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i talk about autism & stuff | she/they | also on youtube, instagram & tiktok @paigelayle

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@paigehennekam
paige layle
3 years
that’s me omg
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paige layle
2 years
i played “club can’t handle me” as my dance students stretched and one girl said “this song is SO OLD.” i said it’s not that old, it’s from 2010. “uh… miss paige, i was born in 2012.” how are 10 yr olds from 2012 when i am also 10 yrs old but born in 2000
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@paigehennekam
paige layle
3 years
AUTISM FUNDRAISER BY ACTUAL AUTISTICS! share share share
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paige layle
2 years
i think… i made an enemy with the neighbour kid the ~10yr old was bouncing her basketball off my house (RIGHT where my head was, laying in bed). i open the window, said “hey, i’d appreciate it if u didn’t hit my house” today? bags of dog poop in my backyard. what do i do
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paige layle
3 years
“you’re faking autism for clout” dude i could fake being a rocket scientist more easily and not get called a r*tard every 4th comment, don’t you think i’d do that instead if i really just wanted attention?😅
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paige layle
3 years
it is so exhausting to continuously have to convince people that i have the right to live and exist. it feels like every day society plans another way to get rid of me, and it is exhausting and horrific to listen to.
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paige layle
3 years
you’d be shocked at the amount of people who think girls can’t be autistic 🙄
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paige layle
3 years
a girl just tried to explain to me why she’s such an autistic ally but used the r word 3 times... miss ma’am... did you just say
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paige layle
3 years
this pandemic showed me that I really am an introvert. im high key loving not having to see anyone 😌
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paige layle
3 years
if your autistic child doesn’t communicate verbally, you better be supplying them with lots of other methods of communication, rather than thinking you know better and can speak for them. every autistic person has thoughts and feelings you should listen to.
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paige layle
3 years
you cannot be kind to everyone, since being kind to some is being incredibly cruel to others.
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@paigehennekam
paige layle
3 years
if you’re autistic but you’re comfortable in your internalized ableism, you’re not gonna like me. my autism advocacy isn’t to accept all autistic people’s thoughts and ideas, it’s to be actively anti-ableist. this makes people uncomfortable, and i’m okay with that.
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paige layle
3 years
sooo did all of our moms think that red nail polish was too ~sultry~ for us when we were kids?? why was that...
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paige layle
3 years
why are people freaking out about covid vaccine passports? do y’all not also have a “passport” so to speak of every other vaccine you’ve had your whole life? i know i do. and they will suspend you from school if you don’t have them all. this is genuine, i’m not getting this
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paige layle
3 years
khloe kardashian commented on one of my instagram photos. soooo idk but i think that means i’m famous 😭😭😭😭
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paige layle
3 years
ah yes, when the majority of the autistic community says that a movie depicting them is harmful & dangerous, the golden globes says fuck it, let’s nominate them for best motion picture ✨🤪 ya, you’re gonna have to rethink that.
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Golden Globe Awards
3 years
Best Motion Picture - Musical or Comedy Borat Subsequent Moviefilm Hamilton Music Palm Springs The Prom #GoldenGlobes
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paige layle
5 years
yes we KNOW plastic straws aren’t going to stop global climate change, but it SURE AS HELL IS NICE TO START SOMEWHERE. not everything has to have a huge major impact, god damn
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paige layle
3 years
half of my comments these days are about my pupil size 🙃 guys i cannot CONTROL the MUSCLES in my IRIS, okay? i’m not high, just have very light eyes and can’t see 😭😭
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paige layle
3 years
of course i meet a therapist i like who will actually help me and she goes, “you don’t have SEVERE autism where you can’t communicate, you would’ve been diagnosed with aspergers.” there’s a lot to unpack there. i’m frustrated.
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paige layle
3 years
be careful, i said this and the capitalist econ boys🧢 got ANGRY🤣🤣 money is made up and i stand by my claims that inflation can be managed but they just don’t want to bc capitalism
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paige layle
3 years
This!! 👏👏 stop trying to “fix” behaviours that aren’t harmful 🤍
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Pete Wharmby
3 years
Autistic behaviours that are generally discriminated against, despite being harmless and just how we are. A thread🧵
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paige layle
2 years
my dog had the hiccups and i thought mm i know what to do, so i scared her, and it worked! the hiccups went away! but I DONT THINK SHE UNDERSTANDS THATS WHY I SCARED HER, she’s looking at me like 🥺 mom why 🥺 and i’m TRYING TO EXPLAIN but basically i’m going to hell
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paige layle
3 years
you know it’s not okay when autism $peaks says it’s not okay 🤣🤣🤣
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autism speaks
3 years
Autism Speaks was not involved in the casting or production of the film, “Music.” Representation matters, and we believe autistic actors should always be given opportunities to play autistic characters.
