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I survived narcissistic abuse. I now help other men and women come to terms with and understand what happened to them after the final discard by a narcissist.

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@shadesocraycray
I Survived
4 years
@HISTORY @ofctimallen With more than 8,000 remains of indigenous children having been found in the US and Canada you’re going to allow Jon Dawson to represent you and make light of the fact that native lands were stolen?
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@shadesocraycray
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5 years
My help is unappreciated. So I will keep my mouth shut and speak when spoken to.
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@shadesocraycray
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5 years
Narcissists always manage to one up you, always. 🙄
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@shadesocraycray
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5 years
When I’m needed I’m a convenience and when I’m not needed I’m an inconvenience. That’s going to stop. I am no longer available at your convenience.
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@shadesocraycray
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5 years
I’m only good enough when they want something. The rest of the time they forget I exist.
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@shadesocraycray
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5 years
How do they forget that you’re family too?
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@shadesocraycray
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5 years
Typical narcissistic maneuver: recruiting your kid as your flying monkey to send screen shots of an abusive text after you were blocked.
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5 years
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@shadesocraycray
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6 years
Dear Cray Cray, You’re only as sick as your secrets and I’m telling everything!
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@shadesocraycray
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6 years
Watching Cray Cray future fake with Miss Piggy. Must be nearing the end.
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6 years
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@shadesocraycray
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6 years
Seven years ago today that I looked him dead in the eye and said “No, you don’t realize what you’ve done. At this very moment I am the strongest I have ever been.” At which point he left me alone in the hospital.
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@shadesocraycray
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6 years
so I could be added to the occupancy permit. This was between 12/31/12 and 03/01/13. Seven years ago today he said “I thought you said you were strong. You’re weak. Look at you.” As I was sitting in the emergency room waiting to be admitted for a nervous breakdown he caused.
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@shadesocraycray
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6 years
to cry then yelled at me saying “You never wanted to do it anyway.” When I got a restraining order against him his cohort and our landlord threatened to evict me. Conveniently the lease was lost and they faked one. Conveniently he forgot to tell me I needed to go to city hall
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@shadesocraycray
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6 years
clothes because he wanted me to wear short skirts and low cut blouses to show my breasts, he forced me to give him oral sex (rape/sodomy) by holding my head with his elbow to his pelvic bone and pinching my nose until I opened my mouth to breathe then pushed me away when I began
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@shadesocraycray
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6 years
Seven years ago today begins the climactic final discard. It began with my nervous breakdown, ended with him leaving dramatically. In the middle he wiped out my bank account, tried to coerce me into performing sex acts on an adult website, threatened to throw away all of my
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@shadesocraycray
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6 years
Ah, yes. Cray Cray fell in love and moved into Miss Piggy’s double wide within six weeks!
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He told our marriage counselor that he stepped in to save me from my living situation. Said I was living with my son. Said he always played the white knight rescuing women in bad places. I wasn’t in a bad place. My son and his fiancé were living with me. I was swept off my feet
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