Jessica
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⚢ multihyphenate - @chiamakastudios / 📟: jess @chiamaka .studio
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'Existing Outside The Binary: Jessica Udeh Is Operating The In-Between' 🧚🏾♀️
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has anybody ever experienced a negligent helicopter parent? like they can’t stay the fuck out your business but it’s not like they really help you out or do anything for you besides critiquing you after being all up in your business?
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my friends will just be like "aw ok lmk when ur done with ur hiatus and feel like being social" bc they don't center themselves in my life
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Women, even if you're not "attracted" to other women, I promise it's worth it to take a moment and deconstruct the standards of "family" / consider co-parenting with your friends, look up compound living, etc. we really can imagine and implement a new way of life.
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It's wild that as a jewish biracial - a black man says you're coasting on your complexion and you tell him all he does is rap like he tryna free slaves - you are EXACTLY the white boy they're saying you are
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accepting that you’re a bit off is so liberating, idk who needs to see this but if you’re pretending to be normal stop today
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broke niggas always tryna juggle multiple bitches - polygamy requires polygamoney ok
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I hate how the internet spends 11.5 out of 12 months in a year dragging Azealia, saying she’s crazy then calls on her whenever a white person is acting white
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asking little black girls “you think you cute?” when they start coming into their personality/style is violent n anti-black. yea she do, hater.
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I feel like everybody’s saying this is a trash song but we have to remember that at the end of the day she’s a drill artist, and in the context of drill music - this is kinda hard lol
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I hate when people make it seem like holding a grudge is energy consuming.. it's as simple as you did something egregious and I discovered you're not my type of person. What's crazy about deciding to never engage again? It's such an easy act really 😭
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I realize now why I hate people [close to me] asking me a bunch of [silly] questions lmao. It doesn’t matter how innocent, like wtf do you want? Are you about to be of assistance or annoy me further?
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If I love you I can be influenced by you. so I chose lovers and friends according to who I wouldn’t mind rubbing off on me.
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I’m really such an IRL person, I hate maintaining relationships digitally
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girls in art school get balder the further they get into their studies. year 1 is lord farquad bob, year 4 is buzz cut. if they're struggling this process is cut in half.
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so many of my homegirls are realizing that most men truly can do nothing for them and they worry about the future, family, etc because they're "not gay". im like babe.... you don't have to be gay for the people/women in your life to give a fuck about your wellbeing.
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this is how everybody who dates a cancer or virgo feels 😭
so jealous of cats to be honest. imagine being a huge bitch literally all the time and the person who takes care of you is like awwwwwww
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one of closest homegirls was going through something, shorty didn't even have a phone for months, i said fair enough babes lmao, ima catch you when you wanna be caught! it's that simple
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realized dating in this climate is so off putting to me because so many people are lost & trying to fill a void. No understanding of their own internal world, just unhealed people looking for somebody to live in. It’s so draining and I don’t have the grace to not drag anymore lol
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reciprocity is the word, grateful for every1 who pours into me as I do them
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people have an obsession with demystifying beautiful women and needing to feel like they're ordinary, esp other women, and I always feel like that is saying something
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I love masculine energy - when it’s pure, wholesome and free of ulterior motives.
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ppl think it's fake if u don't support their art but i don't support shit i don't like so get over it
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men are enjoying dunking on Jorja Smith so much bc in their minds @ a point she was so out of their league. Now that she's experiencing changes w/ her physique she seems more accessible...u still could never bag a girl like that. She's still out your league. Just wanna remind u.
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I will ghost and still like your posts, just bc you were annoying and we weren’t compatible doesn’t mean you’re not sexy ya know
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anybody who makes you feel corny about your art or how you explore and transmute your experiences into art is not anybody you need around
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okay hey everyone I’m glad you can all relate but I’m sorry I don’t really have any magic advice; I just started telling my mother to mind her fckn business or that she doesn’t know me well enough to advise me, not the best reply but it got her to stfu, I hope this helps 😭
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(ok but - I have seen women use the excuse of mental health while ghosting friends but come out of said depression with a roster of new niggas and new lore about the old ones ?? and those people are def weird and you should probably tread lightly lol)
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ppl in my quotes n comments like "ok well Im Black and I found that HILARIOUS" ok that's fine nobody said Black people were exempt from being silly, being slow is an affliction of equal opportunity
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love when a couple looks alike but not in a weird sibling way - in a sexy “wow y’all really love each other and are starting to morph” kinda way
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do not fuck your fans; anybody who’s shocked and extremely in awe that you’re looking their way is not somebody you need to be fucking with 😭
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Flabbergasted at the fact that everybody just debates, discusses, and challenges the identity & lived experiences of others all day everyday like when I really think about it I can’t believe this is the shit we be doing
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Pa Salieu by Gabriel Moses for the cover story of Dazed F/W '20
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@jaykhendar
*takes a bow*
they talking about “all she does is sample other people’s songs and scream on the track” - have y’all listened to NY drill before???
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hate when bad bitches turn their story replies off. I had something to say!
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I already know a couple bitches who gon do me like Baby Storme when I really pop
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you know that feeling when you need to talk to some1 about their behavior but you know for a fact they cant stand being held accountable so they're going to black? Im still gonna speak cause I owe you that as a friend but I just start preparing for the connection to die after lol
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my least favorite type of bitch is the type who’s light skinned with 3A hair and swear she’s Kelis’ reincarnate. There are many of you and I’m scared.
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LET. NIGGAS. OUT. OF. JAIL.
