Dr. Robin Stern
@RobinSStern
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Author of #TheGaslightEffect, Co-creator @RULERapproach, and Senior Advisor to the Director @YaleEmotion #Emotionallearning
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Joined February 2013
I'm excited to announce that my book, #TheGaslightEffectRecoveryGuide is now available on all platforms! This time, as an interactive workbook, readers can learn about gaslighting & how to recover through prompts, checklists, quizzes & reflective questions https://t.co/xkm3fUkYYH
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If it’s not the kids, it’s the pets. When someone loses control of you, they reach for a new lever. For many women, it’s custody threats. If there are no children, they target what you love. The Gaslight Effect Podcast Ep. 83 with guest Amy Polacko—> https://t.co/iwfLFzTnum
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Amy Polacko explains why she tells clients to plan quietly — gather evidence, learn the process, line up support — then say you want out. That’s how you take back power, instead of feeding the abuser’s playbook. -> https://t.co/4zVLetE9X1
#TheGaslightEffect #Podcast
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Teaching on Empty? Three truths about today's teachers ...and a message for school leaders --> https://t.co/ZYiwS3Qzli More in @K12DiveNews w/ @drmarcbrackett & Dr. Dawn Brooks-Decosta
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When school leaders normalize burnout as proof of dedication, they are complicit in dismantling the teaching profession, the authors write.
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Detachment is a myth. Emotions are in the operating room for ALL of it. They’ve always been there. Read the full piece I wrote with @drmarcbrackett -> https://t.co/oJGlkmRSeo Share with a colleague who carries so much. We see you. We hear you. We’re with you. You’re not alone.
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If you needed a different script at 12 or 22, this is for you. Save for a friend, a daughter, or yourself.
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With Dr. Jessica Zucker, we talk about the moments girls start to censor what they know, why silence breeds shame, and how to make the messy parts of womanhood speakable. 🔗 https://t.co/qsn1wLszcs
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If this is your story, I’m holding you with care. If you love someone who is grieving, thank you for showing up. October honors Pregnancy & Infant Loss—and Breast Cancer—Awareness. 💗 https://t.co/iX88QDRSkt
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If this is your story, I'm holding you with care. If you love someone who is grieving, thank you for showing. October honors Pregnancy & Infant Loss and Breast Cancer Awareness. Save and share if it helps. 💗 —> https://t.co/D2HhG8E05r
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Podcast Episode · The Gaslight Effect Podcast · 10/21/2025 · 43m
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You don’t need the perfect script. Start with “I’m glad you’re home.” Moms, if you needed this today, save and follow. The Gaslight Effect Podcast Ep. 81 with @coercivecontrol 🔗 https://t.co/5QXwo2tr00
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You are not losing your mind. You are losing yourself to a pattern. @coercivecontrol names it. Coercive control. And how “accommodate more” can gaslight you in therapy. If this sounds familiar, save and follow. Full conversation in my bio. The Gaslight Effect Podcast Ep. 81
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It has a name. Coercive control. Episode 81 of The Gaslight Effect podcast is live. https://t.co/rvbgL2n3v0 P.S. It’s @coercivecontrol’s second time on the show. We reconnected over coffee recently, and I’m grateful to bring her expertise back to you. 🕊️
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Come feel with us 🕊️ The Gaslight Effect Podcast ep. 80 Guest: Irene’s Entropy https://t.co/gxSAVoegNw
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Podcast Episode · The Gaslight Effect Podcast · 09/23/2025 · 57m
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Gaslighting in childhood sounds like: “You’re not normal. Feel less. Be less.” If love was cut off when you were most human (wet sheets, first crush, changing body), this conversation is for you. Save this if you’re unlearning shame. Share to end it in the next generation. ⬇️
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Gaslighting can make you build the cage yourself. ‘My only jailer was me.’ Irene names it and opens a door. If this is you, you’re not alone. Share with someone who needs words for what they’re living. 🕊️ 🔗 https://t.co/uLp6zBx3gb
#TheGaslightEffect #Podcast
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Educators, I hope you’ll join me at the 2025 RULER Implementation Conference. You deserve support too. Come refill your cup with strategies you can take back to your classroom— not just to survive, but to keep showing up with heart. 💚 →
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Implementation Conference The Power of Emotion Regulation for Leaders, Teachers, and Learners Virtual: November 24, 2025 – February 22, 2026 Register! This year, we are exploring “The Power of...
“How are you feeling?” works when it’s a routine, not a one-off. Social support, one of the strongest predictors of longevity and well-being, has to be designed on purpose. In her Flash Talk, @RobinSStern will show you how to use your support network to protect against compassion
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We talked about identity, gaslighting, and the choice to walk through the red door toward freedom—the white room, and the realization: “my only jailer was me.”
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If you’ve ever felt your voice disappear under guilt or someone else’s certainty, this conversation is for you. Come feel with us. You might see yourself in Irene’s journey.
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