2006: everyone has a myspace
2010: everyone has a facebook
2014: everyone has an instagram
2018: everyone has a snapchat
2021: everyone has a tiktok
2024: everyone has a ____?
If you're making $120k to $180k a year in NYC, you're extra prone to lifestyle creep.
This is when you start spending on stuff like:
• $5,000/mo luxury apartments
• $300/mo social club
• $280/mo high-end gyms
• $120 concert tickets
• $40 Ubers
• $28 cocktails
• $8 coffees…
MY O1 VISA WAS APPROVED! 🇺🇸🥳
In the eyes of the United States government, I am officially an “Alien of Extraordinary Ability.”
Incredibly thankful to be in this great country.
More ppl should consider Toronto:
• Most diverse, multicultural city in the world
• Great talent (many good schools here)
• "Open door" immigration policy
• 1st fastest growing city in NA
• 8th most livable city globally
• Solid food, music, art scene
• Nature everywhere
The hottest trend of 2024 will be social clubs, private memberships, and peer group communities.
• Ppl are lonelier than ever
• Ppl are craving intimate communities
• Ppl are seeking more fulfillment in their relationships
Curated, purposeful communities will crush in 2024.
🥂 Throwing an event in NYC on the evening of April 28 for those in tech / startups / investing / general biz.
Rented out a neat venue in West Village. Drinks provided.
If you're looking to meet others in NYC doing cool things, comment below, and I'll send over an invite.
Where to meet remarkable people:
• The gym at dawn
• Wellness retreats
• Mastermind networks
• Coffee shops on the weekend
• Places of learning (e.g. bookstores)
Seek environments that attract motivated, high-agency people.
Today is my last day at Google.
I am grateful to have had the opportunity to work here with some of the smartest people in the world. It’s been nothing short of incredible.
But I’m excited for what’s next.
Three years ago, the idea of living in New York City, and working for a…
At the last 8 dinners I hosted, less than a QUARTER of the guests ordered an alcoholic beverage.
Is a shift slowly happening or am I just in a tech bubble?
Starting at
@Google
NYC today as a Global Product Lead.
A huge thank you to the many wonderful humans who supported me along the way. I'm enormously grateful.
To all Googlers in my network — I’d love to reconnect with you in the coming weeks. Please reach out anytime!
If your goal this year is to:
• Meet more ppl
• Attend more events
• Find new communities
• Expand your social network
• Build meaningful relationships
Comment below and I’ll connect you with the right events, communities, and resources.
If you're new to NYC or want to meet new people this summer, give me a shout.
I'll connect you to the parties, mixers, & dinners happening in the city.
Everyone welcome. No need to be in tech, business, investing or w/e.
A cultural shift is slowly happening.
A few years ago, if you didn't drink, people would discreetly judge you.
That you might have a problem, be sick, or be in a poor mood.
Now, the reverse is happening.
Predicting that in 5 years, < 50% of ppl in the US will consume alcohol.
Best co-working spots in NYC:
• Ground Central Coffee Company
• New York Public Library
• Devoción Williamsburg
• The Marlton Hotel
• CitizenM Bowery
• Black Cat Coffee
• PUBLIC Hotel
• Paper Coffee
• Pause Cafe
• The JIMMY
• Arlo SoHo
• Book Club
• The Roost
🌇 I'm throwing the FIRST NY rooftop tech mixer of the season on May 10.
It's at a gorgeous rooftop with stunning views of Manhattan.
Join other founders, operators, and investors for an evening of sunset views, conversation, and connection.
👉 Engage for details!
In 2024, I am hosting a series of curated dinners at private locations around NYC.
It’s going to be quite special.
Founders, builders & creators—you are invited.
Engage or comment if you’re interested.
It's been an insane year.
• Left my job
• Quit drinking
• Met my partner
• Started a company
• Jumped out of a plane
• Brought 10k+ ppl together
• Spoke in front of a thousand ppl
I'm incredibly grateful.
Onward to 2024.
🌆 Throwing a sunset rooftop mixer on the evening of June 15.
It's at a spectacular hotel rooftop in Williamsburg w/ skyline views of Manhattan.
If you're looking to meet others in NYC doing cool things, give me a shout.
🙌 A Guide to Happiness
@naval
is a high performer (co-founder of AngelList, investor, life guru) who leverages a series of tools to maximize happiness.
Here are his tricks to be happier in the moment. A thread:👇
Equinox no longer feels like a premium experience.
The NYC gyms during most hours are just as packed as Blink ($20/mo). Equinox costs $300/mo.