BREAKING: The Drug Enforcement Administration has agreed to move marijuana to Schedule III.
Cannabis will be allowed to be prescribed by a doctor, paid for with insurance, legally shipped. You will be able to use credit cards, businesses loans, and no 280e tax code😭🙌🏽
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a gift to myself for all my hard work lol
14kt white gold, I feel like my ancestors.
@undergroundgrillz
on IG 🦷✨🖤
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as soon as mfs who refer to women as “females” start quoting your shit saying you’re dramatic/sensitive you just gotta mute that shit lmao, I have no time to argue, bye ashy
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there’s no baiting a person like me because I excel at intentionally not reading between lines. I don’t need to know why you’re tweaking out or being weird bc I don’t care and the simple fact you’re acting strange is enough for me to disengage
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I’ve never walked into a room of beautiful women and felt small or envy or thought anything bad about anybody. grateful to my maker that that’s not my experience; my mental dialogue is usually wow everybody looks so hot.. let’s kiss right here
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Bye don’t get to chattin to me, she’s no lyrical genius n I’m not on payroll, argue w/ ur mama
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I love the mystic girlies who get downloads even when sober, like the girlies who don’t need a psych trip to come to the most basic of conclusions regarding human condition - those are my people
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No two people on this planet know me in the same way; everyone brings out something different, sometimes the same things but to different extents
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I feel like “what’s the budget” is a direct question that deserves a direct response
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back to this bc girls be like "so I hung out with ___ from IG and she didn't have as much money as I thought" or "I linked with so and so and she ___" do y'all not hear yourselves? weak and embarrassing. no wonder y'all have zero friends and zero confidence
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@KhalidahC_
I couldn’t agree more, I think the current concept of the nuclear family, and all the roles and structures that surround it are somewhat restrictive (especially to women) and honestly aren’t conducive to the best child nurturing environment
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never beating the funky attitude allegations but people still love us down
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@GoldRapture
Nah the printing of your tweets is absolutely insane. I’m so sorry!!! My mom would read my diary and critique my friends as well - but can’t put together why I don’t tell her shit about anything or anyone in my life ???
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I had a dream Rihanna dominated the cannabis industry next AND got pardons for hundreds of thousands of black & brown ppl who were jailed for non-violent/weed related charges.
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I genuinely hate being in public sometimes because men who were never ever in their life meant to be graced with a vision such as myself get to partake. for free. and they just stare. zero manners.
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@saintlaurahs
especially if he think he a damn joke box!!! like that’s enough funnies today mister
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I don’t like intelligence that seems like a regurgitation. I like intelligence that is intuitive & contains nuance. People love to repeat the same outdated sentiments regarding shit they don’t really know anything about because sound bites make them feel smart. Zero field work.
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get in loser we're overcoming past traumas and stopping them from sabotaging our adult lives
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they're laughing at her but this is the kind of destigmatization that people who have incurable STD's deserve ✅
Long as Usher took his medicine and aint having a flare up he can bend me over and spread it wide
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I love my friends little weird quirks too, I be smiling at them like ‘aw you’re so strange n cute’
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leave my sister and her chicken out of it ok, she already defeated that goat
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I do not understand the Tyla and Rihanna comparisons at all… and this is not an invitation to try and make me understand it
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I want to date somebody sane who is intentional about romantic endeavors, and at the point in their life where they just want to share their life. not somebody who’s needy, broke, horny and in search of a new fixation - that’s more than half of this piss filled pool 🧍🏾♀️
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Never felt so lost and so grounded at the same time. like idk where I’m going but I’m with the shits either way ya know
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mind u this is not the right flag
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DO NOT BUY A TELFAR FROM A NON BLACK WHO IS PRICE GOUGING, ITS NVR DAT SERIOUS 😭
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literally so cute when somebody says “idk if I can/should say this.. it’s kinda problematic.” music to my fckn ears, baby this is a safe space to be a hot ass contradictory mess of a human - now what were you about to say?? 🍿
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I’ve stopped trying to understand my life as a whole at large and have just decided to take things a day at a time and it’s so freeing lol. Maybe yesterday has something to do with today or tomorrow or maybe next week has something to do with last month but it’s not my business
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when you accept that relationships of all kinds can have life or death repercussions you realize you probably should stop fucking with just anybody
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I really could care less about relatability, I enjoy being an anomaly
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How has this 21 y/o first gen immigrant goddess managed to continuously kill shit after quitting all her jobs, fully committing to her art and passion projects as a freelancer and college dropout? idk, she might not be human 🧝🏾♀️
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omg new barragán
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I hate how a lot of people around my age register aimless texting all day as affection or genuine interest, some of you are so boring and only nice to look at, and I already hate texting so where does that leave us? nowhere exactly
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I see too many great minds go to waste because they’re waiting for roses. People are slow and late, so just keep moving forward. The longer you linger waiting for respect + credit the more genuine opportunity for blessings + accolades pass you by.
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when Kirko Bangz dropped "Drank In My Cup" I genuinely thought there would never be a better song made in history
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6 months from now ima be different. and 6 months from then ima be different again. and so on and so forth. i like leveling up.
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I have something against the new age practice of hedonism because all the beautiful and important things in life wont always feel good or come from chasing a high. there are good things on the other side of hard work or pain, and in dark places too
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I like digesting info about the ego and how insecurity leads people to alchemize potential opportunity or community into a threat. I feel like I dealt with and overcame that as a young girl and it’s why I actually prefer to be around ppl I feel surpass me in ways.
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