I love it how the men in the comments are having a meltdown over the weight requirement. The shoe really doesn’t look as good when it’s on the other foot, does it?
If women stopped having sex en masse due to fear of getting pregnant, I guarantee men would have a problem with that too. The core of this debate comes down to the fact men don’t like the fact that women have bodily autonomy and can determine if a life continues or not.
"If you don't want to get pregnant don't have sex." I hate this argument. It implies that unless you want children you shouldn't be allowed to have sex. That sex is a privilege only certain people can participate in. Next thing you know we will have to get government approval.
A big reason why men tend to react so badly when a woman says she doesn’t find a male attractive is because women have been encouraged not to consider or verbalise their physical preferences when it comes to men. Meanwhile men have always been able to voice theirs.
People were so quick to be body positive towards men that they came up with the term “dad bod”, even though men’s bodies aren’t affected by pregnancy. Meanwhile, women who actually carry babies are called fat if they don’t lose the weight fast enough.
yall only care abt body positivity when its done to a man, yall would bully women all other times make r
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sa jokes under dark humor but once u get the taste of ur own medicine its suddenly bitter
Diana deserved so much better. Even her genes were too good for the Windsors. Hence why her nieces and nephew look like models and her own sons look like Mountbatten-Windsor/Saxe-Coburg Gothas.
Why is it when men are “falsely accused” of rape nobody ever tells them they shouldn’t have put themselves in a situation where they could be false accused? A lot of men who are “falsely accused” of rape are often, by their own admission, extremely promiscuous.
Men are never told to lower their standards when it comes to dating. If a man is struggling to find a relationship, other men will commiserate with him. Few to none will tell him that maybe he should lower his standards and give women he’s not attracted to a chance.
Marilyn Monroe was not only badly abused by men in life but also in death. Richard Poncher, who was obsessed with her, asked to be buried above her face down so “he could always look at her”. Women aren’t even safe from male depravity in death.
One thing I learned from reading the quote tweets is that women are so much more creative with their insults. Men just throw out “fat”, “single”, “daddy issues” as insults, whereas women can write reads that would make Shakespeare proud.
I don’t get men’s obsession with being loved unconditionally. Love should always be conditionally because there may come a point where the person no longer deserves your love.
The Depp trial basically sends the message that if a woman can’t prove that she was abused to a high enough standard (whatever that is), then it didn’t happen and she’s defaming her abuser by even speaking about it.
Saying that Amber Heard will set women back decades in terms of being believed makes a very generous assumption that women who come forward about abuse are currently believed and taken seriously.
@Forever_noir_
And they only managed to find the Titanic because Ballard switched to looking for the debris field, that was miles long, vs the actual ship. A small submersible won’t have a debris field anywhere near as large.
I feel like women have been brainwashed into saying/believing that looks don’t matter when it comes to men. There’s also a fear of appearing “shallow”. But the reality is that nobody wants to be in a relationship with somebody they’re not physically attracted to.
I have never seen a female victim of DV get as much sympathy as Johnny Depp has. I’ve also never seen a male perp get as muc heat as Amber Heard is getting, even when he’s been proven guilty.
Men are out here saying that women are going to become ‘cat ladies’ and using that as a slur/insult, whilst simultaneously lamenting that they’re lonely and nobody cares. You couldn’t make this up.
One of the biggest lies women are told is that men will respect and value them more if they don’t ask anything of them. This is why pickmes are stunned when men end up chasing the “high maintenance” women and leaving them in the dust.
Men supposedly not caring about women’s achievements and degrees is part of the reason why the poor/lower middle class will stay there.
Rich people understand the importance of education/career prospects because it means the couple’s earning potential is a lot higher.
It’s the same with male homeless shelters. 99% of the volunteers and staff I worked with were women.
A friend of mine was struggling to recruit for a male sexual violence advocate because men were just not applying for the role. Women were, though.
