heldnheard
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Relationship Writer | Practical Intimacy Advice Real intimacy = feeling safe, seen, and soft with someone. Learn how to build love that feels like home.
Joined April 2025
A high quality single life is better than a draining relationship. Real love should never be: ❌ waiting anxiously for a reply ❌ doubting if you’re enough ❌ swinging between pain and brief sweetness 💪 Now: ✅ I use waiting time to learn new skills ✅ I use wasted energy to
you’re better off alone than with someone who doesn’t know how to love you properly.
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girls don’t get addicted to love they get addicted to the chemicals after sex oxytocin. dopamine. memory loops. that’s why she stays even when it hurts
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"when she texts 'on my period' she’s not rejecting you she’s lowkey testing if you can handle her mood"
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Becoming more attractive isn’t rocket science. Focus on the basics and you’ll stand out fast: * Smell clean and fresh * Fix your posture * Speak with confidence * Take care of your skin * Get a haircut that suits your face Do these 6 and you’ll stop being invisible.
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Fan submission. A girl wrote me saying her best friend invited her to dinner, she thought it was just the two of them. She got dressed up, excited to take pics, and then saw the friend’s boyfriend at the table. The twist? He once chased her like crazy. Even after she said she had
A bro who goes after your ex is a man who cannot be trusted. True or false?
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Love should feel mutual. Love should feel intentional. Love should feel clear and honest.
love shouldn’t feel like begging love shouldn’t feel like waiting love shouldn’t feel like wondering
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Women choose the one who loves them. Men choose the one they love. Don’t waste time on someone who doesn’t want you. Even if it ends in regret, at least it won’t end in damage.
Brooooooo, Neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr date a girl you love. Date a girl who wants you. She will treat you better as a man. Attract, don't chase.
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pov: you like them too much. You open the chat, type a paragraph, delete it, type again, delete again. What you want to send is simple: “I miss you. Are you ignoring me. Can you reply. Am I annoying.”
Once you catch yourself writing whole paragraphs to a girl, you've lost the plot. Stop yourself immediately.
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Sex is the lubricant of marriage. When sex is bad, fights feel like 60% of the relationship. When sex is good, the same fights shrink to 10%.
Great sex in marriage is less about performance, and more about connection.
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3.Your deepest weaknesses Once exposed, they’ll be used against you in conflict. Your family or work problems She wants strength, not constant complaints. Protect your frame. Keep your cards close.
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4 Things You Never Tell a Woman: 1.Your full finances Money is for her to see, not for her to spend. Show lifestyle, not bank balance. 2.Your full dating history Details of exes only create insecurity, comparison, and doubt.
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Dating Hack: If she takes your birthday gift, but forgets yours… Let her keep forgetting. Move on.
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Test her in hardship Lose your job for a few months. Get a minor health scare. Don’t fake disaster—just see her attitude when life gets hard. Does she stay? Or does she vanish?
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2.One-week trip No tour groups. Just the two of you. 7 days together shows: If you can talk endlessly without hating it If her habits match yours (clean, messy, loud, calm) If her spending makes sense or drains your wallet
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3 Things Every Man Must Do Before Marriage: 1. Health check Don’t skip it. You need to know if she’s clean before you build a family. Many men find out too late—diseases, complications, regrets. Protect yourself. Protect your kids.
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Stats don’t lie. The more a couple kisses, the closer they stay. The more they f*ck, the harder they are to break.
"All you think about is sex!" 😡 Stop demonizing him for desiring you. He wants to be with you because he loves you, finds you beautiful, and wants physical closeness. And that's a good thing. You want him to want that, no?
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You’re with the girl you love. Her kissing, her moves in bed—perfect. She says: “Relax, my ex taught me.” How do you feel?
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You have to accept imperfection in love. If you love her warmth, accept she has many friends. If you love her kindness, accept she lacks boundaries. If you love her sensitivity, accept she breaks easily. Every trait cuts both ways.
Most men don’t like to hear this, but long lasting relationships need a lot of forgiveness. You have to understand that your partner isn’t perfect. They will hurt, let you down, and upset you sometimes because everyone makes mistakes. You need to be ready to accept that.
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I’m praying the man who reads this meets the love of his life before 2026— the kind of woman he can’t stop texting, kissing, and fighting for.
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Say no all you want, but don’t ignore her ass. Slap it when she’s bent over cooking. Slap it when she’s glued to her phone. Slap it when she least expects. Her reaction will tell you everything.
10 Ways to DESTROY a Woman's Ego Instantly 1. NEVER fall like a puppy
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