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@NyangiObera
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Just a girl with a pen and paper
Wherever my feet are!
Joined March 2024
We once had a conversation on here on the importance of understanding the culture you are getting married to for intermarriages and doing family background checks in the village for everyone else wether from a similar culture or not. Exhibit A below👇
In Ukambani, pythons are family members, literally I know numerous people who are siblings of snakes and it's normal ... It gets worse the deeper you go into the community.... Before the 'REDEMPTION' by Christians, we had a working system, where....
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Men are naturally submissive to other men. Their need for male validation is ruining the world.
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I love people that just naturally have morals, manners, common courtesy, COMMON SENSE, consideration, etc.
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Two things can be true 1. Modern dating culture is inherently transactional and not grounded in forming long lasting meaningful relationships based around love, intimacy, compatibility, and sexual chemistry 2. Most men are awful people and deserve their pockets ran through
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💯💯💯 correct. Dating/marrying for love is a very very recent concept very recent and dare I say the reason for a lot of failed relationships that prioritise love over character and other attributes that one would traditionally seek out in a partner
Broadly speaking, we are the first generation of women to actually date/marry for love. For much of human history marriage was about alliances, survival and status, not mutual affection. Women gaining more rights and agency means fewer of us now depend on marriage for survival.
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Baba taught us how to survive after loosing and election,but not how to survive after loosing him . Wach Baba ni mona nindo kabisaa 😭😭😭so he wasn't immortal at all yawa
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everyone is “grown” until it’s time to communicate, apologise, tell the truth, or listen to the truth.
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Men seek male validation more than women do 🤷🏽♀️
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Actress Alexis Fields tells men under 35 to stop messaging her because they’re too young.
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There’s some level of confidence money gives men so much so that they get shocked,almost angry,when you say no to their advances.
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"But where did you learn Golf from yet ure from a poor family?"
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Teso delegation visits the grave of former Prime Minister Raila Odinga in Kang'o, Bondo. Video by Isiah Gwengi
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The women of this generation will make good mothers more than the women of past generation.
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To all my girls chasing a new chapter, be gentle with yourself. What’s meant for you will always find you, so trust the process and give yourself grace. You’ve got this! ♥️
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My life changed when I started to understand that nothing in this world can affect me, unless I give it that power.
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being with a man that's not good for you episode 92683 (it's stealing your beauty, aura, the light in your eyes everything)
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My best housing experiences have been dealing with the landlord direct, including rent reduction and humanity when life hit me with shit. So I dunno about this.
@davidmartiney If you're the landlord and you're still dealing with tenants one on one, you need to work hard ndugu😂
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One thing I love about getting older is the clarity with which my desires crystallise. I know what I don’t like. I know more and more what I want. What will truly serve my core and my heart.
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There's a quiet sadness that engulfs you when you're about to move on from one chapter of your life to the next.
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