(18+) black femme zillennial spanko who likes being scolded a bit too much. | 70:30 tweets about fandoms vs spankings
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@missravenly
A spanko scenario that really gets me? The ones along the line of: "Don't make me pull this car over, young lady."
I've always been a brat who thrives off tops reactions...but will you? Will you really? Or are you just saying it? C'mon. You're gonnna just let me talk? Do it.
Remember: Not all butts turn red. Color specific wording in relation to spanking itself can be harmful and invalidates the diverse scene that we have! Let's continue to push for a diverse welcoming scene that everyone can enjoy.
Sometimes I want to play the schoolgirl with 0 pain tolerance, getting her first spanking and doing everything she can to make it stop.
Other times I want to play the stubborn schoolgirl who's determined to not let the Headmaster hear a single peep.
Both roles are equally fun.
So, like...It's ✨️Black History Month! ✨️
Shoutout to all of the black spanko performers, and members of the scene. To black spankees who keep rocking on, and black tops that are a force to be reckoned with. To the black community leaders in the scene, who amaze me everyday.
You want to talk about *real* fear? Let's talk about the miliseconds between a bottom unintentionally rolling their eyes at a top *just* before realizing it, and the moment a top either acts or asks the dreaded question: *"Did you just roll your eyes at me?"*
comment on this status with your favorite implement, side punishment (writing lines, mouthsoaping, cornertime etc..) and color to learn whether you're babygirl, girlboss, or girlfailure
The fact that someone you're not related to can care for you *soooooo* much that they feel the urge to pull you over their knee and to give you a lingering sensation so painful- that never *really* hurts you- to deter you from ever thinking about doing something ever again...
My butt was actually a little red last night! 😲 It was a pleasant little surprise when we took some pictures. 🥰 I don't often (and easily) show red, so whoooh.
I have had moments as a black women in spanking when white cis republican men have personally come into my dms to invite me over their knees but outcried and said what I was doing was unfair when I tried to hold an event for POC spankos at the national party scene.
Would you do a spanking session with someone - either as a spanker or spankee - who you knew voted for a different political party as you?
(If you choose to comment, please be respectful)
I have spanking pictures I asked to be taken of me...but I'm too embarassed to even look at them! 🤭😳 I thought the embarassment would dissipate 1 week later, but here we are. Soon I'll be okay enough to decide which ones to post. 😂
It'd be fun if you just like...laid yourself over my knee right? I bet you'd look so cute just laying there! And with your permission,maybe I could lift up your skirt and touch your butt? You'd get to show off how cute your panties are! Wouldn't that be adorable?
i will say it again...some of yall are weird as fuck and have no common decency or respect for people because you're too goonbrained about spanking and/or getting spanked
The internet is forever. Ya'll cannot be playing with peoples lives like this.
Writing spanking stories based off of my own offenses is so tempting...but I don't think I'd be able to look a top in the eye that I know has read said story after.
Self preservation always wins in the end. 🤭
I know I talk about my favorite spanking tropes in fiction, but my favorite spanking fictional scenario/pairing ever???? 🤭 Let's reveal!
It's a modern girl who gets sent back to Victorian Era England and becomes the ward of some aristocrat there. 🤭
#1
Most favorite thing!
L + dont care + cancelled + unsubscribed + who asked + copium + get real + cringe + mald seethe cope harder + ez clap + incorrect + hoes mad + get good + basic skill issue + nerd + you fell off + no u + the audacity + triggered + repelled + any askers + get a life + ok boomer
A strict bedtime might be the most irl helpful rule for 98% of spankos. The importance of a consistent sleep routine can’t be overstated. A genuinely healthy side effect of this thing we do.
Lately I've been in the toppiest mood. Wah. 🤧 I just want to take cute girls and guys and enbys over my lap and tell them how much cuter they look when they're about to get spanked. Waaah...c'mon, don't blush now! We haven't even started.
Next year I want to do more domestic scenes in uniform. I feel like I get a kick out of school scenes, yes, but dealing with an older sibling/aunt/uncle/guardian in uniform just hits all the right middlespace spots. ☺️
Writing Assignments (Lines/Essay/Written Apology) are some of my favorites. 🙂↕️
I like cornertime with addons- like the holding something to the wall...and a naughty stool sounds so middlespacey. 😵💫🥴
I've done mouthsoaping once! Would do it again, though I fear the day. 😌
#ReadyToPlay
? 😈Choose your weapon, spankos! What’s your top spanking add-on for max punishment—or fun?
