🎉Sober 10/8/21 & Non-Smoker 10/18/21 🎉 Carolina Panthers🏈You don't get what you wish for, you get what you work for. 👉🏽NO DMs 👈🏽.☠️☠️ DONT HIT ON ME ☠️☠️
I always feel so much better after I do my hair.
My hairline turns white/gray so fast I have to dye it every 3 weeks. 😩
Gonna redo the red strips after my hair heals. A lot of hair fell out after I bleached it. 🥺
I hate taking selfies - I’m so awkward. 😆
My ex was putting me down and told me I shouldn’t have gotten my breast reduction last year. It was one of the best decisions of my life - plus I have PLENTY left.
I hate dates. HATE them.
Spend all this time getting dolled up to go sit across from a stranger who after about 15 mins I discover I’m not interested in - so I’m stuck carrying a convo for an hour followed by an awkward exit as I tell him I don’t want to do this again. Hate it.
I sent this to a guy and I feel super insecure about sharing a photo of me in glasses. Somedays I feel so ugly, I hate feelin like that. 😩 Can someone post a photo of themselves in glasses too please?
#insecure
#glasses
#itsjustme
My Tinder says I want a FB with no kids. It states exactly what I want.
A guy asks me if I’m looking for 1 guy or several. I say I’d prefer 1 but may need 2 since most live far away from my town.
He unmatched me 😂
Guys want to play the field, they just dont want me too. 😂
4 hours of mowing and Thatching my yard and I am 🥵 already!! Can’t wait till I get my Trellis up so none of my neighbors can see me. 🤬
FYI - If you say anything about me looking burnt I’ll block u instantly.
The few selfies I do post are usually with some sort of filtering - cause I like dislike my imperfections and I hate/never wear makeup.
So to be authentic to my followers I’ll post a photo of me with no filter or makeup at the gym all flushed and sweaty. This is me.
#Imperfect
I’m struggling really bad with heartbreak right now. Usually I’d cut, get blacked out drunk, or chop most of my hair off.
I really love my hair so Ive decided that today I’m going to go get several piercings. I need to find a way to dull the pain cause I’m falling apart.
I feel ugly, unwanted, and a failure.
Logistically I know these are untrue but logic is not stopping the tears today.
I will never let my walls down again. Ever.
This is 💯. This is why we stay away from men. Being attractive has its benefits but it makes u a huge target. This is the case for every single pretty person I’ve met.
I have over 100 hand written letters and art from my ex. I haven’t gotten rid of them. I have them stashed away and I don’t want to burn them. They are the most romantic love I’ve ever had and are very very precious to me.
Would you burn them if u were me?
Im back on Tinder. Im gonna find a new FB now.
Besides Bumble & Christian Mingle 🤢, what are the best dating apps?
Before u comment MeetUp I’m already on it!
@daydream113017
You hear testimony after testimony of grandmas and moms telling their girls to not get married cause it’s horrible. Women couldn’t divorce back then which is why many were forced to stay - meanwhile men like to say it’s cause women were happy - no, they were trapped.
Since I’ve been repeatedly told that I don’t date the right way and need to be up front earlier I will apply your suggestions.
Announcement : I am not interested in anyone on here or have a TC. Do not hit on me. I do not want you. I will never think of you naked.
There we go!
I don’t care how you dress
I don’t care if u have tattoos all over
I don’t care if u have purple hair
I don’t care if u have piercings
I don’t care if your gay, trans, or anything else
I don’t care if u fuck a ton of people
I care if you are empathetic, caring, loving, and kind
@JessPected
💯 this has been my thing now and I preach it far more than I’ve practiced it.
Red flags out the gate - nope. Truly believe there is so much divorce because people settle and then those red flags are way worse than they let themselves believe and they can’t take it.
For fucks sake: I am NOT sun burned I have a skin condition that can make me turn really red.
We are not friends. You dont know me. People need to Stop fucking telling me what to do with my body. I’ve been nice but soon I’m gonna do it back & start hurting ya’lls feelings
Living alone is great.
Doing dishes, dancing around the kitchen and I stop to think ‘Why am I wearing a shirt?’
Boop, gone!
My next man’s gonna have to get used to me running around in a bra or sundress, poor guy.
😏🤣
Officially ONE YEAR SOBER from alcohol. It’s gone by fast. My life and my soul have changed so much, and karma is rewarding me for it. 🎉
#RecoveryPosse
#sober
#Happy
Do you know what I’m done caring about?
Men’s opinions on my body.
