I’m really excited to finally be able to share my new show with you all. This has been in the works for two years! Episodes releasing every Thursday over at
Wow. Nearly 3000 replies because one woman voices her opinion that we shouldn’t be at a point anymore where we just accept media that normalizes patriarchy. Cool cool cool. Everyone’s having a normal one I see.
Why hasn't America frozen rents and mortgages?
Why hasn't America nationalized its health services?
Why hasn't America released everyone in prisons?
Why hasn't America issued a "shelter in place" for the whole nation?
Now's a good time to read up on alternatives to capitalism.
Video Games are having a
#metoo
moment. The toxicity from fans has been well documented for years but the toxic, abusive, predatory behavior between developers has mostly been spoken in whispers between trusted friends. I'm in awe of the bravery of those who have spoken up today.
I wish all these racist, sexist assed fuckers could feel even a tiny bit of shame and even an ounce of compassion. We've gotta reign in the toxicity that is dominating and destroying what would otherwise be vibrant and welcoming fandoms.
There sure seems to be a lot of transphobia in my mentions lately so again, I will repeat, as often as needed:
Trans women are women.
Trans men are men.
Non-binary folks are real.
I will never accept a feminism that does not recognize the humanity of all people.
The games industry's failure to take GamerGate (including all the preceding years of abuse leading up to it) seriously is a massive failure. A failure that sadly, has had widespread consequences for American and global politics.
I've got some real mixed feelings about all the folks coming outta the woodwork to share how once upon a time they hated me just cause that was the cool thing to do but then they grew up, actually watched some videos and now see the value in my work.
I don’t know why TERFS are flooding my mentions right now but:
👏 Trans 👏 Rights 👏 Forever 👏
I will always support and fight for the rights of all trans people to live full, safe, and respected lives.
We will not accept transphobia or transmisogyny at Feminist Frequency, from our supporters or within the larger feminist community. Keep your money; we don't want it.
@femfreq
@carolynmichelle
I'm not sad to see
@femfreq
supporting this kind of thing, but sad that they are demonising feminism itself for focusing on women. I am withdrawing my 4 years support today. Women shouldn't be punished because they don't want males on the movement.
Fuck off. We are not individually responsible for the destruction of the planet. Corporations and governments are the only ones who can make any kind of meaningful impact. Stop with this neoliberal bullshit.
Scared by that new report on climate change? Here's what you can do to help:
• Eat less meat (about 30%)
• Swap your car or plane ride for a bus or train
• Use a smart thermostat in your home, and upgrade to more efficient appliances
More:
How about we stop using the kitschy, almost cute term "alt-right" that was popularized by a neo-nazi (Richard Spencer) to describe fascists, white supremacists, anti-semites, racists, islamophobes, and xenophobes?? Stop sanitizing hate with cute words and just call it what it is.
Israel did not exist until 73 years ago when they were a settler colony that took over Palestine and have been violently maintaining their position ever since. If you don’t know this history here is a good primer to get you started:
The cost of being online for so many of us is to live with a constant onslaught of hate, and if it's not being directed at you, you're a witness to it. And that has a real psychological impact.
Stop accepting that this is just the way the internet is & start demanding better.
I just saw a close male friend post something super sexist so I sent him a message about it and his response was as simple as "you are right" and he removed it immediately. So bless the allies who respect and trust us enough when we call em out.
tl;dr: online harassment isn't just threats, it's never being given the benefit of the doubt because you are a woman. It's never being able to make a typo or small mistake. It's having 3000 people actively try to silence you because you have an opinion about a beloved TV show.
I think I made like 10 videos explaining what this minute long clip quickly demonstrates.
But also watch my videos (
@femfreq
) because they are good and have theory and explain things and such.
But also lol this is just lol... sad lol
This misogynist fool was harassing and stalking me years before the hashtag gamergate was ever dreamt up by a douchebag d-list celebrity and he wants to explain to Rian Fucking Johnson what GG really is. LOLOLOL GOOD JOKES KID.
Van Jones crying on national television (and not having him cut away or walk off) is really special. We so rarely get to see men cry and express sincere emotions, and he’s crying from relief not anger or rage which are the only emotions patriarchy allows men to show.
Most mass media overwhelmingly centers men, and perpetuates patriarchy. The
#Mandalorian
is no exception. It wastes no time in establishing a patriarchal setting: the bartender is a man, the bar patrons are men, the cab driver is a man, etc. The first “female” we meet is the ship
I can't with these headlines about Bush's "masterful foreign policy". He was a warmonger whose violence created unliveable conditions in Iraq hurting civilians, like my family who didn't have access to life saving drugs or basic food. Fuck him. And fuck media's historical erasure
I've always wondered exactly when the shift in animation casting moved to "just get the biggest star". Leave it to the brilliant
@thelindsayellis
to school us on movie history! Check out this great video.
