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Ppl don’t realize how much of a privilege it is to be apart of someone’s life and journey until you on the outside trying to get in again. Shitting on authentic ppl is never it.
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My idea of luxury has everything to do with freedom and very little to do with materials.
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Apparently there's a reason why you want to bite someone you love or think is cute, it's called cute aggression. It's literally too cute for your brain to handle and biting them gives you the somatic release. The human experience amazes me lol
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The classic ‘imma treat you like shit until you leave bc I can’t tell you I’m unhappy and want to leave’ tactic, mad childish.
"I'm almost scared that you don't wanna do life with me." 😰
Things get tense when Erica and Safaree try to figure out where their marriage is at (and where it's goin... 👀)
#LHHATL
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Being hyper aware is draining, I notice change in body language, tone, distance, even in text mssgs. I don’t want to project/assume so I’ll ask and that can come off annoying to some ppl.
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does anyone ever just… let things be what what it is without having to downplay a connection you once had? lol
no contact really is easy when you realize they’re actually losers
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Hand-blown wine decanters by Etienne Meneau resembling tree roots or veins. Very unconventional but gorgeous to me.
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Posting on IG feels like standing on a stage in front of a very large but silent crowd lol
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I cannot care too deeply about who “fumbled” me, played me, mishandled me, who’s not prospering without me.. I take walks in the sun with some tea in my thermos and that shit suddenly does not matter lol if anything I’ll admit to myself that my ego was just bruised.
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Ppl don’t promote independence in their relationships enough, like yes be up under me but also pls go be an individual, hang out with yourself or your friends.
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I rlly do genuinely adore women that know they’re attractive but they don’t make being attractive their entire personality. They acknowledge their beauty but they also invest their energy in other hobbies and cool things.
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Might take this whole month to just sit back and process everything cause wow… what a year bro.
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It’s a bad habit of mine not realizing shit is one sided cause I’m too busy operating from a space of genuinely giving
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Constantly reminding myself to chill and enjoy my life regardless of the highs and lows cause stress leading to sickness is not worth it
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My biggest observation so far— everything that had a faulty foundation fell to pieces this year.. Everything.
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ppl be letting the love of their life walk out bc they feel like they’re not worthy or they don’t have their money up like bro get. in. the. field. Someone loving you for you is motivation to do the work and get your money up so you can give that person the world wtf!
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Ppl should get back to researching things, like deep dive rabbit hole researching things like games, clothes, shoes, eras, arts, hairstyles, spaces/places etc. it’ll prob help you figure out why you like what you like.
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Life is rlly an endless cycle of character development, cringey moments and constantly finding yourself.
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I love my resilience and my ability to bounce back but I don’t want to always be in situations where I’m constantly having to be resilient. I need my energy for other shit.
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Don’t really care to shit on anyone from the past or the present.. just tryna get a bag, stay fly and collect experiences, pls hold the one sided competition
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Sometimes you just gotta chill and take a break from constantly figuring things out and just exist for a change. So much pressure for no reason when you think about it.
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That second wave of adult puberty where your body starts rejecting foods that you once enjoyed <<
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If you brought peace to anyone’s life, you’ll be missed. If you wrecked havoc on anyone’s life and mental, it’s not worth hopping into your ego thinking they fumbled you, they’re probably genuinely at peace with your absence.
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Today is the first day of Restaurant Week in NYC.. $26 2-course lunch, $42 3-course dinner. Take your shorty out within the next 19 days. It ends Feb 9th, enjoy!
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Doing cool things behind the scenes and being the mastermind behind projects is really all I want to do.
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Brought a gift on the first date, was afraid I’d be doing too much but I think anyone taking time out of their life to get ready to come spend time with me meant a lot, so I said fuck it.. pulled up and got a gift bag full of goodies myself lol coolest experience ever so far.
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I want to be outside next year, traveling, taking classes, acting on hobbies, events.. idc I just feel like I need to be very outdoorsy as much as possible.
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I love bossy women, not the mean girl or bitchy type but like the self respect, confident, perfectly assertive yet kind type of bossy. Very attractive.
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I really want my own garden, it’s so cool watching vids of ppl going straight to their backyard to harvest lunch or dinner for the day.
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Love when bad bitches are cool, like a real girl’s girl type of cool. We can have a cute lil convo about anything and it’s not weird or competitive. That’s so attractive to me.
