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@GoodBoyThePlay šŸŽ­ @SDAlondon āœļø @artistsbrennan. proudly queer, begrudgingly ADHD. No longer active on here, find me on @bluesky

London, UK
Joined April 2011
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@realjamesfarley
james farley (he/they)
2 years
Five stars for my comedy birthed from the darkest moments of my life. I can’t believe it.
@broadwaybaby
Broadway Baby
2 years
REVIEW: GOOD BOY by James Farley ā˜…ā˜…ā˜…ā˜…ā˜… "Told with wit, pace, sensitivity and unflinching honesty, this hour long show grips from start to finish" #CamdenFringe https://t.co/KFZtGxxDCs
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james farley (he/they)
11 months
A few updates: - some new mugshots by @yellowbellyfoto - I’m currently filming a project for Lionsgate - I’m leaving this hellsite! Find me on @bluesky - https://t.co/hPmtoPHcXa
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james farley (he/they)
11 months
A few updates: - some new mugshots by @yellowbellyfoto - I’m currently filming a project for Lionsgate - I’m leaving this hellsite! Find me on @bluesky - https://t.co/hPmtoPHcXa
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
Attended a show tonight that was disrupted by @JustStop_Oil… ended up being the most entertaining part about it. Thanks guys!
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
Should victims not be able to tell their story for fear of offending? I find it more offensive to tell victims to stay silent or change their story to make it more palatable. But that’s just me, the person who actually lived it. 14/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
Everything the protagonist experiences, has been lived by most women. I firmly contest the accusation that I conflate homosexuality with child abuse. It is one character who commits this, not all. 13/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
I first performed Good Boy eight years ago at drama school for my dissertation, then last year at the end of a writers’ programme. Each time it was mainly women, cisgender and heterosexual, who were thanking me for telling my story. 12/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
But I wanted to make it clear that I was not conflating queerness and child abuse which is why, in the final scene, I wrote a line which I hoped would encapsulate what I was trying to say: that this was a play about patriarchy, not about gay men. 11/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
The protagonist is a gay man and does not commit a sexual crime - so this is also not true. I admit the play explores very dark aspects of sexual violence which happen to be committed by gay characters... 10/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
Secondly, it accuses me of portraying all gay men as ā€˜predators, sex addicts, chem sex fiends, using each other as pieces of meat with no consideration for their physical or mental well-being, just objects for gratification’ and that I conflate homosexuality with child abuse 9/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
It hammers home the point with a condescending joke that adds insult to injury: ā€˜He is a willing participant but takes no responsibility for his own choices (how very Millennial).’ 8/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
Also, the conditions for a crime to be classed as sexual assault do not need to involve restraint or physical violence. It also feels incredibly insensitive to say all of this especially as it is autobiographical 7/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
Which is exactly one of the themes the play explores - hyper-sexuality as a trauma response. Why would someone suffering sexual trauma and a warped sense of self seek out sexual encounters that would hurt them? 6/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
and is violently assaulted in a later scene. I think it is concerning that the reviewer failed to see the nuances surrounding the issue of consent and fails to consider why the protagonist feels compelled to put himself into these dangerous situations... 5/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
This is not true. The play includes scenes in which he is manipulated into having sex before he is ready (after verbally saying he isn’t), he is stealthed (which was made illegal in 2019 by the first successful prosecution), he is slept with while he is unconscious... 4/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
The review claims that every sexual encounter the protagonist experiences is ā€˜all consensual’ and emphasises this point multiple times, even saying that the protagonist ā€˜at no point is forced, detained against his will, attacked, refused permission to leave, or coerced etc.’ 3/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
For context, Good Boy is an autobiographical play about when I discovered a devastating secret about my first romantic partner and the following trauma response I suffered - It ultimately explores patriarchal power dynamics within gay sex and relationships. 2/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
TW: Sexual violence, CSE. I’ve been meaning to do this for a while and it’s been nearly 4 months so I’d better get on with it. I want to contest a review I received for my Edinburgh show Good Boy, which I feel misinterprets the play to the point that it’s almost libellous. 1/14
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
The main reason why @GoodBoythePlay hasn’t come to London again (yet!). The theatre landscape is really bleak right now.
@Firecrazee
Pol Wiseman
1 year
#theatre people: when did we go from 60/40 split in artist’s favour + venue help with publicity to ā€˜you have to hire the space and we won’t do anything to help sell tickets’? It’s terrible for the theatre ecology, diversity & inclusion + harms venues ultimately too.
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
@Channel4 I am begging you for a third series #EveryoneElseBurns
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james farley (he/they)
1 year
I can’t get over Kate O’Flynn’s performance in Everyone Else Burns. Understated heartbreaking comic genius.
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