I'm 100% here for people growing. We can't change the past but we can absolutely change the future. And that's what's happening. It's okay to be a feminist now, it's even kinda cool to be one.
But it doesn't change how fucking horrible it all was and in many ways still is.
it does offer us a moment to reflect on how online harassment is much more than sensational headlines about death and rape threats. It can also be aggressive dogpiles of thousands of voices desperately trying to silence feminist and progressive perspectives.
I will always and forever stand with trans women and all trans people to live fully realized, respected, and safe lives.
Fuck TERFS. Fuck the Proud Boys. Fuck all the transphobes.
#wispa
#wispaprotest
When asked to do media interviews don't be afraid to ask:
➡️ What's the framing of the piece?
➡️ Who else is being interviewed?
➡️ How you will be framed? (esp for stories about victimization)
➡️ Do they offer hair and make-up? (for on camera)
You can decline for any reason.
This isn’t fucking hard. Feminism is about the liberation of all people to live fully realized lives. If trans people aren’t included in that it ain’t feminism.
It may introduce a few significant female characters later on. Great. It doesn’t change the fact it perpetuates and normalizes patriarchy. We all accept patriarchy in our mass media without batting an eye. When someone calls it out, we get upset. I wonder why.
The transphobic hate is so relentless and inescapable and it's coming from every damn corner. This isn't much but just want to shout out to all the trans folks who might see this tweet: I see you, I see your struggle, AND I see your joy. Fuck TERFs.
Turkey is gross.
Nobody ACTUALLY likes that dry ass flavorless bird right? You gotta drown that shit in gravy and mashed potatoes and cranberry sauce and whatever else white people eat on holidays just to choke it down.
Don’t answer that.
We’d have to stop being friends.
Me: *looks at a painting* Bonsoir, cet artiste est-elle local?
Shopkeeper: sorry no English
Me: *again in French* Ça va, juste demander si cet artiste est marocain
Shopkeeper: *says in French* oh you're trying to speak French lol
Me: 🤦🏻♀️😭🤦🏻♀️😭🤦🏻♀️
Since the Last of Us 2 leaks happened I have been accused of ruining the game. Harassers have fabricated out of thin air that I had anything to do with the game and have flooded my mentions with their "thoughts".
I'm gonna share some of my favs starting with this one:
If RRR is still playing in a theater near you run run run! It is epic! And is so much better in the original language and with a rowdy audience. I felt high and such joy walking out of the theater.
"they're just words"
"you can't take a joke"
"you're just making it up"
"it's just boys being boys"
"it's just the way the internet is"
"just sign off if you can't handle a little criticism"
"the threats aren't real because she's still breathing"
🖕🏼🖕🏼🖕🏼
Remember how our award-winning video series Tropes vs. Women in Video Games provoked some *feeeeelings*? Well, we’re back at it again. Join us for the live premiere of Queer Tropes. This Tuesday at 8 AM PT! Click the link and ring the bell:
Happy
#PokemonDay
!
✔️ i’ve never played a Pokemon game
❌ but I’ve seen the dreadful detective movie, in theaters no less
💛 and I still don’t really know why this illustration exists but it’s everything
“I’m happy to say that, even though I disclosed my [hateful, misogynist, & regressive] YouTube channel to WB Games, it didn’t appear to be an issue for them [and I get to continue being a successful game designer on a major project with no consequences].”
Kebob guy: you american?
Me: ya
KG: what's up with your president?
Me: he's terrible
KG: why?
Me: don't you watch the news?
Me: are you Turkish?
KG: ya
Me: your president sucks too
KG: ya... very true
This is bullshit. If you're getting locked out of your account for supporting trans rights, or defending yourself against transphobic hate let me know.
Just walked out of
#AvengersEndgame
and I really hope y'all aren't gonna try and claim this movie is a feminist film because of one 10 second scene.
#preemptivetweet
Allowing space to voice dissenting opinions is important but there is a big difference between calling out oppressive and regressive ideologies and defending the status quo to the degree that it actively works to dehumanize the most vulnerable people in our society.
There's something really satisfying as a media critic when you don't like a show, explain why you don't like it, and many people who really liked the show still find value in your perspective. Is this what engaging in *gasp* respectful dialogue feels like?
