i get why understanding asexuality is hard. explaining sexual attraction as being different than sexual desire or interest is hard for others to understand. sexuality isn't about your interest in sex as an act. but being ace means sex might play a different role in our lives.
i could not have imagined what i would wake up to today. my ex pretending he thought i enjoyed being hurt... and all of my friends immediately coming to my defense. the support has brought me to tears, i don't even know what to say. i'll be back, i'll just be taking a little time
if you see a timeline going around trying to disprove me, they base their timeline on an inaccurate assumption of when i last spoke to my ex, proceed to call me a liar or bad at math for a 30 year old, and then claim they’re neutral. block them and move on.
coming on twitter only to say this. "if she wanted to name him, she would" stop saying this. it's a lie. there are a lot of reasons a victim might not name their abuser. don't tell them it's because they don't want to.
i have obviously never asked anybody to send death threats on my behalf. i am also receiving death threats. everyone should stop. why do i have to be the one to say that?
it has to be a lie that anyone is brushing their teeth out of habit, right? like no way that's real. no way they're just doing it automatically. this all has to be a big prank
not that it’s the point, but as creators i think we are all more than allowed to lie about whether we’re in a relationship or not, tell people we’re single if we want to, or just never clarify. you are not entitled to know anything about our romantic relationships.
just to say it one more time. asexuality isn’t modesty. asexuality isn’t abstinence. asexuality isn’t celibacy. asexuality isn’t a lack of libido. asexuality isn’t a medical condition. asexuality isn’t about how much sex you have or don’t have, AT ALL.
going live in an hour or so for some chatting! we’ll talk about twitchcon events, like how quackity attacked me with a leaf blower, and then i have some fun things to show off and some games to play! :D
say what you want about jokes about the submarine, but i do think it’s interesting to look at WHY so many people have next to no empathy for a billionaire… what could have possibly happened to create such a condition… where did the lack of empathy start…
i’ve been seeing acephobia more and more often and i just wanna say you are so so valid if you are ace or aro, you are absolutely part of the lgbtqia+ community, and you are loved ❤️
i don't want people fighting each other in my replies. i don't want anyone wishing harm on one another. i spoke up because i didn't want more harm to be done to anyone else. don't reply to people we cannot change the mind of. block them.
i don’t understand why people are being so harsh about this being two years old. did we forget about NDAs? also it’s not uncommon to come out to share a story years later, simply because you just decided you want it to be told after all
people mad at this are only mad because they just found out all the hateful garbage they’ve been spewing has been into the void. you aren’t entitled to unrestricted access to say whatever you want to any person, internet celebrity or not. she’s a boss for this.
the thing is... this is an event among friends in the community. if we have an issue with something that’s happened or request something’s changed, we can do that amongst ourselves in the discord respectfully. mobs sending hate and name calling is completely unacceptable
all the characters on the right look like normal women?? i don’t understand, we get normal looking men in games all the time, why do the women need to be the pinnacle of attractiveness?
it’s official. my magic is canonically so powerful, i broke the empires server. in other news, i single handedly discovered a brand new bug in minecraft 🥴
i just found out there are people that can’t read cursive… and i guess it makes sense. i knew they stopped teaching kids how to write it but i didn’t consider people not knowing how to read it??? and why did they make me learn cursive in the first place
seeing those egirl group chats is upsetting because that’s exactly the way my bullies tormented me in school to the point where i didn’t want to be here anymore. that’s the game they’re playing and it’s disgusting. they should remove themselves from the internet and get help.
i keep seeing this and i need people to understand not buying the harry potter game will not hurt the devs. and buying the harry potter game will not support the devs. if it was making you feel better about buying the game, i’m sorry but it isn’t true. that’s all.
i just learned some lore about the soup store video. the whole thing was based on an overheard conversation where someone was trying to buy chicken at the gap 😭
this still confuses me because i can imagine anything, any colors, any scenery. i can watch a whole movie in my head. but i can’t literally see it in the void when i close my eyes. it’s in my mind. do some of you actually have fruits floating around when you close your eyes?
It's baffling to me that some of y'all see stuff in your mind. You SEE it? The way your eyes see? I always thought "visualize" meant thinking of the words/ideas/feelings associated with a thing, not actual visuals.
I am such a total 5 on this scale I didn't know 1-4 existed.
i have a minecraft lore question.. if there are piglins and zombified piglins, villagers and zombified villagers.. who are the regular zombies zombified from? were there people before? why can't they be cured? who are they?
sexually active aces are valid. non-sexually active aces are valid. kinky aces are valid. grey aces are valid. demisexuals are valid. heteroromantic aces are valid. gay aces are valid. bi aces are valid. confused aces are valid. ace aros are valid. ❤️
at in n out next to these two teen girls. one of them is talking about the break up she’s going through and her friend goes “this girl on tiktok cried and got a million views you could do that” and the girl said “i’m sad but i’m not an embarrassment” 💀
for some, it plays no part in their lives or relationships if they are uninterested because of the lack of attraction. that should be respected. for some, it plays a minor part as something you might do sometimes with your partner, for whatever reason you choose whenever you want
i gotta say something. ‘____ made you famous’ is the dumbest shit i’ve ever heard. regardless of the platform your friend may have offered you initially, if people stuck around and followed? they found you entertaining?? they liked you enough to support you??? that’s all you.
for some, it plays a large part as many aces have high levels of desire, just like anyone of any other sexuality might, regardless of experiencing sexual attraction or not. and for some, it's an important part of intimacy if touch is important to them for closeness.
also remembering it's a spectrum and many of us do still experience sexual attraction whether it's just occasionally or under certain circumstances and levels of trust between them and their partner.
i often feel very self conscious of the photos other people take of me. something about it not being a selfie makes me feel not in control and i usually see myself worse than how i actually appear. but these made me smile so big :)
i don't follow anyone on this account so i get suggested posts mostly. and i had to block elon musk because legit every time i refreshed, i'd get a suggested tweet from him (or about him), even ones i already hit not interested on... sus
also remember being ace doesn't make it ok for others to ask really invasive personal questions about the details of our relationships. if you're not our partner, that part isn't anyone's business and not necessary for you to understand our sexuality!
the only difference is that our level of sexual attraction may make our relationship to sex different than yours. and you'll have to get to know us more to know what kind of part sex plays in our lives to know if you're compatible. we're all different and deserving of respect!
dude kids are gonna figure out if they're gay one way or another. trying to keep them in the dark as long as possible about gay people existing is just selfish and stupid.
we need a bigger conversation about how many people do not have proper education about hygiene… you wouldn’t believe what i’ve seen in my time dating men. and i refuse to teach another one about soap
i’m genuinely in awe of how far i’ve come. i could have never seen myself here before. it seemed impossible for me to ever have this kind of reach. and i really want to do right by you guys and use that in only the best ways i can and be a positive influence and even hope