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I got a pen diffuser that releases essential oils at the top of the pen as I write.. it makes journaling and writing so much more fun and relaxing. I’m hype about this purchase lol
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That weird spot in life where you’re grieving what you thought your life would look like by now, while trying to transition into the new vision and path you’ve freshly created… with a heaping scoop of uncertainty ontop of all of it.
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listen man whether it’s food, love, dating, sex, travel, comfort, clothes.. I believe pleasure is something you should be serious about, especially in this shitty world lol
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If you keep talking about something, it’s bc it bothers you and you care about it— the person, incident, heartbreak, argument, misunderstanding etc.. but if we can accept that first instead of forcing this idgaf contest, then we’d truly be on the path to indifference.
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Sometimes you just need to book a nice ass hotel, order room service, watch movies and sleep in for the weekend.
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Before & After kitchen renovation in this Brooklyn apartment designed by mom, she did that.
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Finding your way back to yourself after burn out is such a wild ride.
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Ppl will dead not like you bc of a faulty story they heard about you. Shit is weird, pls use logic or stay neutral.
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one thing I cannot afford to do is fumble the love of my life that genuinely loves me for me
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it’s trash how many ppl experienced this, sorry to those I’ve unintentionally triggered :/ hopefully ppl can discern this type of behavior moving forward.
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I enjoy chilling but I def need small bursts of spontaneity and passion every now and then.
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Love being able to complain a little and still come out on the other side with a solution. We can be a tad bit dramatic about it first but regardless, we move.
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As a lover girl why would you let anyone with lame behavior that handled you poorly..turn you cold.
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I guess that’s the beauty of not reacting to wack behavior so soon, the moment you give yourself time to have a harsh realization it feels like a path to closure.
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It’s so nice when your emotions are received with care. It seems v bare minimum and maybe it is but growing up is realizing a lot of ppl are rash and inconsiderate with the way they handle others nor do they care to gain the tools to do so.
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This person on TikTok was tired of eating bad sushi in America, so they flew to Tokyo the next day just to eat great sushi. Outlandish to others but I understand ppl going to great lengths just to be satisfied lol
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Sometimes you have to go through what love isn’t to realize what it actually is.. it’s truly a sick game lol
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Love when I’m fully present in the moment, barely touching my phone. I need lots of moments like that.
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Designing your own sofa for your crib is such a flex, a flex that I need parts of.
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idk how ppl manage to be miserable and insufferable over a cute harmless thing we do as humans but it never fails
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Having a lover that you can have real emotional raw moments with is very liberating. No hiding, no ego, no masking, just raw.. everything is all out on the table for them to see and they’re still choosing you daily.
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If life is good— then live your good life.. there’s nothing to prove, nobody to shit on, no audience to perform for. Just do your thing.
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Still not where I want to be, but I’m not where I used to be so I’m grateful anyway
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take morning walks, eat some fulfilling meals, have pleasurable sex, get lost in hobbies, take a multivitamin and make an effort to talk to ppl you love often.. cause negativity off the wake up will eventually drive everyone crazy
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Such an odd feeling to miss ppl and still want absolutely nothing to do with them at the same time.
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I was curious if 60k ppl ever just parted amicably and gracefully frm an experience but everyone is always a loser, my bad y’all let me mind my business
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Best thing ever is secretly taking notes of everything your boo wants and when they forget about it you just casually gift it to them, their excitement is such a priceless feeling
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I love spontaneity sm, like let’s get fly and figure out the day as we go type shit. Starting with food first tho lol
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& I say this as a woman that has dated other women..it turns me off when you get to be toxic and mediocre or be a mean girl just bc you’re gorgeous.. being fine is just not enough. Do you read, stretch, take walks, are you into anything..like damn lol
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ppl gotta be real enough to admit they weren’t their best self at a certain period in their life, getting egotistical thinking you were the prize and blessing in ppl’s lives is just placing you deeper in delusion and denial lol
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I love talking about the human experience, human behavior and love but with ppl that are realistic about all of it. Even talking about things we all experience don’t speak on bc we’re ashamed/afraid to, those convos intrigue me lol
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When I see ppl living a life similar to the way I’d like to live mine, it makes me excited like it’s so fire to know that the life that I see for myself actually exists.
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