Impossible to even grab the weights without bumping into a dozen sweaty dudes.
Who’s building the next high end gym?
My favorite places to co-work in NYC:
• NYPL
• Arlo Soho
• Ace Hotel
• 11 Howard
• Hotel Hugo
• Made Hotel
• Public Hotel
• The Beekman
• Marlton Hotel
• Selina Chelsea
• Panorama Room
• CitizenM Bowery
• Urbana Cafe & Gallery
• Moxy NYC East Village
I went to this rooftop bar almost every week for two years.
Great views, incredible service.
Finally convinced them to let me host my monthly junto club there.
I’m creating a small, curated WhatsApp group chat for tech builders + ‘tinkerers’.
It’s for sharing new ideas, disruptive tech, running experiments, etc.
e.g. ChatGPT, growth hacks, community building, DTC stuff…
Who’s interested?
It’s insane how just ONE tweet / email / post / call / conversation / connection / interview / introduction / coffee chat / dinner party / conference / community / networking event…
…can change the course of your entire life.
NYC tech founders, funders & friends—where you at?
I’m throwing a tech mixer on April 4.
It’s at a historical music hall-converted theatre in Manhattan. Drinks, bites & vibes provided.
👉 Comment for details!
Had the best workout of my life today.
At a new gym that opened up in Brooklyn.
• They host tech events
• Private sauna, ice plunge
• All the equipment you’d need
• They’re even opening up a sushi bar
Cherry on top: They cap membership. It’s always quiet there.
If you’re going to New York Tech Week this year (Oct 16 - 21)…
Comment 👋 on this tweet and I’ll add you to our group chat where we’re sharing events, dinners, and parties.
@roshanpateI
The good old days of being an operations associate.
Doing everything from leading company wide strategic planning to helping the CEO find a restaurant for her birthday.
I want to host an event called "No Networking Allowed".
NO talking about what you do for work.
We'll use volunteers + prompts to facilitate deeper, more meaningful convos.
Who's interested?
Founder friend is building "Topgolf for Tennis"
Looks promising:
• Space is hot - BlackRock invested $150M into Puttshack; Calloway w/ $3B in Topgolf
• Space has grown 400% since '01
• Founding team is brilliant
Space left in the round for angels who love tennis. DM me.
ANNOUNCEMENT: I'm partnering with
@rhobusiness
to fly out 5 founders, creators or builders to New York for Tech Week (June 3 - 9).
We'll cover your flights and hotel + give you VIP access to our events.
Interested?
Here's what you need to do:
1. Fill out the form in the Tweet…
Instead of late nights out and boozy brunches, a bunch of my friends are now opting to "co-work" together on the weekends.
They work 9-5 jobs and want to invest the extra time on the weekend to build out ideas they're passionate about.
Inspiring as hell to see.
🌇 I'm throwing a rooftop tech mixer on June 6 in NYC.
It's at a rooftop with stunning views of Manhattan!
Join hundreds of other founders, operators, and investors for an evening of skyline views, conversation & connection.
👉 Comment (& follow me) so I can DM you details
Idea: co-working spaces that serve nutritious meals.
A cafe with breakfast and lunch. Cost of food is baked into the subscription.
Founders have their needs taken care of and can focus on their work.
Why doesn’t this exist?
Bars in NYC to take your clients to close a deal:
• JIMMY
• Westlight
• The Crown
• The Hoxton
• Soho Grand
• King Cole Bar
• Bar Blondeau
• PUBLIC Hotel
• The Beekman
• The Crosby Bar
• CloudM Bowery
• Panorama Room
• Raines Law Room
Starting a thing:
Bringing 6-8 founders and creators together each weekend to jam / problem-solve / share ideas.
But in a fun way.
We’ll have food, tunes, etc.
A few ppl interested already. Who’s in?
✨ I'm throwing the first NYC tech party of 2024 in January.
We're taking over a swanky hotel in Chelsea. 3 entire floors!
Join the NYC tech community for an evening of connection + entertainment.
(This one will be special)
👋 Comment for details
@paulg
There are a bunch of us in the US right now still struggling to get a green card.
It’s massively limiting our potential and ability to have societal and economic impact on this country.
Something needs to change!
I'm excited to announce my role as an investment partner at Next Wave NYC, a new pre-seed fund from
@flybridge
.
We're dedicated to backing game-changing NY founders.
DM me if you're building. We're actively investing in AI and developer platforms.
NYC product, engineering & tech leaders—where you at?
I’m hosting a curated event on March 23.
It’s at a penthouse with stunning views. Delicious cocktails. Light bites. Great music.