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paige layle
6 years
it’s too hot to sleep with a blanket on but i CANNOT sleep without a blanket on do you see my dilemma
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paige layle
4 years
hello! my name is paige and i’m autistic. over the last 72 hours i’ve helped raise $1100 that will directly employ adults with autism at LuvMichael- an organization for autistic adults to find meaningful employment. please consider donating/ helping collect donations!
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paige layle
3 years
i can’t be around a person with no boundaries. oftentimes they confuse my boundaries with being a personal attack or an insult, and that’s not the kind of energy i need to have around me. boundaries are good and necessary. set them plz :)
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paige layle
3 years
autistic dancers don’t exist guys, brb while i disappear
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IndieWire
3 years
Sia says it was "unpleasant and stressful" trying to cast an actor on the spectrum for #Music because the character is featured in elaborate dance scenes that demand a dancer of Ziegler's skill:
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paige layle
2 years
one thing i’ve learned about being in the public eye, is it doesn’t matter what the truth is. it only matters what people think the truth is.
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paige layle
3 years
NTs love to think we have no empathy while they’re the ones simultaneously trying to figure out how to “fix” us to being more like them & saying what a tragedy and burden we are. lmao.
@AnnMemmott
Ann Memmott PgC MA 🌈 (She/They)
3 years
I see the AIMS-2 funding from Autism $peaks, SFARI, Autistica etc is researching how to alter our brain cells so that our empathy is restored (!). ".. the loss of empathy is an important feature of autism spectrum disorders" Sigh. No. Poll result below.
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paige layle
3 years
i didn’t think i could become a bigger bo burnham fan... but now i’m currently crying watching inside for the 11th time... this is... wow
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paige layle
3 years
@ everyone who was ever in a classroom with me. and @ every teacher I’ve ever had. sorry I annoyed you but my brain wouldn’t stop. This tweet speaks to me directly.
@ItsEmilyKaty
Emily♡
3 years
You know those kids you think are annoying for correcting the teacher every time they get something wrong or a word is misspelt? Yeah, they’re probably autistic. Be kind to them.
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paige layle
3 years
we would love if you supported our fundraiser coming up on april 30th! aka talk about the actually autistic community fighting against ableism and eugenics 🥰🥰
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brittany
3 years
filming w @ChrisKlemens and we need topics. Any topic. Just send a person or place or concept or trend or literally anything
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paige layle
3 years
it’s important to note that some people have to be internally ableist in order to survive in an ableist world, and i am not pushing to make everyone change. i just hope we create a world that is less ableist, so we can all be ourselves happily.
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paige layle
3 years
i get lots of responses from autistic people who disagree with me, therefore i must be wrong. none of us are wrong. but i’m working to remind you that you can still be ableist even if you are disabled, and this is what i want to change. ableism is never okay.
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paige layle
3 years
not my local paper calling liberals “the far left” 🤣🤣🤣
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paige layle
4 years
So in the span of a few months, @BuzzFeed went from writing a story about me, an autistic person, shining a light on autism- to now villianizing autistics and pushing the “I hate my autistic kid and that’s okay” narrative. I’m appalled and extremely upset.
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paige layle
2 years
growing up i thought there would be a lot more princesses
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paige layle
8 years
I'll probably forget to take my hair elastic off my wrist on my wedding day
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paige layle
3 years
the actual autistic community is often divided in autistics that are comfortable expressing ableist ideas, and autistics that are working against it. we are all autistic, and all opinions matter, but some are inherently less harmful than others.
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paige layle
4 years
hi that’s me
@BuzzFeed
BuzzFeed
4 years
A Girl On TikTok With Autism Is Going Viral For Talking About How Autism Is Different In Women
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paige layle
8 years
what our parents need to understand
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paige layle
2 years
i think it’ll be real nice when we’re all in a nursing home explaining our tattoos to each other <33
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paige layle
6 years
hey boots is soon and even though you will be a drunk mess remember the planet is dying and we should recycle and pick up our fucking garbage 👢♥️
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paige layle
8 months
in case you didn’t see yesterdays YT video 😉🩷 I WROTE A BOOK!!! and u can pre order it now!!!! and it’s an aries!!!!