Men are all about having boundaries in relationships until a woman’s boundary is them not watching porn or being financially capable of providing for them.
@alamkara
@hunt4change
You’re struggling to understand because it’s nonsensical. Giving men a right to sex means you’re advocating for them to have a right to other people’s consent and bodies. Alexandra is an MRA.
Johnny Depp could admit to beating Amber Heard every day during their relationship and his fans will either defend his behaviour or come up with a new definition for “beating” so it doesn’t look bad.
Johnny Depp could literally have Amber Heard’s body in a freezer with his DNA all over the knife and her blood on his clothes and his stans will still defend him and say he’s not abusive 🤡🤡🤡🤡
The “men are more visual” mantra is a (general) lie that has been perpetuated so men feel justified in demanding physical perfection from women whilst not having to meet any physical standards themselves.
If sex work is work, what is wrong with a male colleague asking his female subordinate for a blowjob? Because according to the pro-sex work industry, being coerced into giving a man a blowjob is the same as making a spreadsheet.
Lots of BDSM parties/clubs have free/cheaper entry for women. When I was in the community, I thought that was kinda cool. But knowing what I know now, I know it’s because they saw women as the product.
Men are getting really desperate by posting misery porn of women who are upset about not finding relationships.
What they fail to understand is that these women are likely single by choice. Finding a man is easy. Finding a decent man is the challenge.
One thing our culture fails properly inform you of is that relationships are things that you must put years of time and effort to build, and you are on a time limit. Prepare when you are young for the future you want to have when you are mature. There is no shortcut.
To the fools that argue sex work is like any other job: this will be the end result if it’s normalised. Women will be sexually harassed in the street and there will be no recourse.
I don’t know why society acts like women are the only people who supposedly lie about rape. Do you know who else lies about rape? Actual rapists. When has a rapist ever admitted to raping somebody?
@Katchin05
@Vishi_Divine
It seems like nobody wanted Charles (except Camilla). I know he dated Diana’s older sister for a time, but I thought he ended it because she talked too much or something.
@lIlIlIIIlIlIIlI
I never said they didn’t get smoke for it. I said they don’t get ENOUGH smoke for it. Just like they don’t get enough smoke for all the other heinous shit they’ve done.
A lot of the men I’ve spoken to don’t seem to realise that women behave completely differently in environments where there’s no men. Being in the presence of a man puts a lot of women, even subconsciously, on guard to some degree.
Men are supposedly visual creatures but for some reason balk at the idea of washing their asses, wearing flattering clothes and just generally giving a shit about their appearance.
Seeing as this tweet blew up I thought I would clarify: I am a republican (not the American kind). I am well aware the royal family are generally pieces of shit and have been pieces of shit for centuries. I’m talking about Diana because I commented on a picture of Diana.
@Radfemfuture
All the men saying he can’t help his body shape are lying. I know a man who had the exact same body type but hit the gym and now he looks 🔥🔥🔥🔥. They’re just lazy.
So why are they sleeping with women they don’t know and then complaining when she “falsely accuses” him of sexual misconduct? Why didn’t he take steps to protect himself?
I don’t understand wome who will denigrate feminism after having gone to college, work a nice, stable job that pays them a decent income and have the freedom to earn their own money.
Men love to harp on about how “false allegations” of rape can ruin a man’s life. But what about the lives of women who are falsely accused of lying about rape and abuse (which is the more common scenario)?
Part of the reason why society reacts so badly when a woman says she doesn’t enjoy motherhood is because society expects women to not only suffer/sacrifice for others but to enjoy it.
@Susan_E_J_USA
I remember one of the idiot commentators was like “if she was raped by her clients, why didn’t she go to the police”. Prostitution is illegal in Florida motherfucker, she would have been arrested! And of course it was a man who said it.
@FAIRYODDPENlS
Personally I’m a republican so would like the whole charade abolished, but Diana seemed like a good egg that genuinely cared about people. Which is more than can be said for the rest of them (apart from Harry).
@shutup_m3g
There are also plenty of parents who do regret having children. It’s just way more taboo to say so. Only in that situation it’s not just them who are affected but the children they didn’t want.
Men to women: pick better men if you don’t want to end up with a dud.
*women start choosing better*
Men: No, not THAT picky! Your standards are way too high now!!
When women have a bad baby dad males say she should have chosen better and been more selective. Now women are more selective with their wombs and it’s bad and society with crash.
I even forgot my favourite victim blaming line: there’s two sides to every story! We don’t know all the details. Maybe he’s lying about being falsely accused to ruin her life!
Only men who haven’t achieved anything think like this.
The reality is that humans practice assortative mating. Educated men tend to marry educated women. Wealthy men tend to marry wealthier women (or women who have the potential to become wealthy).
You’re a woman. A man does not care about your accomplishments lol he’s gonna want you, for you. I know it’s surprising to women because we know women don’t operate like that, but that’s how men operate.
BDSM is not a natural sexual inclination. It was invented by the Marquis De Sade in the 18th century, hence the term sadism. The Marquis was a French noble who would torture prostitutes and his servants for his sexual gratification. He only escaped execution because he was rich.
I cannot actually think of a single positive of the porn industry. Not one. Porn is the opposite of sex positivity and sexual liberation. The complete opposite.
I was in the BDSM scene for almost six years. During that time, I didn’t come across one dom who wasn’t a misogynist. Pretty much all of them had been rejected by women when they were younger. I wondered if their domination stemmed from a desire to seek revenge.
“Men who are inferior to their fellow men are always most anxious to establish their superiority over women.”
- Mary Wollstonecraft, ‘Maria: or, The Wrongs of Woman’ (1798)
@Katchin05
@Vishi_Divine
Didn’t Diana also want to back out of the engagement but her sister and mum told her that it’s too late as the invites have already been printed? Seems like her whole family were in on it.
One thing that women as a class can learn from men is class solidarity. Men don’t refuse to back other men based on factors such as whether they date women, if they agree with their politics, if they like them, or if they even know them.
This is bullshit, and needs to stop being repeated. Black women have always been considered female and it’s been a key part of our oppression. If black women weren’t considered women/female, why did J. Marion Sims only experiment on black female slaves and not the men?
A reminder that womanhood has never (really) considered Black women and that’s the REAL reason why folks like Jess “Hilarious” are upset.
She feels threatened by Black Trans women because in her mind, what little privilege she has is endangered.
Clock it.
@HJoshington
I swear you men just make stuff up to make yourself feel better. She literally said she broke up with him because she doesn’t want kids. Being sad about a relationship ending doesn’t mean your regret ending it.
A classic example is weight. I’ve never seen the prevalence of women carrying excess body fat being used as a reason for why men should lower their physical standards.
But if a woman wants a man who earns six figures, men will use scrotemathemtics to prove she’s unreasonable.
People who think that men with bad intentions won’t try to access female-only spaces have never modded FDS. Despite making it clear we are a female-only space, we get thousands of comments from men trying to force their way in.
One of patriarchy’s biggest scams is convincing women that sacrificing themselves (wants, boundaries, standards and comforts) will pay huge dividends one day. It is absolutely false. Men know this because they do not sacrifice to the same degree women are expected to.
@Katchin05
@Vishi_Divine
This is like the Kennedy family. JFK was never supposed to be president because he had an older brother. He only became a viable option after his older brother died in WWII. And look where he ended up. Parental ambition can literally be deadly.
People don’t talk enough about how very wealthy men often put clauses in their will to prevent their female partner from marrying again if they die. Widows of wealthy men often lose or have their allowance from their deceased husband’s estate reduced massively if they remarry.
The incels are mad that this Queen has been on more dates in one evening than they have in their entire lives. What’s worse is that they’re trying to make themselves feel better by saying she’s going to end up alone even when she’s clearly desirable to men 🤡