🗣🗣🗣 Black ppl pleaseeeee you need water first to hydrate your hair [ I loveeee george’s aloe ], cream to moisturize the hair and oil to seal. if you put oil on dry hair it pretty much seals in the dryness. our hair is hydrophilic. OK?! repeat every 2-3 days and oil your scalp.
shout out to dwyane, gabrielle, will and jada for raising their kids with love and freedom. it’s triggering some of y’all because y’all are convinced that parenthood means ownership. it does not. understand these kids gon look real different to us and that is not a bad thing.
y’all be gaslighting people while you're apologizing. the words you're looking for are: I am sorry. not ”sorry if I made you feel...” or ”sorry because you felt that I...” just a good ol’ sincere I am sorry and changed behavior will do.
one day I’ll have to talk about Black women and emotional eating. I’m so exhausted of my aunties using ”you lost|gained weight” like it’s a damn greeting. I know our bodies change but they are so obsessive about weight and food. it’s really not good mentally or physically.
some of y’all don’t even know how powerful you are. merely just being in your presence is healing & you’re wasting that on people who can’t even love you. cut ties & send them back to themselves. don’t you got shit to do?
if you know that everything you were taught about race is a lie, then why is it so hard to believe that everything you were taught about gender is a lie too? or sexuality? lean into that cognitive dissonance.
y’all realize the compounding effects of poverty and racism are more responsible for high blood pressure and other things than food?
y’all get that right? we’re not gonna do this.
feng shui money tips: clean up your money corner, make sure your stove is clean and all the burners are working, keep your bathroom clean and the door closed at all times
before the new year [end of march at the latest] clean out your closets!
september & virgo season is really bout to be like here’s a painfully crystal clear understanding of all your childhood wounds and fucked up relationship habits that resulted from constantly feeling unloved...but would you like to organize your bookshelf? 🥴🥴🥴
stop violating your soul taking on projects you have no intention of finishing or committing to just so you can have a reason to feel like a failure so the cycle of self-sabotage can continue. stop. it.
karma is not about punishment. it’s about balance. period. I don’t fear my karma because I stand 10 toes down whatever I say or do. I am willing to be held accountable. I am willing to take responsibility. but I stand in my truth. karma is more divine than wrong & right.
straight ppl be like girls grow up faster than boys. no. y’all give teenage girls the responsibilities of grown ass women and boys don’t have to do shit. not even in marriage or fatherhood. the expectations are violently low. it’s not genetic. please.
the reality that you can give it everything you have and still fail. really the precarious nature. you can fall and never recover emotionally, financially, psychologically, physically. no safety nets and no guarantees.
keep defending your parents and their traumatizing ass behavior if you want but I’m hoping more of y’all do some healing and wake tf up so you can stop treating your kids like they not people with their own identities and personalities. Black kids deserve.
people rarely leave childhood unscathed by trauma. and that in turn affects relationships. you don’t need perfection just someone doing their healing and willing to stick with you through yours. relationships are just a deeper level of shadow work. every relationship is a mirror.
a lot of y’all are really too smart, too conscious and too aware for your own good.
you gotta learn to turn your brain off sometimes. at least down a little bit.
maybe just speaking for myself but I had to recenter my joy and what I can control.
Toni Morrison is a conjure woman. She said she saw one of her characters walk up out of the water in all white when she was sitting on a pier. She said her characters talk to her, but not until she gets their names right. Whew. Black women’s literature is so powerful.
people who have their awakening young do not peak in high school. we go through hell in our youth but the experience of being who we are ages like fine wine.
at some point you realize your caregivers are little kids in adult bodies with adult jobs that never grew up & you are heading down the same exact path if you don’t make radical changes to how you show up & choose to exist in this world. the difference is emotional healing.
burnout is not normal. exhaustion is not normal. being well adjusted to it doesn’t make it ok.
find normal for you & get there. set the intention & move.
some of you came here as mother souls. this is a theme of the 2020 forecast. mother souls are the endless givers and the ”strong friends.” the Universe is saying turn towards your ancestors and guides for strength and clarity. time to fill your cup. time to find community within.
ohhhh and a denman brush will change your life too. I don’t know how but it's magic tbh. you can detangle 4c hair in like 20-30 minutes after you wet it. don’t comb your hair dry.
my auntie hit me with you millennials are sensitive
I was like no y’all don’t wanna accept that you’re exhausting to deal with 😂
they all wanna just say whatever comes to their mind and act like their are no repercussions then be surprised when they don’t hear from us
I just saw a tweet that said nobody driving 45 mins to see you no matter how fine you are. lesbians will catch a whole plane. like 45 mins ain’t shit. 😂😂😂
for those of you who have done the work [ shadow work, introspection, inner child healing, journeying into your subconscious ] july is graduation. the eclipses are a celebration. the level of freedom here for you to experience is unparalleled. by august you’ll know...
do y’all think houses hold energy? like if there was abuse or sadness or a lot of dark energy in a house the physical structure somehow holds it permanently? or is it always the people in the house that carry energy?
when you buy from a small Black owned business their prices have to cover everything.
health & car insurance. rent. business expenses. groceries. car repairs. the phone & laptop they’ll need to replace soon. shipping.
& most people forget that their labor is barely compensated.
when you assert boundaries with your parents you allow them to relinquish parental duties and you become responsible for yourself and your inner child.
the amount of blood shed on this land in the name of this country alone gotta be enough to spiritually bind folks for generations.
bombing a hospital is soulless behavior. idc idc. for the rest of us to have to sit by and witness it all while they are lying to our faces and
when 2019 comes & the blessings are flowing don’t forget that when you level up tests get harder & people tryna dim your light get fiercer. don’t react in old ways. use your creativity. be mindful. but don’t be afraid to eviscerate a muhfucka.
in love & light,
— aconjurewoman
I’m not even joking. some of y’all auras are literally healing & whenever you direct your attention to a person they receive that healing. y’all don’t even know. I stg. your POWERRRR. wake up, sweetie. redirect that energy back to self & watch magic happen. I promise.