youth /
is that you’re pretty much always with your friends dawg, surely you can spare ONE weekend to be with the person YOU FLEW IN FROM ANOTHER CITY???? it honestly gave cult.
for anyone in need of a job, go on google and search ‘dpsa vacancies 2020’ then click on the PUBLIC SURVICE VACANCY CIRCULAR & there you’ll find about 150 vacancies.
apply asap though because closing date for most of them is the 24th of January‼️
#GirlTalkZA
puff & pass
ei, fuck a CF. obonile ubonile, uxolweni to the party’s involved. 🙏🏾
(ps, ngikhuziwe kwathiwa i mustn’t put my life on twitter so on & so forth 🤣 but ngaske umntu nomntu enze akuthandayo ngo twitter wakhe.
also, it’s not that deep)