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paige layle
4 years
funny how the same dudes that say “just obey the law and you won’t get shot” are the same dudes who started drinking & partying at 14, drive while intoxicated, do & sell coke, steal from their local convenience store, oh, and assault women. 🤭
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paige layle
3 years
in other words some people still think being feminine is lesser than being masculine- shocking to hear women (& anyone else tbh) who has this pov still. & they say the left is brainwashed.
@RealCandaceO
Candace Owens
3 years
There is no society that can survive without strong men. The East knows this. In the west, the steady feminization of our men at the same time that Marxism is being taught to our children is not a coincidence. It is an outright attack. Bring back manly men.
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4 years
1 year ago today. & i just want you to know that i still can’t go inside a tent. i haven’t listened to country music since. i still jump if someone touches me while i’m asleep. FUCK YOU. AND FUCK ANYONE WHO TOUCHES SOMEONE WITHOUT CONSENT.
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paige layle
3 years
i’d give anything to not have an eidetic memory
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paige layle
2 years
why is leah not pronounced like yeah
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paige layle
2 years
my toxic trait is at the thrift store i believe everything is my size
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paige layle
2 years
my last meal would definitely include miss vickie’s salt and vinegar chips and plain cheesecake
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paige layle
2 years
have y’all listened to American Girl on Audible yet?!
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paige layle
5 years
if my dog dies while i’m at school, my heart will die. someone plz go tell him i love him right now
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paige layle
7 years
ya ya happy halloween, CHRISTMAS IS IN 55 DAYS 🎅🏻🎄❄️ HO HO FRICKIN HO
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paige layle
6 years
“just trust your gut” dude i have anxiety my gut is always telling me to abort mission
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paige layle
2 years
so excited for you guys to hear Wendy Walker’s American Girl! truly a fantastic novel and i’m so happy to have the privilege of telling the tale to you 🤍 @audible_com
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paige layle
10 months
i’m angry that when i see a plane in the sky, it takes me forever to find that plane. why does it sound over there if it’s over there
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paige layle
3 years
sia really just keeps making it worse. fuck this movie
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paige layle
2 years
will it cream? a reality series where ice cream makers find out if an ingredient can be made into ice cream
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paige layle
6 years
OCD is NOT just about cleaning! it’s important to know that people with OCD feel the need to do things to protect themselves or others.
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paige layle
2 years
MOUTHWASH IS TORTURE. WHOEVER DID THIS DID A HORRIBLE JOB.
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paige layle
3 years
what are your thoughts on mark rober’s new video introducing his autistic son? i will be sharing mine soon
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paige layle
6 years
i’m done explaining myself to small minded people cause they’ll only ever see things from their perspective anyway.
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paige layle
10 months
honestly i just really want to have a “favourites” section of emojis
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paige layle
3 years
@ToasterWeed @IvyKungu AHAHAHAH i stg i always look high. i’m not, btw. i just got messed up eyes 🤣🤣
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paige layle
6 years
thought i couldn’t live without you, turns out i’m more alive without you
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paige layle
7 years
teacher: you can't write an essay overnight! same teacher: *makes you write an essay in under 2 hours*
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paige layle
4 years
calling you racist/ homophobic/ transphobic/ ableist is not an insult. i’m calling you out in hopes you’ll LEARN. GETTING DEFENSIVE JUST PROVES IT EVEN HARDER.
