Campari & Ferrari
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Learn/read more evo psych.
It frees you from the image you’ve built up in your mind about her (which she can never live up to) and allows you to enjoy women for what they actually are.
We’re still all just cavemen and cavewomen. Once you see it, it’s an unplugging in itself.
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I have lost count of the amount of times I’ve been out with a group, and the ‘fun guy’ got with the hottest girl there.
The looksmaxxers are chasing a dragon. It’s all about vibes, I promise you.
Up the energy, up the vibes.
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The Look™
Once you’ve experienced it, there’s no going back.
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Ladies.
In a world of Zendayas, be an Ana de Armas.
🍸
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Find a woman who keeps looking at you like this.
👑🇬🇧
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You need to be flirtmaxxing
There isn’t a woman I encounter on a daily basis who doesn’t get called ‘darling’ or ‘sweetheart’. Who doesn’t get a wink and a smile
Gas them all up - every single one. It’ll make their day better, but more importantly will make you a better seducer
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@beamanforreal
A lot of RP advice can be jaded as fuck.
This is not Alpha. You have so much going for you, it doesn’t matter.
Assume the best of people. Be kind, show compassion.
“I’m sorry to hear that. I hope she gets better.”
Then leave the ball in her court.
Be this dude, always 👇🏼
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Tell them you’re trouble, outright.
I will straight up say that I’m a serial womanizer on a date.
Easy (and truthful) admission that earns instant membership into her ‘bad boy’ category.
Watch the cogs start turning. She’s already thinking how to be the one that changed you.
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@beamanforreal
Frame test.
Strong eye contact. Give her your phone. Politely but firmly say ‘It’s just a phone number - don’t overthink it. Put it in here then I need to go’.
She’ll likely never have encountered this level of frame before.
Sahara Desert becomes Niagara Falls.
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Date Escalation tip:
Ask her about her first kiss. Then talk about yours. Go into great detail.
Great device for putting her in a romantic/sexual frame, using her imagination - warm, fuzzy feelings.
This has lead to many a mid-date kiss for me from which to escalate.
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Strike the balance. Be bold and irreverent. But not abrasive.
Be cocky and funny. But not rude and clownish. Charming and charismatic. But not try-hard.
Salt and pepper guys. Little of this, little of that. Ride the edge.
You classy motherfucker.
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@beamanforreal
Predicting a lot of ‘ignore her’ responses here.
Don’t overthink being ‘alpha’, boys. Your life should be full to the brim with activity.
You text her back the next morning, not as a ‘mind game’ but because when you got home you were working on your side-hustle.
Busy man 🤜🏼
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@beamanforreal
Agree & Amplify: “You’re right. I should go and introduce myself” (cocky funny, my personal fave)
Agree & Deflect: “SO rude. Let’s go for lunch”
Pressure Flip: “Hey, you’re the one dating me”
Do not DEER, boys.
DEFEND
EXPLAIN
EXCUSE
RATIONALIZE
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@beamanforreal
“Women don’t want a man who cheats, but they want a man who COULD cheat”
This maxim applies to your notch count, and here’s why.
What is KEY to remember is that women can get laid WHENEVER they want. And they (hilariously) assume the same is the case for men.
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“I don’t normally do this…”
If you hear this, you’re doing it right
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Get into the habit of removing yourself from situations you’re not enjoying.
Conversations. Dates. Nights out. Whatever it is. Just get up and go.
You’ll see how easy and enjoyable maintaining boundaries/frame can be when you’re clear about what you do and don’t want from life.
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@beamanforreal
9 times out of 10, compassion is the best response.
Weaklings get angry, lash out - react.
You’re above all that. Good Kings always are.
Get back to your abundant life.
You’ve lost nothing.
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Who is the most attractive woman who ever lived?
Other than Ava Gardner.
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@beamanforreal
Try doing this one in a way that BOTH holds FRAME, but also INTRIGUED
“Cos bitches ain’t shit” will get you nowhere, boyo.
On the other hand
“I’ve been told I have high standards”
Communicates HIGH VALUE. Sets the BAR. And implies SOCIAL PROOF through these ‘other people’
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@FWPlayboy
“My back hurts”
“Why?”
“From carrying this entire conversation”
- my preferred nuke.
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@beamanforreal
This is a good place to have some fun.
“That’s because you have excellent taste” with a million-dollar smirk 😏
You’ll likely get a giggle, followed by a “don’t you love me too?”
