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the strange girl in your dms

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@callanable
Callan
3 months
I would like to share my full art journey, which I have never told (or shown) before! Read on to learn what happened between then and now!. (self-portrait - 1996, 2025)
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RT @nedsore: Shout out to shells of their former selves! You died and you’re not coming back! You don’t recognize yourself and neither does….
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Callan
2 days
wow not only strange girls but strange law too??? what’s next!?
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Callan
2 days
Bye Boston, hello Austin!
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Callan
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Quiz here:
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Callan
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This was fun but stressful.
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Callan
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RT @scottdomes: people-pleasing isn't something shameful; it's just a sign your nervous system has learned that the fawn response is its mo….
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Callan
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My transformation is underway 😌
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Callan
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“Committing” here could be defined on a large scale e.g. getting married, or a smaller but still important scale, e.g. not prioritizing the “anxious” partner’s needs. It seems likely that in this highly individualistic era, more couples would struggle with this.
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Callan
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How much of what we call “anxious attachment” is actually the pain of committing to a noncommittal partner?.
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Callan
3 days
@majamediaco I guess what I should have said is that this advice might not be for everyone! 🤪.
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Callan
3 days
Ever since I found community who accepts the real me (with varying degrees of closeness), I feel like I've leveled up significantly. I don't recognize that old self, and it happened so fast! I don't think I could have done this alone. (Also, go read @majamediaco's essay!).
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Callan
3 days
I appreciate the pushback I've gotten on this post. My experience is based on isolating due to fear of rejection, which I convinced myself was trying to learn to be happy without external validation. I couldn't do it.
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Callan
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traits you typically find annoying become endearing when they're possessed by someone you love. feels like a growth opportunity?.
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Callan
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RT @__drewface: Asking for help is hard!. But in a subtly weird way, it is the quintessential act of leadership. In a hierarchy, it is the….
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Callan
3 days
“No one learns to love themselves in a room alone.”.
@majamediaco
maja 🔭🍒
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"i can fix them" is a meme, but also somewhat true . we transform each other through love
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Callan
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I’ve been expecting you.
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Callan
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Nana, 84: “I don’t wanna die young”.
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Callan
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later this day, something super horrible happened that kept me from painting for two more months. all my brushes got dried up and ruined. 😞 I will try again someday.
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Callan
2 months
26/100 - two attempts at poppies after a month without painting
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Callan
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RT @lostmybean: I couldn't have said it any better myself
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Callan
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this could be a metaphor or something.
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