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@sefbby
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nina.
Los Angeles, CA
Joined June 2016
woke up one day and decided I had enough of being in a cycle and feeling stagnant so booked a one way flight to LA and a place to stay for 2 weeks. Secured a job 8 days into the trip and it’s been 5 months now. 24 and feeling prouder than ever of myself.
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just a few things to clear up: 1. me not having s*x till that age wasn’t about purity culture, I just didn’t feel ready. 2. this isn’t telling anyone to wait, do it when you feel ready for YOU there’s no ‘wrong’ or ‘right’ way this is MY experience Thread continued below..⬇️
losing my virginity @ 24 was my biggest mistake I should’ve kept that lmao they really do act different after , the emotional damage isn’t worth it. I’m too sensitive srry
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Young ladies, love yourself! Your skin, your booty, your hair... You're all beautiful! Keep your hearts pure! Love and laugh, and live life
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she looks familiar though
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She said the emotional damage wasn’t worth it and you made it about purity culture?
Sex is not that serious please don’t let purity culture make you a stranger to your own desires . Just be safe !
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saw him. liked him. wanted him. got him. found out he was a stupid boy. left the stupid boy.
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lmfao, this scene always takes me out because they were so over each other 😭😭😭😭😭
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I think what frustrates me about sex positivity is how it sometimes implies you shouldn’t feel anything after. But you can make a choice fully on your own terms and still feel hurt if someone treat you carelessly afterward. Those truths can coexist.
losing my virginity @ 24 was my biggest mistake I should’ve kept that lmao they really do act different after , the emotional damage isn’t worth it. I’m too sensitive srry
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Quotes are proving the functional illiteracy epidemic
losing my virginity @ 24 was my biggest mistake I should’ve kept that lmao they really do act different after , the emotional damage isn’t worth it. I’m too sensitive srry
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@EspyVox @sefbby The regret wasn’t bc how society makes women feel about their virginity. It’s about choosing to share a vulnerable, spiritual, & intimate moment with someone, and they end up switching up on you…which can lead to heartache & regret. Idk why thats so hard for them to comprehend
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7. To round this all up. BE safe and do whatever makes you happy. Spreading nothing but love and kindness to you all🤍
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6. I tweeted this in bed at night care free, me saying it was my ‘biggest mistake’ was an exaggeration there’s more to life and I’m actually very happy but i think these are good discussions to have, the amount of women who are in my DMs bc that relate are insane
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5. we all have different experiences and beliefs regardless of what age, gender or religion you ARE. this is my experience and I’m no expert at it this was mainly to do with emotional damage and changed behaviour
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