@VIXGC
@Yemicita_
@paigesofrosh
cos the cat had nothing to apologise for, the act was flawless, properly executed, no mistakes made, no evidence left behind, therefore it never happened.
I don’t have words anymore..
Igbo tradition is sick.
Being from the same bloodline does not make you family.
And all you see in Igbo movies are true, in fact it’s worse actually.
I take solace in the fact that that’s not really my dad, just his earthly home/host.
For two months I haven’t been able to talk about my dad’s death or grieve because I’ve been busy fighting or quarreling or going for village meetings because of little things that should not matter. Because girls like me should not have opinions about things like this.
He is to be buried.
After my recent experiences, I almost wish I wasn’t a woman. Because now my mum, my siblings and my late dad are suffering because of it. Previously, people have asked me why I hate Igbo culture and people, this is why, people who constantly make you feel..
I feel a fool.
Before you marry Igbo men, learn about their cultures, once you marry traditionally you cannot escape them.
If you have daughters,I honestly don’t know what to tell you, because lawyers or the police can’t really save them.
You have to, make sure you save them
@Realzonline
@_xoea
🤣 My mum’ll drown me with Anointing oil even though she knows I’m allergic to olive oil, but since it’s from church God will definitely protect me.
Imagine refusing to bury my father on his own piece of land.
Because it’s a virgin land, against his wishes, against his wife & children’s wishes.
Imagine the effrontery! Telling people how to use their own property.
Hi jacking a man’s burial to preserve land that’s not yours
Because why would someone with a vagina hold the mortuary tally.
Because after my dad’s brothers abandoned his corpse and left it lying there in my living room I took him to the mortuary.
Because his wife and children should not have a say when it comes to burial plans or where
DISCRIMINATION, OPPRESSION, SUPPRESSION OF WOMEN IS AN INTRICATE PART OF IGBO CULTURE.
I said what I said, I meant what I said.
If you don’t like it, come my beat me in my house, my tears have finished, I will not cry. 🚶♀️
@Gracymama1
I know I’m very petty but has Annie considered having a baby for someone else?? My childish ass would be rude and have a white/Asian baby.
Yes I know how it sounds, I’ll love it 💯
My dad never believed his family hated us, he always tried to unite us.
But we always felt the hate, out of 7 sons he was the only one with biological children, 2 girls & a boy. It did not sit right with them and all our lives we’ve had to deal with the utter dislike.
The heart of man is truly wicked, who can know it?
Worst part of all of this is they fooled me. They apologized and they begged my mum in the presence of the DPO and Rev. Father and we foolishly forgave them.
I let them fool me into releasing the corpse.
They just used me for the parts they could not do.
Pretended, made me believe they actually wanted a “peaceful burial”
Convinced me to drop legal action, to come back home, to carry his picture around the village and to go ahead with the burial in spite of the police situation.
@isokoboy12
She stole,yes,las las they’ve caught her, this is unnecessary,could’ve had her locked up.
Wonder if she asked🤔
What type of bf lets this happen to his gf? Girls better stop deceiving yourselves,bf that has 700k watch but cannot give you money if you need it is not boyfriend
@Evolots
@4realstan
@I_pissVodka
Lol God did create 1 man and 1 woman
And animals got into the ark 2 by 2
But I don't know, I'm just Christian, nature might be different for you
I hate how Nigerians cannot be objective
1.Grooming isn’t illegal but He’s Awful
2. 11+11-3=?
3. She narrated from the girl’s perspective, she didn’t blame her
4.“Good FATHER”not Man
5.There’s no remedy, she just stays or walks
6.They both betrayed her
7. Her Feelings are Valid
I have just spoken to her. She’s hyperventilating and is trying so hard to put herself together. She’s been in denial and just realising this is real. Guys, this is so heartbreaking and sad. The betrayal is heavy. Gosh!!!
#DearDANG
Babcock will soon produce 3 sets of Law graduates and all will be waiting on Law School together. The problems in this country are too much. It’s hard to focus on one.
@efiaodo1
Lmao this isn’t even possible
Miraculous minimum wage
9 hours a day (full time?-overtime?)
7 days a week(2 days off?)
Still doesn’t add up to $1000 before tax
After tax it’ll be great if it’s up to $650
Rent?
Cost of living?
Transportation?
The whole math gave me a headache
@Akua_Golda
If you date someone and they tell you they don’t like certain things you like, and they think the solution is to avoid those things, it’s reason enough to break up.
@Rosblis_cakes
Hire bodyguards, go to the mortuary, pick up the corpse, go get your mother, bury your dad anywhere else you can and move on. Don’t be like me. 🙏
@Solomon_Buchi
You do owe them, maybe not legally but it’s a moral obligation.
If they refused responsibility, if they abandoned you, nothing would’ve happened, so be grateful they didn’t.
@exquisite_girli
@PemiPo_Official
@Engr_Series
It means that they don’t care about you.
It’s okay to forget your birthday or your friend/family’s birthdays but you say you are in love with someone and you forget their birthday, .. 🤷♀️ ya not serious, I hope your girlfriend has another boyfriend who’ll remember🤣
@itslexdawriter
@Jameca2011
It’s mad tiring because apparently you should have party friends, fashion friends etc.
But don’t you just look at them sometimes and get nauseated. Like all you’re good for is parties??
Worst part, they probably vent to you because you’re not just a “party friend”
@m_motiv8er
Lol There are many Orphans or fatherless children healthier than those raised by both parents.
Having two parents is not a prerequisite for having a good life.
The worst part about this is doing it on her Birthday, if he flakes again, you just ruined the day for her forever.
@kenniep3f
@Oloni
I refuse to call myself a feminist &people judge, I think feminists should be willing to pay 100% of the bills instead of just 50%.
Equality connotes you want to be treated exactly how men are, and they’ve done it for the longest time so feminists should take over completely
If you’re Igbo I know you’ll understand.
Today was not the first time they forced their way into our house.
Today is just the day they broke me, because if I continued to keep it all in I don’t know what would have happened.
@OptimuDime
@bellaphilia
@PenTitan
Mentalities like yours bore extreme patriarchy & the idea that women are properties in some cultures. In recent time sm lazy men have tried to glamorize it, I promise you/anyone else can marry an older rich woman too but you rather not yet you wish it on women. Disguised Misogyny
So I preached Christ to my Uber driver today. A Muslim but he payed attention to every word I spoke, he was just looking at me through his mirror..Like why would this young fine girl be carrying Jesus on her head like this🤣
I’m so glad I was able to plant the seed in his heart