someone on tiktok once said instead of dreading chores or working out etc start saying to yourself things like "I deserve to have clean clothes put away... I deserve to have a freshly made bed... I deserve to have a healthy hydrated body..." and it's really helped me so much
I was today years old when I discovered that over-explaining is a trauma response from being gaslit/ignored during childhood... Do you know how much energy and time Iโve wasted.... Iโ
cancer, leo, vs. virgo, aries
pisces, taurus, sag,
scorpio, and gemini,
libra explaining cap, and
they need your aquarius
undivided attention searching 4 an
exit
therapist: ok so what do we do the next time weโre feeling sad?
scorpio, taurus, aquarius, leo: isolate ourselves in our room for several days, and come out pretending to be unphased by everyone/everything that hurt me
therapist: no
black on black crime was terminology invented by white america to negate white systematic oppression - by implying black people are so criminal theyโre more likely to hurt their own kind. this is why we never hear white on white crime, asian on asian crime, etc.
IT IS NOT A BLACK PERSON'S JOB TO EDUCATE US ON THE TRAUMA THEY ENDURE ON A DAILY BASIS. IT IS WHITE PASSING/WHITE PEOPLE'S JOB TO PERSONALLY EDUCATE THEMSELVES AND DO BETTER.
cancer, capricorn, libra, and aries: ok iโm going to make a to-do list of tasks i need to accomplish and knock out errands before noon
also cancer, capricorn, aries, libra five minutes later:
*someone nice and genuine wants to be in a relationship with you*
taurus, virgo, pisces, aquarius, capricorn: but....... why? sounds....... suspicious....
๐ new years mantras for the signs ๐
accept what you can't control: virgo, taurus, capricorn, scorpio, leo
speak up for yourself even if your voice shakes: aquarius, pisces, libra, cancer
vulnerability doesn't cancel out strength: sagittarius, aries, gemini
WE SAID BLACK LIVES MATTER, AND THEY ANSWERED BY SHOOTING A BLACK MAN NINETEEN TIMES TONIGHT.
Also, don't say "he had a gun" WHAT ABOUT THE WHITES THAT HAD GUNS MARCHING FOR HAIRCUTS??
friendly reminder calling women old in their late twenties/early thirties is deeply rooted in patriarchal sexism and the need to put expiration dates on women after 21, because girls are taught we must be infantilized for the male gaze๐
if ur with a taurus, scorpio, leo, or aquarius ur definitely NOT single to me bc theyโll burn ur whole house down and mine if they feel disrespected so i gtg
libra, leo, cancer, and pisces are the CEOs of projecting unrealistic expectations onto ppl and getting genuinely hurt/confused when they realize ppl arenโt scripts written for romantic movies... but just.. ppl
fixed signs (scorpio, taurus, aquarius, leo) laying in bed, practicing an internal monologue to get off of their chest, about an inconvenience that happened six years ago: