@sibuyi_ntsako
People with kids expect so much understanding from people without kids. You chose to have a kid, also choose to discipline your kids or have a bigger yard so they don’t inconvenience your neighbours.
@Guugu_lethu
You passed me today at Sandton city and commented 'she's cute' to the guy friend you were walking with. I screamed internally and thought 'you're cute too', I want to be your gf. 😅💛
@ItsAthee_
Being spiritually gifted.. you absorb other energies easily. So it’s either you must only be around good energy all the time , which is impossible or limit your interaction with people.
@Musanathi2
But funny enough , with regards to the last point, parents have nerves but are always playing videos on their phones out loud ? Now I have to correct you cause ndinama nerves as well.
@lolschey
I tried this… and I can safely say I’m going back to not helping a man when he’s low. My heart ain’t built for the frustration that it comes with.
@pamela_mtanga
But leaving a toxic relationship is easier said than done cause at moments when things are good they're really good & you have nostalgia hence you go back to a man who did you dirty a 100 times.
@_simplyenny
@Londeka_Mn
No, people who keep making babies are the pits cause that same family member who doesn't want you to judge them will involve you when it's time to send money every month for babies you didn't make.
When I lost my myself and lost weight over a man. I woke up one day and said no ways. This ain't it. Fast forward I'm now dating a man treating me x10 better.
@SissGugu
Speaking of ukuthwala - in terms of healers, how do you know if a person is using their gift for good or uthwele and the things they'll give you to use are from bad spirits?
@SpiritGenealogy
@RealLifeGold
My love language is being bought stuff. If anything you'd feel like I'm ungrateful if all you're offering is emotional support, that on its own is not enough for me.
@SharleneBotha_
I honestly believe people who are over protective over their phones are always cheaters. My partner and I respect each others boundaries but at any time you can have access to my phone cause I’m not hiding anything.
@RefilweSeboko
Would never date a person like this. Wouldn’t even befriend someone’s like this. And I always get told I think I’m better cause I stand on my values. You don’t have to be successful yet but you must at least be ambitious.
@NguSiya
A partner of mine at the time once filled a gift bag with all my favourite sweets and at the bottom was a new phone, my phone was giving problems at the time. The thoughtfulness of it all melted my heart.
@maryluckm
It was too emotionally draining! Also I discovered late that I'm more of a hustler than book smart & that's okay. School isnt for all of us.
@zithobemacheli
I use to say I don’t want kids, truth is I l just don’t want to a single mother. I’m surrounded by so many examples of women’s mental health hanging by a thread cause their husbands or baby daddies don’t help them.
@mkenyalegit_0
@bongii_sibeko
Firstly, I don’t think you used the term “gaslight” in the correct context. Also, what’s the success rate of abuse victims actually getting justice? We live in South Africa, with the highest rates of GBV. Check yourself before you make dizzy comments.
@KERRINGTONSKYY
Went through a friendship break up last year, been reserved ever since. I’ll still be nice but I don’t trust people as far as I can throw them and that’s not very far.
@waavykk
I recently experienced this. Never help a man when he’s down, leave him right where he is at. He’ll come back to you when he’s got his sh*t together. You don’t owe nobody struggling with em to prove your love.
@caseywaves
Fast forward to now, seeing someone who could order in the whole restaurant if I wanted. Moral of the story is date / visit people who actually like you.
@_ShaunKeyz
To be honest , the best man I’ve been with is the one I’m currently with. In the past men definitely fumbled me , not to say I was completely correct. I did have my mistakes too in a r/ship but previous partners definitely fumbled a good woman.
One of life's unfair realities is that no matter how thoughtful and considerate you are to others no one owes you the same courtesy. Love without expectation. Give without expectation. Anything you do out of goodwill will come back tenfold anyway.
@5ivestarchicq05
@Forever_Tshego
I know it's easier said than done but don't be stay with someone who intentionally hurts you or has no remorse when he unintentionally hurts you.
If someone has acne he/she is already insecure. The last thing you should do is be insensitive by asking what's wrong with their skin if you're not gonna provide a solution.
@Glen_Motete
Lol. I don't agree with this. You're only allowed to disappear with no explanation if I did something wrong other than that you owe me decency. Don't start r/ships with people if you can't be a decent human.
@PuleXR
1) Don't finger cause first of all keeping clean is not a trait most men possess. And not all women enjoy it. 2) Eating 🐱 is an absolute do. Women enjoy head just as much as men.
@sugeezy
@sooVogue_Moya
I don't go through someone's phone all the time but I should be able to if I want, if you want privacy don't be in a r/ship. Anyone who acts funny about their partner going through their phone has something to hide. Idc
@NalediYona
My previous lash tech was really successful. She’s one of the best in the north , always booked & busy but she chose to go back to school cause the man she was dating would always rub it in her face that she’s not educated. Women do a lot for men.