I need a break. I’ve decided to go on hiatus from this site for Lent and possibly longer. I’ll still be on 🦋 occasionally at the same name if you wish to reach me. I’m exhausted and I’m sad. My feed is filled with people fighting, name calling, and lots of people cheering (1/?)

I do not tolerate any disrespect towards trans women, both in real life and online. Uplift the girls or get lost.

Saw my therapist today. She knows there is a hot guy at a nearby coffee shop that I like to flirt with before our therapy session. She now wants to start the session with an update on him 😂. Love the queer support 🏳️‍🌈 and love flirting with hot guys ❤️🧡💙

you need to be gross to be good in bed. not in the sense of hygiene but letting go of shame and american ideals of sterility

Had an absolutely filthy 😈🔥 🏳️‍🌈 queer 3some dream last night involving two people who might potentially follow me here. If that’s you, this is your sign I’m thinking of you. And I’m now wondering how I can possibly make my dreams come true.

You know who's going through a lot right now? Everyone. Be kind.

… judge anyone who stays here, who posts, and who engages with the algorithm. This is a personal choice, and my decision is the right choice for me. Take care of yourself and know that I send you love ❤️, even if I’m not responding. May better days be ahead for us all 🙏🫂 (End)

behavior with my morals. Just as I won’t buy a Tesla, I don’t want to contribute to suffering. Now, there are good (great!) people on this site too, and I deeply value your perspective and kindness you’ve shared with me, whether we know each other or not. And I don’t (3/?)…

… the Harkonnen owner of this hell site as some kind of genius. I know good people, decent people who are directly impacted by his asshole actions and he just laughs at us. Why do I want to use a site that just makes him money? I don’t! It’s time for me to align my (2/?)…

Diagnosed with a pretty serious illness and will work with doctors to figure out a treatment plan in the coming weeks. With the exception of one particular weekend, 2025 has not yet been fun for me. Thinking of better times like staring at the ocean or hiking a peaceful trail ❤️

One of the things I’m most proud of in my life is helping to consult on a USAid project. I hope my work saved some lives of people I will never meet. To hear the Harkonnen owner of this hell site put USAid “in the wood chipper” devastates me😭. So much sadness recently.

Never forget: 🏳️‍⚧️ You matter 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈 You are loved 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️ You are valued 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈 You are important 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️ Your identity is valid 🏳️‍⚧️

This is your quarterly reminder to get tested, get your Gardasil doses, you might not always have symptoms for STI's you carry, and also there is no test for some STI's for men but there are for women... Especially strains of HPV that can lead to cervical cancer.

We all face moments when things feel overwhelming, and that’s okay. Remember, you are not alone.

Met a friend for lunch at a botanical garden outside Chicago. Great to see him, spectacular weather, beautiful fall scenery. Given all that’s going on in world 💔😢 and stress of my personal life, moments of connection to love, humanity, and nature mean so much. Take care ❤️

Once again thinking of my friends and work colleagues down in Florida (particularly my friends who live in/near Tampa) who face this terrible storm this week. I hope you stay safe, the storm weakens, and things ultimately aren’t as bad as feared 🙏

So sad for the good people of western North Carolina and all thru Appalachia. The link below is a fantastic resource for those looking to donate. Glad to $ support some of these organizations as they are on the ground helping today and beyond

I told my therapist today that I’d like to have the experience of trying… (rhymes with Polly and/or sounds like rooms), and the look of shock 😱👀👀 I was given by them was quite unexpected 😂

Spent last night at the ER of a major Chicago hospital 😭. Fortunately the issue isn’t major and I’m back home resting. Tip of the cap to the hourly staff, nurses, and doctors who treated me so kindly & cared in difficult, chaotic conditions. Thank you healthcare workers! ❤️❤️