Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control.
Breakups are ok. Losing friends is ok. Moving on is ok. Healing is ok. Saying no is ok. Being alone is ok. What is NOT ok is staying somewhere where u don't feel happy, valued, loved or appreciated.
Saw a husband holding his wife's hair back because it was very windy and she was trying to eat donut. Another day of telling y'all, women love small gestures you wouldn't even knoww>>.
I hope I marry a guy who understands how important little things are, like holding my hand when I'm feeling nervous, getting me flowers when I'm feeling down, and telling me how much he loves me every time we have a disagreement.
Consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make u feel. Pays attention to detail. Thinks of u when making decisions that could affect u.
I want romance. I want intimacy. I want the 3am love making. I want consistency. I want loyalty. I want the random looks of admiration. I want to know you're just for me. I want date nights and flowers. I want reassurance. I want priority. I want love that's pure and true.
I hope I marry a man who loves me like I'm the air he breathes. A man who would never be okay with hurting me, who will go above & beyond just to see me happy, who admires me like I'm the prettiest girl to exist, who doesn't have eyes for other girls bcz he's too busy loving me.
I really wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife. A cooking wife. A loving wife. A glowy wife. A secure wife. A Caring & obsessed wife, to a Honorable, provider, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, emotionally intelligent, God fearing husband>>.
Princess treatment doesn't mean he buys you gifts 24/7, drives you around or pays for everything. It means he doesn't let you go to bed upset, listens to you, treats you delicately the way he talks and holds you, gives you priority no matter how busy he is.
Girl, You're in a relationship to be happy, to smile, to laugh, to make good memories, to be treated like the prettiest girl. Not to be constantly upset, to feel hurt, & to cry. Real love won't break you, it will build you and bring out the best in you. Love heals, not hurts!.
If love ever finds me again, May the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deeply as I do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted. Someone who feels like home & also finds home in me >.
Can we stop acting like the only deal breaker is infidelity & cheating? let's please add gaslighting, lack of accountability/ communication, immaturity, manipulation, mental/physical abuse, financial instability, not accepting kids, aaannnnddd being a damn liar !!.
I heard a girl saying "If she has to ask for flowers she doesn't want them anymore" but that really goes for everything wether it be love, attention or appreciation, bc it's no longer coming from you it's coming from me. Every woman's love language is not having to ask for !!.
I hope every girl marries a man who is endlessly obsessed with her. Like he sees her go from a pretty 20 year old in heels, to a mom with messy hair, stretch marks & yesterday's clothes on but still thinks she's the most beautiful girl on the planet.
Marry a man who CAN'T WAIT to talk to you & spend time with you & get to know you & fall in love with you. Please stop settling for halfhearted, hesitant & confused kinda relationships. It's so much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you FEEL alone !!.
I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created. I pray I marry an honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries. even when things get tough between us he won't give up and tries >.
Men don't understand that women are reciprocators not initiators. She steps after you step. She gives off your energy. You lead, she follows. It's as simple as that.
I've seen busy men make time. I've seen bad communicators communicate well. I've seen bad texters respond quickly & write paragraphs for their girl. I've seen men who "aren't ready for a relationship" get ready in two conversations. The truth is "IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD".
Girl, don't teach a man how to be your Man. If he doesn't text first, do the same. If he didn't plan dates or buy you flowers, don't ask him. If he doesn't provide reassurance, stop bothering him. You'll get the right Man. Stop expecting the wrong man to love you the right way!.
Marry a MAN that can't go all day without hearing from you A MAN that knows what communication is, even when y'all mad at each other. A MAN that wont let U go to bed mad at him. A MAN that's absolutely loyal and only wants you. A MAN who will go above & beyond to make you happy.
Men aren't complicated. He's not investing in you because you're not worth it to him, he's not chasing you because he doesn't want you, he's isn't communicating cause he don't care about U. He's not giving you what you want cause he's not afraid to lose you. Stop making excuses!.
I hope I marry a Man who Loves me Endlessly. A man who finds pleasure in spoiling me. A man whose tone softens when he talks to me. A man who would never steer me wrong cause he thinks too highly of me. A man who is a provider, who'll move mountains so that my needs are met >>.
I don't care for nonchalance. Point me to the lovers, the providers, the yearners, the poets, the ppl who send long paragraphs and the ones who will send a long paragraph back, the triple texters, the gifters. Point me to the people who love to love and are not afraid to show it>.
I'm so attracted to emotional intelligence in men, like damn the way he actually listens and communicate, A man who tries to fixes it as soon as you bring it to his attention. I would personally not hesitate to SUBMIT !!.
If a woman acts like a baby in a relationship it means that she's with a MAN. And if a woman acts like a mother in a relationship, it means she's with a BOY.