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@Ms_Ore
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1/3 of the Real Talk Real Walk Podcast. I now realise I am 'becoming'. For your Glory.
Livin' in a Spaceship...
Joined May 2011
I come from a line of strong and tenacious women who don’t quit and stand firm on the truth of God’s word, so I have no choice but to keep going.
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The best time to look for a job is when you have one . Keep applying for jobs. Even when you have no intention of leaving your current one. Apply, Go for that Interview. You’ll discover the skills that are now non-negotiable in your field. You’ll learn what your role is
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You just have to be okay with things not being perfect and outsource the things you are most concerned about.
JUST WONDERING HOW MOMS are supposed to work 9-5, drop the kids off at school at 8 AM, pick them up by 3 PM, stay on top of school activities, meal prep, cook dinner, keep the house clean, do the laundry, run the kids to extracurricular activities, climb the corporate ladder,
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The reason men get away with so much is because a woman is always going to pick up the pieces. When men can’t work in nurseries, who has to do it? Women. It’s also why nursery workers are so poorly paid btw, because it’s dominated by women.
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Honestly, motherhood has radicalised me. I really think it’s women that make excuses for and allow men to weaponise incompetence. Men need to learn to be functioning members of society. It’s poor self control that is the problem you people should be fighting.
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I get the point, but honestly this is how we perpetuate gender roles, misogyny and ultimately patriarchy. Men being hired in nurseries isn’t the problem, men who cannot control sexual desires are.
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I’ve realised that the greatest form of friendship/love for me personally is to be considered.
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I’m at a stage in life where I have single friends looking to settle down, but I also know multiple people whose marriages have ended. It’s a very nuanced place to be in and always leads me back to the fact that everything is meaningless.
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I spent years overgiving in friendships & relationships. I was always the one checking in, showing love, making sure everybody was good & I forgot about me. Now I just want to be alone and focus on myself. I’m learning to pour into me the way I used to pour into everybody else.
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Listen, this is the biggest lesson I’ve learnt from my mum!! That babe is ALWAYS on holiday celebrating something. She shows up for EVERYBODY, often attending more than 1 event in one day and is never short of a community.
Was talking about this on IG but my aunty is turning 60 and has gotten around 90 people to go to Malta to celebrate with her. This is why I don’t have anything to talk about with a “you don’t owe anyone anything” person because you simply do not understand community.
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I’m gonna be singing “Mo ti wo corset daran” every time I wear a corset now.
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