“Let’s just say I have excellent taste also...”
There are ways to say it without saying it
🍸
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@beamanforreal
Again - women MAKE RULES FOR BETAS, and BREAK RULES FOR ALPHAS
She is setting up the Beta HURDLES from outset.
This is her BIOLOGICAL IMPERATIVE. How else is she supposed to separate the wheat from the chaff?
It’s now your job to demonstrate why you are a good REPRODUCTIVE BET
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Drink her in.
My older followers know my mantra. But it’s a difficult line to tread.
It means absorbing and being fuelled by her beauty without falling under its spell and control.
It’s like sailing. You’re harnessing the wind, not letting it carry you away.
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@beamanforreal
The key is to NOT be reactive here.
Do not get angry, or lash out.
You’re a king and this is barely a bump in the road.
Because you live in ABUNDANCE, right?
You’re already at the bar. Go and open the chick sitting at the end.
Life is nothing but opportunities.
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Cold approach is low ROI and exhausting. Any day gamer will confirm.
I rarely do it anymore unless I spot an absolute dime.
But if you haven’t done it AT ALL it’s crucial you start, and grind it out for a while. Think of it like the gym.
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@beamanforreal
This is low-hanging fruit
PERFECT little opportunities to establish frame.
Pick up the menu, or peruse the back bar. Find something fun.
“Ok. We’re trying this”
You’ve commanded the interaction, AND you’re about to go on a miniature adventure together.
Cheers 🥂
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Best way to understand frame.
Frame is your reality. Either people enter it or they don’t - or you enter someone else’s.
That’s all there is to it.
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@beamanforreal
“Me? I’m an angel. You on the other hand look like trouble...”
PRESSURE FLIP always spices up an interaction.
The reality is that the ‘can I trust you’ question isn’t serious. It’s a test of your social DEXTERITY.
If you’re able to turn it around into charm, you’ve won points.
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@beamanforreal
Most of you guys are overthinking this, trying to come up with clever ‘my place’ lines. This is a shit test. Frame frame frame.
“This place is fine. Grab us a seat over there, what are you having?”
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Guys get overwhelmed when it comes to dating advice. It’s a lot to hold in your head when you’re inexperienced.
Eye contact
Escalation
Amused Mastery
etc.
But traps a lot of you guys inside your head. Out of the moment.
Here is the highest ROI thing to focus on
🧵👇🏼
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If you haven’t read these 4 books yet I’m not sure what you’re waiting for.
Learn evo psych. Fundamental pillars of game and seduction.
Will put you miles ahead of the guys who just want easy pickup artist hacks.
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Going private until Elon sorts out the algorithm and can get some actual reach.
Welcome to the members club 🍸
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Don’t overthink approaching.
Say hi. Ask her name. Compliment something she’s wearing. Wry smile. Have a conversation like a normal human being.
If interaction went well, tell her you’ve got to run ‘but let me grab your number’ as you hand your phone over.
All there is to it.
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@beamanforreal
This one is black belt level - the hens make this tough
This is not an ideal open, but you’ve had an IOI so that’s something
One approach is to tackle the group as a whole. You have to go big and confident
“You ladies look like you’re on the way to rob a bank or something...!”
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@beamanforreal
Honestly? You’ve gotta weigh this one up.
You can push back on this as a frame test - but for me, this is a pass.
I have my own bullshit boundaries and if a woman is throwing this kind of shit at me early on, she’s probably bad news.
Let some simp give her a free meal.
Next.
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@beamanforreal
A couple of days? This is her looking for free validation.
And we don’t give that, do we?
Just laugh and say ‘It’s been two days’. Then change the subject.
No tricks, no smart-ass comebacks. Call her out on her silliness.
It’s what she wants. It makes her feel safe.
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Stop looking for the unicorn chaps, seriously
Women are like water. They’ll take the shape of the vessel they’re in
If you’ve performed a memorable seduction and established frame early on, then she’ll take on the role she must to keep you
It’s on you, don’t delude yourselves.
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@beamanforreal
It can be anything. Can be as dumb as “Who would play you in the movie of your life?”.
Makes her focus of the convo. Appeals to her vanity. Puts her in fantasy mode.
Steer topics toward
• TRAVEL
• ADVENTURE
• ROMANCE
• SEX
Always have this in mind as you guide the convo
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This isn’t some Dr. Phil shit…
But if you can learn to listen during a conversation - and I mean *really* listen, with unwavering attention - this is the foundation of charisma.