Post your go-to, the one that makes you (or your spankee) behave just from the threat, your love-to-hate add-on, & what you’re curious to try. Let’s see which reigns supreme!
I swear nothing's more motivating as a student than knowing you're going to a spanking party in the nearby future.
Because the first question you'll hear without a doubt is, "How is school?"
Ok, I made my own version of the get to know me thing so I could come up with spanko questions. It's late. Sorry if there are typos or bad formatting or whatever
tip: dont tell a top you have an early morning school meeting when it's 1 am at night
sincerely,
miss grounded and sent to bed
(~5 hours is enough to be comprehensible, ok? 😭)
Sweet/affectionate cruelty is so good. Like you're praising me for doing so well but also draping me over your knee all at once?
Honestly, it just makes me want to whine harder.
Stop making it so hard to brat.
I do not bring up politics in my negotiations/scenes. However if you are outspokenly in a party that has views that I consider harmful to me and my identities as a LGBTQ Black woman- then I refuse to go over your knee knowing so.
i want to play a game with a group at the next oasis where we sit down and listen to youtube spanking asmr audios made by nonspankos and every time someone laughs they have to get smacked
like this so i can remember who to invite when it happens
One of the funniest parts of casual spanko life is being in the middle of a story and just letting a curse word go without a thought then all of a sudden-
"Language."
The pause. The quick recalibration. The replacement word-fudge is a favorite- then...
"-So as I was saying,"
I'd like to go to Japan for a few i*d*ol concerts one day... but now I learn there's a punishment bar? ☺️ It could be fun to experience the spanking community there too.
thinking about that gentle arm pull/guide over someone's knee that just starts that dawning realization within that moment of just how powerless you are to stop the unavoidable spanking that you're about to recieve-
dived into my old spanking tumblr at the hotel after spending at least 30 min on the plane writing about my first adult spanking
we'll see if i decide to post it all or not LMAO but interesting diving back into my early kink days
Vanilla Me: "what? I dont have an aesthetic. 🤨"
Kink me: "schoolgirl. schoolgirl. schoolgirl. private schoolgirl. boarding school schoolgirl. uniform inspections. lines with friends. loafers with a little buckle on them. shined oxfords. stern disciplinarians. 📚👩🏫🎒🥰"
if a top starts to give you lip, just place your hand on the top of their spanking hand (very important!!! you must know if they are right or left handed!!!)
And say...
"It's okay babygirl. Daddy's got it all under control."
* For best results make sure to hold said hand down.
Today, I'm obsessed with nonsexual discipline where the touches are minimal or even indirect. Maybe I'm just obsessing over being "seen not heard" in a strict protocol sense.
I.E. Long corner/wall time balancing a book on your head with a pointer being used to keep posture.
I think that 7 years into my spanko journey and 6 years into taking the plunge to get involved with kink in person and 3 years after attending my first national party...
I've finally hit the point where some of my friends can instantly send me into headspace being around them.
I said nonrelated but throw in someone you're not even in a romantic relationship with???
There's just something about disciplinary connections. I love it.
I'd like to attend a multiday themed school roleplay event. ☺️ I've talked with others about this but having to fully immerse myself, make those choices of whether to do homework or sneak around at night with friends...inspections in the morning...school meals..🤭 It'd be lovely.
Open-ended poll/question:
What is on your spanking bucket list?
What do you *really* want to do before you die with regard to spanking? (Examples might be an outdoor spanking, or attend a party, or a specific role-play.)
This is one of the concepts that I really love as a spanko. It's partly why I love discipline. I wish I could explain it better than a spontaneous run on sentence, but I have a feeling that I'll never truly find the right words for it.
I hope my stories do it for me.
I've been reading spanking fics over the last few days inbetween writing my own. 🤭 It's been fun to recognize my own style of writing, but also get butterflies in my stomach when reading other writers' tops.
I'm collecting a few of my favorite quotes from some too!
I have a heavy need for someone to control a parental control app on my phone and set time limits and see my activity reports.
I want to whine when I can't access youtube and twitter past bedtime and there's nothing I can do about it. 😖
If you're thinking about heading to Oasis in the next couple of days, I hope to see all of our fellow black spankos at the POC Mixer- even for a moment! If you'd like to support with helping us with food/snacks,setup etc...let me know with a DM!