I'm endlessly stunned by how Anita Sarkeesian presented the most milquetoast of feminist theory and it resulted in rage greater than I've seen before or since. like. basic concepts like gendered signifiers and gaze. what the fuck. how did that even happen.
There is so much trauma in our communities, so much of it is invisible, never talked about, kept hidden. And how do we begin to heal individually and collectively when the forces doing harm are still actively doing that harm?
If you stop eating meat, it’s not going to stop the production of meat.
If you stop using plastic bottles, it’s not going to stop the production of plastic.
Individual choices, even on a massive scale would make little to no impact at this point.
I highly encourage folks who are coming forward about abusive people in the games industry to preemptively protect your online data.
@PrivacyDuck
and
@abine
’s Delete Me are two pay services that help scrub your personal information from people finder sites.
Just cause the olympic committee says "sport is neutral" does not make it so. Sports, along with all media express values and beliefs and therefore are political. They are platforms with huge audiences and as such should absolutely be sites where players protest injustice.
The Olympic Committee is banning protests at the 2020 Olympics.
It says "political, religious or racial propaganda" like armbands, kneeling or raising a fist will not be allowed at games or medal ceremonies because "sport is neutral."
This is by far one of the most offensive, mind-boggling, self-centering, completely useless responses I've seen to corporations trying to show solidarity.
For 8 minutes and 46 seconds, we will stop posting in our social feeds in tribute to George Floyd. We dedicate this time to the victims of police brutality and the powerful movement fighting for justice. Join
@ColorofChange
. Text DEMANDS to 55156
When I talk about online harassment lately I try to point out how some of it isn't eggregious violence or even against platforms' TOS but it is exhaustive dogpiling with conspiracy theories, lies, and disinformation. Responses to the below tweet is a perfect example👇🏼
We had the opportunity to sit down with Anita Sarkeesian to talk about feminism, her role as a feminist media critic, the challenges she’s faced in her work, and of course – ethics.
Last night I tweeted. In that tweet I a) made a typo and b) was distraught that there are no female speaking parts in the first episode of
#Mandalorian
. I was wrong and forgot that there was ONE scene, with ONE woman speaking (LOL). Which I clarified at the end of chain.
and yet
Men being surprised and impressed that women eat steak and play videos games reinforces that it's not normal for us to eat steak and play videos games. Some of us eat steak and play videos games. And some of us don't. Because humans can like different things regardless of gender.
This morning I woke up to 2.7 thousand replies (and they are still coming in). These replies are a mish-mash of "no one cares" "you're pathetic" "leave our precious toys alone" "relax" "good! women are dumb" etc etc etc
This is nothing particularly new but...
Am I extremely tired or is there not a single female speaking character in the first episode of
#Mandelorian
?? I've gotta have missed something right???
Feminism is about equality, justice and liberation.
If you don't support the rights of trans people, or acess to abortion, or don't support efforts like Black Lives Matter, or workers rights (as just a few examples)...
YOU ARE NOT A FEMINIST
I wrote an end of decade thing for Polygon. And it'll probably piss off some people. And yes I'm tired of talking about online harassment so let's end it already.
Woke up this morning to a dumpster fire in my mentions (I mean it's always a dumpster fire tbf). These fools are still spreading bullshit conspiracies that are so bonkers they aren't worth repeating but it's just so exhausting. I guess being a misogynist asshole never gets old.
Often times when the original Lara Croft comes up in discussion, people are quick to say that she was created for the "male gaze." I'm making this thread to clear the air on this misunderstanding, which mostly comes from those who didn't play the games tbh 1/?
I agree with this so much. I really wish American TV took cues from the British about prioritizing mini series formats or letting shows finish when the story is done.
hot take!! choosing to end the good place when it feels right and not letting the show get dragged out and lose itself is such a respectable decision!! it’s sad for us now, but it’s infinitely better to end it right than have it drag out and lose us in the process!!!!!
Shame on you
@MayorOfLA
.
Your police force brutalized and attacked protestors for PROTESTING ABOUT POLICE BRUTALITY. They cops were obviously given permission to shut off cameras and remove badges/identification.
#LAProtests
#Laprotest
#DefundThePolice
I feel like now is a great time to remind folks that it is both possible (and even necessary) to simultaneously enjoy media while also being critical of it’s more problematic or pernicious aspects.
#lastofus2
#lastofuspart2
Still amazing to me that I'm regularly accused of not being "a real gamer" but male YouTubers making attack videos about me openly admitting they don't play games get all the respect and admiration for their half-baked-logical-fallacy-filled ideas about games.