The intensity of your presence will set you apart - very few men are good at this. Easy win.
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@beamanforreal
What does this mean? It means a high number will not impress her.
There’s a good chance it’ll repulse her.
Because she does not see this as an achievement.
She sees this as you having low standards.
She is applying female sexual dynamics to your situation.
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@beamanforreal
If you do your job correctly:
Hold FRAME
Be SEDUCTIVE
Strike the fine balance between COMFORT and EXCITEMENT
Then she will RATIONALIZE why this rule doesn’t apply to you
Her evolved mechanisms will be screaming that you’ll make beautiful babies, and not to miss the opportunity
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@beamanforreal
10 minutes? Jesus. Nothing but disrespect here.
“No that’s ok. Take care.”
Remove attention. Bad behaviour.
She may reach back out later - at which point it’s up to you whether you give her another chance.
But make no mistake, this is a major 🚩
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@beamanforreal
So many here trying to play games or come up with clever responses.
This is a perfect opportunity for AROUSAL (yeah we forget about that one here don’t we...😏)
“Wear the red one I like. Then when we get back I’m tearing it off you”
She’ll 100% have to change her underwear
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@beamanforreal
You wanna know why it is you’re not sending these kinds of messages?
Because you’re playing head games? Manipulating?
NO
It’s because you’re BUSY. You’re on your MISSION.
“wyd” is for idle thumbs.
Make your life FULL and ABUNDANT and these texts won’t even cross your mind.
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@beamanforreal
“I don’t work here darling”
There’s a fine line between your standard SHIT TEST, and just plain old spoilt brat
This is the latter
Have said it before: ABUNDANCE, guys
The world is full of women. And plenty of them are both beautiful and PLEASANT
Go find one. Ditch the rest.
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Look around you at the mass of pasty, underdeveloped, socially inept soy around you.
Now imagine being a girl going on a first date. How high is your guard up? How low your expectations.
Now imagine you turning up - jacked, groomed, with a silver tongue.
Delightful surprise.
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@beamanforreal
It’s a DATE, not an INTERVIEW
Guys - factual questions DERAIL dates. If they come from her, get things back on track.
Be PLAYFUL
“....nah, you can do better than that. This isn’t just any old date. You and I don’t do small talk. My turn...”
Shift to something fun from here
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@beamanforreal
Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a man who has shit going on.
He naturally becomes a mystery, and of high value.
What’s he doing? How’s he making that money? How come he seems to know everyone?
That social proof and high value get you laid 100x more than ‘wyd’ will
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@beamanforreal
When it comes to AROUSAL, don’t try and be mysterious.
Women absolutely LOVE it when you tell them exactly what you’re going to do to them.
It’s bold, and it plays to women’s largest erogenous zone - her brain.
FANTASY turns women on like PORN does for guys.
50 Shades...
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Ok then. Back for another stint, let’s see how things go.
Manosphere has turned into a clown show these last few months so will do my best to provide some actual value.
Cheers 🍸
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@beamanforreal
AMUSED MASTERY is the key, always.
Treat her as you would your younger sister.
Affectionate but dismissive of her silliness. Tease her. Call her out on it.
All good-natured and with a wry smile.
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@beamanforreal
Women will always bring drama. It’s in their nature.
If you’ve found one that calls out her own bullshit, you may have found a good one.
‘No walk necessary. Just don’t let it happen again’
If the behaviour persists, then you next her.
If it doesn’t - good for you, brother 🤝
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@beamanforreal
IF this gets a laugh and engagement, then you can follow up
Find out where they’re off to, short/fun banter
Then say “Well I don’t wanna hold up the bank raid, so I’ll leave you guys to it. But your buddy was giving me eyes earlier so I’ll need to get her number before you go”
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@beamanforreal
BUT this is all tangential
Other than her seeing you with your arm around some of these hotties on your IG, it’s difficult to convey this
So you simply DEFLECT, nonchalant
“I don’t keep count”
This simple answer shows a) your mission is more important, and b) retains mystery
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Few things feel better than getting a genuine, uninhibited laugh out of a woman. It’s like a drug.
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@beamanforreal
I have pulled this number a bunch of times. It’s magic
Works best on bar stools.
Whilst one of you is talking, simply pull her stool toward you.
Great physical demonstration of frame and confidence. It has worked wonders
PRO TIP:
Make sure stool is not screwed into ground 😉
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Have come to realise the issue that most men have is not having experienced Genuine Desire™
You have no frame of reference for the ‘ride or die, put the babies in me’ kind of burning adoration.
