I hope I marry a man who loves me like I'm the air he breathes. A man who would never be okay with hurting me, who will go above & beyond just to see me happy, who admires me like I'm the prettiest girl to exist, who doesn't have eyes for other girls bcz he's too busy loving me

One of the best things I've done for myself is to stop romanticizing men. They aren't who we want them to be, and probably never will. You choose the one that best fits your needs and give YOURSELF everything else. Fall in love with YOU.

Ladies, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. . The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.

unpopular opinions: marriage edition 💍👀

THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH SAYING TO YOURSELF "YOU KNOW WHAT, THIS AIN'T MAKING ME HAPPY" AND WALKING AWAY FROM WHATEVER OR WHOEVER IS KEEPING YOU FROM THE HAPPINESS YOU DESERVE.

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my type

I hope every Lover girl finds her generous lover boy who treats her gently as if she's a gift from heaven.

we seriously need to bring back courting. what the hell is "wyd tonight?" arrive on a horse and bring flowers like a man

Marry a man who's in his masculine energy. Protecting you, opening doors, carrying bags, taking the lead, encouraging U to follow your dreams. Even though you've been the "I can do it myself" kinda woman all your life, U finally surrendered & allowed your feminine side to bloom>

Girl to girl: Please stop sending men long paragraphs after they hurt you. They don't care and nothing you say will guilt trip them into caring. Take your dignity and go.

This guy told me he wants to have a daughter first because girls tend to be more caring and look after their siblings more. I know he meant no harm it's just interesting how females even before theyre born are expected to serve others. Even in childhood.

men b like “i want you” and then do absolutely nothing

I will marry a lover boy with provider mindset who loves to spoil me, & is unashamedly & unapologetically in love with me.

one cool thing about dating men in your twenties is that you get to experience motherhood

My proposal rules: -Ask my parents blessings - Check my Pinterest ideas for THE ring - Make it a surprise - Uses my full name - Get down on one knee - Have somebody to catch on video and photos - No big crowded spaces - Make sure my nails are done - No holidays or mundane

A man can love you deeply and still cheat on you accidentally.

not to add to the therapy discourse but my toxic parent made us go to family therapy and then made us stop going when the therapist immediately flagged she was being abusive

Perks of living alone: 1. Walking around naked 2. Buying minimal groceries 3. No one drinking my leftover alcohol 4. Not having to talk 5. Cooking for one 6. Sleeping anywhere 7. Crying/singing out loud without having to explain why 8. Lazy days are real 10. Actual peace of mind

Girl to girl: INVEST IN UR LOOKS, get the facial, buy these shoes, the jewelry, get ur hair & nails done. you look better, you feel better, you do better, people treat u better, life is better