If you've gone through male puberty, it is an immensely complicated technical enterprise to successfully transition. I'm not talking about passing--I'm talking about just to be seen as a woman at all. And during the time you're undertaking that, you're going to fail a lot.
one time i made out on a couch at a party for the duration of the party and at the end of it i leaked all the way through my jeans and it legit looked like i pissed my pants