Red Flag Snark
@RedFlagSnark
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Roasting red flags in life, love & culture ❤️. Savage takes. Spicy truths. Funny stories. Occasional poems, dating insights & unfiltered humor.
NYC, USA
Joined June 2025
Today is a good reminder. No Kings. No Queens. No secret kinging (MGTOWs). No YASSS Queen. No PREACH King. The only kings and queens are my followers and mutuals. 🥂
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The quest for fun is the ultimate reward system. If you are working hard or grinding, it should solely be to unlock experiences, connections, and levels of joy you can't even imagine right now. As a man, forget the scripts and the complex strategies. The single, most powerful
I’m really passionate about having fun. I think hard work is mostly fulfilling as an path to more rareified forms of fun. like, it’s motivating to think that I don’t even *know* how much fun I could be having yet
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One under discussed aspect of breakups is that once a relationship ends, the IG story competition of who acts the happiest starts
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You can't be happy unless you feel gratitude. As Meister Eckhardt wrote, "If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough."
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Growing up trained us to celebrate success and ignore struggle. Most don't see the empty, lonely rooms, the calls never returned or the emails never answered. Nobody claps for the nights you stayed awake fixing yourselves. But the world will judge the mess before it applauds the
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People in 2025 don’t fall in love, they just build temporary alliances against loneliness until further notice.
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The real love language is replying immediately even though you were just about to fall asleep and hate everyone.
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She’ll text you good morning for two months, then vanish like a magician with no audience. Ghosting is modern witchcraft.
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The modern relationship timeline is simple. 1. Talking stage 2. situationship 3. couple’s therapy 4. breakup TikTok.
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Flakiness isn't a personality trait, it's a subtle form of disrespect. It quietly tells you that your time and anticipation are less valuable than their fleeting impulse.
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I have died 1,000 deaths and by God if it is required, I shall die 1,000 more. There is no agony I cannot endure, no betrayal that can destroy, nor ugliness that can corrupt nor rob me of my light, and so with God as my witness, I swear to him I shall become the man I was always
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The state of gender relations feels like standing on opposite shores, yelling insults across a river of old hurt, when all we really want is a bridge back to a shared home.
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It is a sobering realization that so many teenage girls in our culture feel broken before they even begin. They grow up with Instagram teaching them that their worth is measured in likes, comments, and the shape of their bodies. TikTok piles on by teaching them to turn every
It is a sobering realization that there are so many boys in our culture who feel so disenfranchised. These are the hapless ones who glimpse that they may never receive respect or be welcomed into the community of men. These are the lost boys, the misfits, who experience
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When a man says he’s working on himself, it means gym, socializing and maybe a hobby. When a woman says it, it means deleting Bumble until Saturday.
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“Consider the type of game your grandfathers had to use on your grandmothers. In all likelihood, it was to be good men, get involved with the church, line up stable jobs, and be friendly. They didn’t have to sleep with a dozen or more girls to enter a relationship that would last
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@Shadaya_Knight If she needs a security team, they should be outside scanning rooftops like the Secret Service, not inside double fisting mojitos and ordering calamari.
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@CollinRugg Kamala: Well… you see… here’s the thing. When we were looking at, um… you know, the choice. The decision. About the vice president. I said to myself, I said, listen… Pete is Pete. And that’s important. Because when you are Pete, you are being Pete. But also… you have to
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@CollinRugg Kamala: Well… you see… here’s the thing. When we were looking at, um… you know, the choice. The decision. About the vice president. I said to myself, I said, listen… Pete is Pete. And that’s important. Because when you are Pete, you are being Pete. But also… you have to
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Wisdom is a subtraction The higher a man rises The less he says The less he needs The less he tolerates
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