just quickly- wanna make it clear that the person I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with was NOT Wilbur!! Seen a few people speculate that and wanna nip it in the bud now
Also friendly reminder AGAIN that not every person who shares their story wants to share their abuser; it’s the main thing I’m seeing people say and as someone who hasn’t named theirs people need to realise that we almost have more to lose than to gain from doing that.
I think me saying my ex was a cc and also Shelby’s experience just caused the two to get muddled and I don’t want any incorrect facts mixed in with the truth!! Thank you again for all the love we appreciate it beyond words❤️
people need to realise that sometimes people don’t out who their abusers are as it completely detracts from the point we’re making. Does it help us sleep at night knowing we’re actively defending people who ruined our mental and our lives whilst knowing they have a platform? No!
i don’t think i’m going to stream today as it feels a lil too soon and out of place after what’s been happening, but I’ll be on Tubbathon tonight and will be back tomorrow, please be kind to yourselves everyone❤️
not only does it put us in a position to be called liars or to see our abuser be protected by their fans, but also puts us in a position to literally possibly be sued for all sorts and that’s so terrifying and heartbreaking. Support victims for the love of god.
Do we feel peace in doing that??? No!!! But the point we’re making by sharing our experiences is to bring awareness to something that people don’t realise they’re in until it’s TOO. LATE. We don’t want the theories on who it was to detract from that.
Every single day I think about naming the person who hurt me so that they face some repercussions and every day I decide against it as the cons outweigh the pros and I hate that. All we want is to protect our peace.
went to text Harry this morning just to realise he’s still passed out my my living room after crashing here for ‘just an hour’ until his train at 5am :DDDD
I actually think it’s impossible for us to have a bad night out wdym I have a video on us on the floor singing to creep in the middle of the club PHAHAHAHA
The serotonin running through my veins rn- all my pop girlies have released BANGERS, I’m finally deep cleaning my apartment from the depression pit I was in, the sun is SHINING AND ITS FIREBALL FRIDAYYYYY
ello everyone, gonna cancel stream today as I think the 3 day stream & festival weekend has finally caught up to me and I’m EXHAUSTED (i also have plans tonight that i do NOT want to be dead for) so I will BE BACK TOMORROW!!!! MARK UR CALENDARS!!!!!!
i really want to but i think i’m gonna pass on streaming today- I’ve had the busiest week and although it’s been so so fun my body is starting to hate me and im just beyond exhausted🥹I’ll probably change my mind but for now no stream today! (I’ll do a short one tomorrow instead)
think i’m going to do a stream soon where i talk about the mental health/physical health struggles I went through throughout 2022. It’s been something i heavily debated as it’s a personal side of my life but I feel there are elements of it that will help other people-