Am I Squishy? Yes.
Am I Plump? Yes.
Do I have a lot of scars? Yes.
Am I still sexy, amazing, and great in bed? Absolutely
Do I base my self-worth on random opinions? Fuck No!
🙂
#Woman
#Sexy
#Proud
#True
My ex came over a month ago, used me & ripped my heart out again. A bestfriend just got home from working the lines in Alaska & when I started telling her, I broke down in tears. I just realized I hadn’t told anyone what happened. It really messed me up,Id been holding it all in
Reminder: DO NOT HIT ON ME!!
I’m allowed to post about romance and sex without men trying to apply it to themselves or make a move.
Dont sent me DMs. I don’t want u. I never will. You won’t convince me otherwise or work ur way in.
It is what it is! 😁
I’m thankful I’ve remained Sober for over 2 years, And so is everyone else in my life 😂.
Stay
#Sober
my
#RecoveryPosse
friends!
We all know deep down nothing is worth giving in and starting at the bottom again.
Tomorrow morning you’ll be proud of YOU.
This is temporary.🩷💜
I need some support this week
#RecoveryPosse
. July 30th is the 10 yr Anniversary of my ex fiancés suicide. I usually spend this week absolutely loaded. This is the first time I’m going thru it sober. It still feels like it was yesterday. Can I get some love plz.
#sober
#hurts
Fuck. I want a 5th of tequila. I am doin my best to keep myself goin right now but it’s fuckin hard. First time I’ve wanted to get fucked up in over a year.
Let’s smash the stigma. Post a photo of your beautiful self you love with mental health conditions to let others know they’re not alone.
PTSD
CPTSD
Bipolar Disorder (BP)
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
Anxiety Disorder
Cutter
Alcoholic(Sober)
Beating them all!!! 😁
Let’s smash the stigma. Post a photo of your beautiful self you love with mental health conditions to let others know they’re not alone.
ADHD
Major Depressive Disorder
CPTSD
Do you understand how deeply an independent woman loves you if she wants and chooses to have a child with you?
All the things she gives up and sacrifices because she wants to create a little you. Never take her for granted!!!
I wish guys would go back to just being excited to make out.
IMO- If a man can make out with you without making u feel obligated to go farther than he is way more likely to get laid.
My uncle took his life this morning and my family is going crazy. Work is more stressful than I can handle and I’ve been working 14+ hr days for almost 2 weeks. My ex keeps breaking my heart. I don’t feel good.
I am not okay. 😮💨😣
@BeatTheCult
Because they must force him to fit the narrative they’re most comfortable with.
He helps me, the atheist, buy the house I worked my ass off for but he’s too busy to help the little baby dying of Cancer.
Let’s give god all the praise for MY hard work and ignore all the suffering
Thank u to everyone for lifting me up today.
A lot of u know how this feels and even tho we know it’s temporary and untrue, the pain still takes over and it’s necessary at times to let it out. I appreciate you cheering me up ❤️🥹
I feel ugly, unwanted, and a failure.
Logistically I know these are untrue but logic is not stopping the tears today.
I will never let my walls down again. Ever.
I’m using this Ginger filter as much as I can now 😆 I’m seriously considering changing my hair to this color again.
Just finished cutting up some branches and tree stumps and I am trrrrrd. 🙂
There is a dad here at Starbucks helping his young daughter with her homework. He has a whiteboard out and is drawing things out for her.
This straight up makes me tear up. I woulda ki!!ed for a dad like that. That is the kinda dad every kid deserves and needs. 🥰😍
Me: Please don’t call me pet names.
Them: No you don’t understand it’s totally normal in the south to call strangers honey, sweetie or baby.
Me: You know what else is normal in the South? Fucking your cousins. Doesn’t mean I’m cool with it.
@Raintree007
@RN_Atheist
I’ve cried so many times after getting the harsh reminder that I cannot be just friends with guys. Everytime they’ve shown me I can never let my guard down cause they see me sexually not just a friend. It’s why I stay away from men entirely.
It is a very good thing my ex came back & we had a chance to hook up & discuss things. I was able to see who he really is. He had no excuses to hide behind & I wasn’t stressed out like before.
He is gone & I can finally say from the bottom of my heart that I am DONE. Hes evil🖕🏼
I just received some really really horrible news and I am so beyond depressed. I’m still in shock and I wanna throw up. I’m gonna be under covers the next 10 days
Taking deep breaths. I am strong enough to get thru this. Life is a constant flow of ups and downs - I will be okay.