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an adorable chaos
Jakarta Capital Region
Joined October 2010
orang2 ni kebiasaan apa2 let it slide IRL trus dilampiasin ke sosmed jadi ngegas dluan ke orang. loser ass behavior. coward. and ofc i’m not letting it slide. enak aja. gw repot2 regulasi emosi trus kudu nerima sampah orang? gw lempar balik sampahnya ke muka lu, sekecil apapun.
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ini bener. compliment from a man usually comes from desire. while compliment from a woman is genuine about she admires your taste or appearance.
this man at the gym just asked if i could approach his wife and tell her she looks pretty because she’s pregnant and was feeling self conscious and she thinks compliments mean more when they come from women IS THAT NOT SO CUTE
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everytime a cat is being very aggressive to me, or very clingy, or anything that shows any sign of hardship before, i try not to be annoyed. i try to be patient with it. because that’s what we are when we’re traumatized. if anything, it needs more love.
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i recommend to do this often to put the men who’s about to cross your boundaries back to their place.
We don’t give “crazy women” enough credit. Being composed is easy. Do you know the courage it takes to lose your mind, do unhinged things, then collect yourself and keep living? No shame. No regret. Just madness and vibes. Madness is an art!
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adil? nggak. tp gw tau mental gw akan lebih hancur lagi, begitupun karir gw, klo gw speak up. pengen lapor? pengen. but it know the backlash would send me to my breaking point.
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gw tiap interview harus cari alasan kenapa di kantor lama itu gw cuma setaun. gw gabisa jujur bilang karena diperkosa senior gw. karena gw udah pernah liat ada dua cewe yang ngaku dilecehin ama dia tp malah digosipin di belakang. meanwhile itu cowo karirnya naik.
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ini bangsat. asli bangsat. kek “khilaf2 gw di luaran sana itu urusan gw, tp at the end if the day gw akan pulang ke rumah gw jadi tolong jangan usik rumah gw”. gabisa ya anjing rumah lu tu dibangun dari sengsaranya korban2 lu.
Bagus deh statement instagramnya udah mengakui dengan alasan khilaf masa lalu. Privilege laki² emang bisa bebas khilaf
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ya makanya dibelain sampe ke silit2. buat uphold standar sampahnya itu biar kelakuannya ga dipandnag termasuk predatory behavior. manusia2 rendahan.
Gue yakin banget orang2 yang ngebela “bercandaan”nya Mohan pasti pernah nge-“bercandain” borderline harassment juga ke perempuan lain. Karena kalo Mohan terbukti melecehkan, berarti dia juga jadi seseorang yang pernah melecehkan.
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yang bikin gw stress baca kasus2 SA ini, karena gw tau betul KITA SEMUA pernah ngalamin sebagai perempuan. dengan kadar yang beda2. dengan kemampuan dan cara coping yang beda2. tp tetep aja disangkal ama para pengecut cengeng di luaran sana yang ga berani negor temennya sendiri.
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dan sekarang gofar hilman telah resmi menjadi nabi dan panutan para pemerkosa, pelaku kekerasan dan pelecehan seksual, serta para pembelanya :)))
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dan klo bini lu tu korban, i’m sure the life ahead of her would be better off without you. daripada hidup dijadiin tameng mulu. lu yang enak dia yang babak belur.
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these cowards selalu berlindung di balik “hal ini memberikan impact ke orang2 di sekitar saya” as if they think about them at the first place when they were doing the assaults. yaudah diproses aja, tetep. bini lu klo korban ya ga akan diseret, klo enabler ya seret juga. simple.
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see? the most vile predators biasanya dah nancepin axis buat jadi jangkar hidupnya and wear it as his identity when he heeds it. istri laki modelan begini selalu either korban atau enabler. inilah kenapa jangan pernah anggep pernikahan itu the ultimate prize tanpa ngerti karakter
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gw bagian support orang2 ini aja. full force. i’ll stand with all of you. sbg ganti ketidakberanian gw buat buka mulut.
Setiap kali ada perempuan yang berani speak up aku selalu ikut deg-deg an. Karena paham rasanya. Bertahun-tahun dipendam terus rasa sakitnya, tapi di sisi lain ketakutan untuk melawan.
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ya gimana ada yang direkam dari atas pas doggy. gw kagak tau itu direkam. beneran baru tau pas tiba2 ditunjukin. gw gabisa diem2 ngehapus juga, gatau password henpon dia.
orang kok berani ya bikin video lagi having sex sama pacarnya. kalo putusnya ga baik-baik kan disebarin mampus. kacau emang pergaulan di makassar ini cok
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i don’t understand how some women can continue to share a life a with a man knowing he assaulted many other women.
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nanya pula lu gw sakit hati apa ngga. sakit hati lah but i’m used to intellectualize my feelings to avoid feeling it so
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sementara orangnya dah nikah noh, sempet mau apply ke kantor gw tp untung temen gw ada yang notice dia hawa2 predator jadi alert HR.
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gw bahkan milih ga speak up sama sekali dan cuma ngomel di sosmed tanpa sebut identitas karena gw tau, tanpa proper support, the blame shift on me will send me to my breaking point.
orang kena SA baru berani speak up setahun kemudian disalahin karena ga speak up earlier. people always find a way to blame the victim
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i can’t. it makes me cry in the middle of the day during work hours. i don’t have to know the whole list to condemn this.
@ma1ybe NO it is actually worse ( well.. idk if it can get worse but its more creepy?) So newborns have what you call Vernix caseosa that white creamy stuff on their skin. They …. ( fill in blank) literal second born newborns !! They take them away from the mother as the mother is
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