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paige layle
2 years
… i just made a connection
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paige layle
6 years
when tinkerbell started dying because she didn’t get enough attention... i felt that
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paige layle
6 years
dr brown made me my own quilt because “we’ve been through so much together these past years.”might be the nicest thing someone’s done for me
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paige layle
4 years
let’s also normalize telling them they look healthy or strong when they’re not skinny bc skinny doesn’t always equal healthy/ strong & you shouldn’t just get body compliments when you’re skinny!💗💗
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ken 🌙
4 years
let’s normalize telling your friends they look healthy or strong instead of saying they look skinny :)
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paige layle
2 years
i met this guy at guelph HOCO and our only interaction was him flipping out on me when i told him he was an aquarius… seems about right
@ChrisKlemens
CHRIS KLEMENS
2 years
Hey @uofg you might wanna check on your student Shea Longfield, as he is calling my friends slurs in their DM’s…
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paige layle
6 years
why do guys who wash their face with body wash and have a diet of doritos and mountain dew have better skin than me
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paige layle
8 years
do you ever have a really lit time and you're just like man I'm so glad I didn't kill myself 6 months ago
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paige layle
2 years
@AngelNumberz_ when i was 3 i climbed our tv, one of those heavy thick bois from ‘03. i felt it tipping and knew it was going to fall on top of me. and right as my lil head was crushed by a 50lb tv, my consciousness said nope, and i didn’t feel a thing. it was so strange to me. it hurt l8r tho
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paige layle
6 years
how old were you when you found out Lord Faarquad is named because it sounds like Lord Fuckwad with shreks accent i was today years old
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paige layle
6 years
boys are the worst things ever lol i want one tho
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paige layle
6 years
sometimes you need a pat on the back for waking up today. for showering. for feeding yourself. i am proud of u for being alive. xo
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paige layle
4 years
imagine just being a cis straight abled rich white man... like you just wake up, and EXUDE privilege... and get to just not worry about minorities and their injustices... i’m baffled
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paige layle
6 years
TURNS OUT MY BUNNY WAS PREGNANT WHEN I SEPERATED THEM THEREFORE I HAVE 17 RABBITS NOW PLEASE ADOPT THEM PLEASE I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
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paige layle
1 year
i just attempted to make my own saline solution to do like a Nedi pot situation for my dry stuffy nose and i used WAY TOO MUCH SALT and my nose and throat (ofc it went down my throat) feel like satans plumbing system and idek what to do
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paige layle
2 years
i fw Times New Roman, and Times New Roman only
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paige layle
6 years
mmm i LOVE when my exes get back together with their exes!! love feeling like i was nothing and our entire relationship you were only thinking about her!! YUMMY
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paige layle
1 year
Growing up is when the songs you ball your eyes out to from Les Miserables go from “On My Own” and “I Dreamed a Dream”, to “Prologue: What Have I Done?” and “Empty Chairs at Empty Tables” 🥲🫠🫡 #LesMiserables
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paige layle
6 years
#BellLetsTalk about how my brain is releasing the wrong chemicals into my body & some people don’t think that’s real enough
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paige layle
6 years
i’m sorry if u try to cheat on your gf w me i’m prolly gonna tell her lolol cheaters suckkkkk
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paige layle
4 years
i can’t with people who prefer to be like “a problem? no problem. we ignore it and move on. that’s life kiddo” like how... how do you do anything with that attitude
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paige layle
8 years
teacher: you can't write an essay overnight! also teacher: *makes you write an essay in under 2 hours*
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paige layle
5 years
remember when we sent boys to jupiter to get more stupider? well they’re back, and it worked
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paige layle
5 years
imagine how many engineers, doctors, teachers, singers are not going to live up to their dreams/ potentials because SOMEONE MADE THEM HAVE A BABY y’all are pro life until the life is a woman’s.
@MatteaMerta
Mattea Merta
5 years
For every 4 babies born in #canada 1 is killed by #abortion . 50 years of abortion in Canada has robbed my country & my generation of engineers, doctors, mothers, fathers, teachers, singers, actors... amazing lives. 50 years of abortion is #50yearstoomany because #EveryLifeMatters
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paige layle
1 year
watching the movie “Fall” has my palms AND feet sweating. this movie makes me feel like i’m gonna throw up. i feel so strongly about a movie i’m tweeting about it. #fall
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paige layle
5 years
can we talk about how it’s december 7th and the Grinch and Elf are not on Netflix yet?✋🏻
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paige layle
4 years
i forgot i trained macey to stop me when i’m bouncing my legs when im anxious- i was so confused when she just fully POUNCED on me cause she couldn’t get to my legs cause i’m sitting at my desk, and she wouldn’t get off until i stopped moving. i’m not crying you are
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paige layle
6 years
i’m sorry but having anxiety/ depression does not give you the ok to be mean to people all of the time
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paige layle
8 years
don't get how possessing marijuana gets you 2+ years in jail but if you're a white male athlete you only get 6 months for raping someone ¿¿¿
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