Without this you’re not calibrated for what a high quality relationship looks like.
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If you can learn one thing, make it Amused Mastery.
Likely you’ve heard of it before, but it’s the most powerful tool in your arsenal.
At once it conjures confidence, cocksure aloofness, frame control and masculinity. It’s very attractive.
Link to
@RationalMale
article below.
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ADDENDUM
If she pushes back on ‘I don’t keep count’ and says something like ‘well is it high or low??’, you say
“I’m not going to say - but I’ll tell you that I’m very picky”
DEFLECTS and hints at that HIGH VALUE we talked about
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Here’s a real simple hack to make you 10x better with women.
Learn to drink them in. Their shapes can be magnificent.
Whether it’s a collarbone, an exposed back...drink it in like you’ve been in the desert.
This appreciation of form will translate into your frame, l promise.
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Good advice from
@FWPlayboy
On a date, dress a notch above what you think is necessary. She will appreciate both your confidence and style, and it gives you the flexibility to move on to a classier joint.
Overdress slightly, with a solid frame.
There is no downside to this.
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Did they psyop you into believing we weren’t better as a team?
Make no mistake - they are dividing us so they can conquer us.
Hold frame and the right woman will enrich your life beyond measure.
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Let me clarify some things.
Of course looks carry a big advantage.
The fun Chad is going to beat out the fun chud.
But charisma is a) most within your power to control, and b) has the highest ROI
Women have a broader spectrum of what they will deem attractive. Leverage this
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@beamanforreal
So beyond just being cool and unreactive in your response, it has no bearing on the evening.
It’s on you to behave in such a way that she RATIONALIZES in her head why it’s ok on this occasion to BREAK HER OWN RULES for you
Women:
BREAK RULES for ALPHAS
MAKE RULES for BETAS
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@beamanforreal
When it comes time to kiss, go for the 90/10 rule.
You go in 90% of the way. But then wait for her to close the final 10% gap.
This achieves two things: you maintain a strong frame, and it turns her on like crazy that you’re this much in control of your impulses - believe me.
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@beamanforreal
So many ‘leave her on read’ responses
Boys, you want to get laid right? That means you need to INTERACT with women. STOP OVERTHINKING
“You’re welcome. I’ll drop you a line soon and we’ll get together again”
You’re life should be full, so this isn’t an act
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@beamanforreal
Every question your thrown is an opportunity, guys. Don’t forget this
This one is to demonstrate status and create scarcity.
“They’re at another bar right now, meeting them soon”
This sets you up for a clean out and places value on your time.
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@beamanforreal
And don’t be a dick when you do respond. She’s interested in you and had a great time, because you’re a HVM.
Vindicate this by being a classy fucker
‘Nice to meet you, glad you had a good time. I’ll drop you a line soon, we’ll do it again’
Don’t be a smartass. That’s low-value
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@beamanforreal
Two options here boyos.
“Sure” - you are fun and easygoing. Go with the flow.
“Maybe later. Here, put your number in here in case I don’t catch you.” - the number close creates scarcity and shows outcome independence.
Depends what kind of night you want
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“Every time you looked at me I felt like I was a snack. Like you were hungry. It was hot”
Drink her in.
Do it right and she’ll let you objectify her - and enjoy it too. Appreciate her curves and edges whilst she speaks. She’ll feel desired and dangerous.
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DIRTY MANOSPHERE SECRET
What you say to her or how you approach barely matters.
If you ARE THE FRAME, you can pretty much do it how you want.
Having INTERNALIZED frame means I rarely worry about what I say or do. I know the energy I carry will see me through the interaction.
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@beamanforreal
Beware of these women, lads. They know how to get free food and drinks.
She likely can’t remember the last time she bought something herself at a bar.
I’m old-school and like to pick up the tab on a date - but only when there is a total absence of expectation or entitlement.
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Y’all out there looking for your ‘based’ gf because you haven’t experienced the joy of watching a feminist gradually adopt your worldview.
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@beamanforreal
Said with a smirk and you’ll make sure to keep it FUN and SEDUCTIVE, and not get dragged into a round of fact-based questions.
REMEMBER - date, not an interview.
She’ll try her best to make it resemble a dark room in the Gulag.
Push back on this and keep it fun and romantic
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Controversial opinion - I have no issue with ghosting. Either gender.