10 years ago I started a weird little video blog and named it 'Feminist Frequency' even tho everyone told me that no one would pay attention if I put feminism front and center. Lol.
Protip: If someone is asking you for an introduction to a friend or colleague, always get consent from the other person first. Don't ever give out someone else's contact information without their knowledge. No matter how mundane or harmless the interaction might seem.
I'm not ready for two years of aggressive election campaigning. We desperately need to institute:
✅ legally defined campaign periods
✅ strict financial caps on campaign costs
The amount of money about to be spent is reprehensible.
A young man came to my talk this evening in Vienna who obviously bought into a lot of the bullshit make believe hype about me and was so startled to hear and see me in person and realize that I wasn't a fire breathing video game destroying supervillain.
Just got an email from a podcast whose description includes, "The PC culture has silenced many, but Minihane is ready to fight back" asking me to come on and talk about my opinions about The Mandalorian. LOL sure dude. sure.
Not wanting to add more views or attention to PETA but I'm so tired of how consistently their "activism" is deeply oppressive, offensive, and degrading to ACTUAL HUMAN BEINGS. Of course, we shouldn't be cruel to animals but the real oppression of Black folks is not equivalent.
If anyone is a survivor or feeling victimized and doesn't know where to turn I am here for you, and
@femfreq
is here for you. You can reach out to us at and I'll open the
@femfreq
DMs to the public for a little while as well.
Axiom’s End by
@thelindsayellis
is absolutely sensational. I stayed up way too late and canceled meetings the next morning just to finish it because I could not put it down. Do yourself a favour and read it.
Hey
@CDPROJEKTRED
, I'm always available for consulting cause it sure sounds like you might need it before the whole of the internet drags you for what sounds like some potentially sexist representations... which we all know you've struggled with in the past 😬
this is like a fucking turducken of facile takes, genre ignorance, and milquetoast body squeamishness. which is maybe not ideal from the makers of a game literally called Cyberpunk
Their bravery is going to give courage to other women and non-binary folks to speak up and you can rest assured that this is a massive problem affecting and caused by the developers who make the games you love.
So let me remind you: Believe women
Lololollolol 🤦🏻♀️ So I *WAS* there (arguably more than whoever the fuck you are). And this is the same bullshit that was (and still is) used to justify the widespread, organized assault on women, people of colour and queer & trans folks. So GTFO with this garbage.
Now imagine this every single time you tweet or several times a month for years on end.
Now you might be thinking that the left dogpiles too and how is this different? Maybe you think I'm just mad because it's against my particular perspective.
Someone should tell these misogynist lawmakers (men *and* women) that the Handmaid’s Tale is not actually a blueprint for the future, it was supposed to be a hyperbolic warning. But it seems to be less and less hyperbolic everyday.
#WomensReproductiveRights
These types of arguments, intentional or not, perpetuate the status quo by making excuses for sexism. You can like whatever the hell you want but don't pretend water isn't wet.
This is a time when all the men who claim to be allies get to show their real values. If you work with or are in communities with predatory men speak up, speak to management, voice your concerns, demand consequences for predatory behavior.
On my "I've-been-harassed-non-stop-for-ten-years" anniversary after hearing the same bullshit conspiracy theories, lies, disinformation, gaslighting & straight up stupid ass non-logic I am going to snap. It's gonna be real messy. Maybe we should schedule a premiere for that too.
This is very real. YouTube's algorithms are built to keep viewers on the site so it starts feeding them more and more extreme material. And the more one engages with it the more reasonable it seems, even as the messages become increasingly absurd (and immensely harmful).
Second time in two weeks I’ve talked to a dad whose teenage son is being radicalized by content recommended to him by YouTube. Regular folks have no idea this stuff is out there, being force fed to kids, and no tools to help reduce or prevent the harm.
This year's
#E3
was the second worst year for female representations since we started collecting this data five years ago. Not a great sign for the state of the industry.
The fact that we don't have universal healthcare in this country is a goddamn travesty. It is so utterly outrageous that I can barely even wrap my head around it.
A man got out of his truck and walked up to me, I thought he was going to ask directions but started asking me questions about where I'm from. I asked him what he wanted and he made it clear he was hitting on me. When I refused his advances he asked if I was some kind of feminist
Netflix co-CEO Ted Sarandos is doubling down on his defense of Dave Chappelle following the mounting controversy around his latest comedy special: “We have a strong belief that content on screen doesn’t directly translate to real-world harm.”