👉 Engage for details!
Best spots in NYC to...
• Charm a client: The Beekman
• Read a book: Kobrick Coffee
• Happy hour: CloudM Bowery
• Get deep work done: NYPL
• Get a coffee: Bar Pisellino
• Co-work: citizenM Bowery
• Catch a show: Joe's Pub
• Listen to jazz: Bo Peep
• Unplug: QC NY Spa
Hosting a curated group of founders, investors & creatives at an intimate Soho loft (NYC) on March 2.
Expect music, activities & art with the goal of bringing strangers together.
15 spots left. Engage w/ tweet if interested.
3 years ago, I immigrated to the United States with no friends.
This year, I made a bunch of friends... and got them on the cover of Fast Company's Summer Edition.
What a ride!
In NYC, 75% of the ppl attend my events "to meet new friends" or "just for fun".
In SF, that number is 21%.
The rest of the ppl are looking to network, hire, invest or raise money.
It's a vastly different vibe. More fun in NYC, more focus in SF.
I’m throwing a party next weekend in NYC.
Not a tech mixer. Not networking. Just a good ol’ fashioned party.
Have room for some twitter friends—who wants to come?
The
#1
killer of startups:
Lack of speed.
• Not moving fast enough
• Not making decisions quickly
• Not having a bias for action.
The result is lost momentum and morale.
Instead, take action. Get feedback. Then rapidly iterate and take action again.
To everyone in their 20s, 30s, and 40s:
Sit down with your parents.
Ask them about their happiest moments. Their fondest memories. Their favorite stories.
Ask them what they were like as kids. What made them happy.
Watch them smile.
And record it all so you never forget.
🎉 Throwing a SXSW garden party in Austin on March 13.
Join 800+ founders, operators & investors at the most unique space in the heart of Austin.
👀 Will be featuring local beverage vendors––and *possibly* a surprise performer.
Engage for invite / VIP list.
🥂 I'm hosting an event for founders and creators in NYC on Aug 10.
Will be a very curated audience. Invite-only.
it'll be at a new private social club in Tribeca.
Comment for details.
Hosted a “We’re Not Really Strangers” evening last night.
20 strangers (now friends!). We stayed up to 2 am.
We had 3 rules:
1 . Everyone brings a bottle (or drink)
2. Throughout the night, you can’t pour your own drink.
3. No work talk.
H/t to
@ditzikow
for hosting with me.
Today, I turn 28.
It’s been an insane year of growth.
10 things I learned on how to build an extraordinary life:
---
1) Be a magnet for the type of people you want to attract.
Want to work with ambitious and collaborative business partners? Be ambitious and collaborative.…
After traveling to 5 cities in the past 5 months:
• SF: Sharpest ppl I’ve met
• Toronto: Kindest ppl I’ve met
• Austin: Friendliest ppl I’ve met
• NYC: Most ambitious ppl I’ve met
• Miami: Most energetic ppl I’ve met
Back in NYC today.
I love traveling but there’s something about NYC that makes you feel sharp.
It makes you want to be at the top of your game—professionally, mentally, socially, physically.
I’m hosting an event for business and tech leaders at an NYC penthouse on March 2nd.
Confirmed attendees incl. founders of 10-figure companies and notable big tech execs & investors.
👉 Tag a leader that should be invited
A VC studio is looking for EIRs (Executive-in-Residence)
You’d get $1M to seed your own SaaS co.
Reqs:
• 8+ YOE
• Preferred: consulting, finance, tech, product, ops background
• Can be technical (SWE) or non-technical
Great op to build your own thing.
DMs open!
🚀 How To Be a Top Performer in Tech
@shreyas
is a high performer (product leader at Google, Stripe, Twitter, Yahoo) who writes about leadership, business, tech, and strategy.
Here are his frameworks to be a high performer in tech. A thread👇
Today's my last day at
@Meta
.
Over the last 2 years, I’m grateful to have had the opportunity to work on interesting problems, learn new skills, and most importantly –– build genuine relationships.
Looking for a new role?
I'll feature you in front of 16,000+ tech hiring managers, recruiters & CEOs.
Like + Comment "interested"
(Must be following so I can DM)
I'm investing in the following categories:
Products that:
• Bring people closer together
• Enhances the IRL event experience
• Infrastructure for communities to gather
• Improves serendipity in connecting strangers
Please share below.
🎉 Hosting one of the last, big NYC rooftop parties of the year on Aug 2.
1,000+ tech founders, operators, and investors.
Bonus: Manhattan sunset views from a stunning rooftop.
Comment for details.