If someone ghosts it means genuine desire isn’t there, and saves everyone the indignity of enduring a milquetoast ‘break up’ for something that wasn’t even a relationship in the first place.
Dust off, move on
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Momentum is v important. Women can go cold very quickly if momentum is lost.
Make sure date is booked in fairly soon after approach/app match. Make sure second date locked down not much more than a week after that.
Until you’ve hooked her emotionally, she’s a kite in the wind.
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@beamanforreal
“Cool”
That’s it. Women need to open with the Anti-Slut Defense. It’s imperative for their mating strategy that they don’t betray this.
The reality is, it has little to no bearing on whether she’ll sleep with you that night.
That is on you (and a variety of external factors).
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My most black pill take is that, as a man, you are on your own.
With the exception of a strong relationship with parents/siblings - nobody cares about your hardships and they never will.
Even a ride or die spouse must be mostly protected from them for both your sake.
Strap in
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@beamanforreal
This is an opportunity to establish who you are- a HVM with purpose.
“Haven’t met anyone yet that adds enough value to keep them around”
Say with a wry smile. Change subject to something fun. You’ve lain down the gauntlet, established frame...
...maybe piqued her curiosity...
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I don’t care how beautiful she is.
You have to treat her beauty with irreverence. No pedestals.
She’s your kid sister as far as you’re concerned.
You are unlikely to stoke genuine desire without that dynamic. If you take anything away from me make sure it’s this.
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@beamanforreal
Early interactions are filled with these hurdles. They’re a way of feeling you out, how you handle yourself.
Learn how to handle all social situations GRACEFULLY, with STYLE and not be REACTIVE.
This really is what ‘suave’ boils down to.
It will help you in all aspects of life
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@beamanforreal
If you want to understand women, understand shit tests.
They constitute 90% of early interactions.
It’s in her nature to try and get a rise out of you. The cavewoman wants to see how strong this caveman is.
Brush EVERYTHING off with a wry smile and humour.
Nothing phases you
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@beamanforreal
Being mad at women bringing drama is like being mad at water for being wet.
They are all on a spectrum.
Make your judgements about her based on her position on this spectrum. You’ll know if she’s worth the trouble.
Just hold frame.
And learn to love her nature.
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I’m dead serious. Cleanse your timeline of the blackpill shit. Don’t watch the Fresh Fit/Whatever stuff where they round up the dredges of society and present them as typical
They’re no different from the insane Left - vocal minority.
It’s low vibration and will bring you down.
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Started this account 2 years ago for reasons I cannot remember. Ended up talking about women more often than not, and it seemed to be helping some chaps. So I talked some more.
Suddenly I have 4000 people following me. And I’m grateful for all of you.
Keep drinking her in🍸
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If your first date doesn’t resemble this at some point in the evening, you need to learn how to escalate.
A date is not an interview. Ditch the factual questions. It bores her.
It is about stirring her emotions.
Painting fantasies.
Taking her on an miniature adventure.
🛫
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@beamanforreal
Make no mistake. This is appalling behaviour.
But this one is easy.
WITHDRAW ATTENTION
When she asks what’s wrong, make it VERY clear that she needs to clean up her act.
Tell her EXACTLY how you wanted to be greeted at the end of every day.
Zero tolerance on this one.
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I know it’s hard out there now. But don’t take the black pill.
You are investing in a future. Good things are worth working hard toward.
Red-pilled, you are already ahead of the curve.
She’s out there. Improve yourself, never lower your standards. I hope you all find happiness
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Female friend showed me some texts a dude was sending her.
Oh dear.
Guys - do not overshare. Keep text unemotional and limited. Let her use her imagination.
She said what he wrote was ‘adorable’. And we know that’s not a word you want ascribed to you…
Aim for intriguing.
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You’ve not known love until you’ve loved a woman fiercely within your own Frame.
She’s not known a feeling like it either unless she’s been with a man capable of that.
Red-Pilled Love hits differently, trust me. It’s one of the things in life worth building yourself toward.
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Seduction is about push and pull.
Few women would ever admit that light anxiety is a turn-on for them. Too much and you push her away, too little and she becomes bored.
The romance novel centres on a man just out of reach, one who blows hot and cold with perfect timing.
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I don’t even think of it as ‘cold approach’ at this stage. I’m just happy talking to people
Approaching a woman I think is attractive is just something I slot in depending on wherever I’m going - small detour
I don’t run ‘sets’. Just get comfortable with confident socialisation
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