Learn This Secret | S. James
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Building better men through Self-improvement, Creativity, & Strategy.
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Joined July 2022
Most guys lack the basic social skills required to approach a woman.
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You struggle with women... ...because you invest more (time, energy, money, and emotions) in them than you do in yourself.
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You struggle with women because you consume more than you create.
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You struggle with women because you aren't growing as a man. What new skill have you mastered in the past year?
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You can judge personality off someones posts. People with chronically angry content are never doing well in life Theyve always have demons, secrets, and are aberrant individuals
After meeting many people from Twitter and being put on game about many more, I can say this: While it's not always precise, the "living in your mom's basement" meme is directionally accurate. Long-time followers of mine know I don't slander, but I've been in this space long
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If you're okay with girls giving excuses to avoid sex, you won't see that as a problem. The more you accept their excuses, the less they try to make you happy. Sex doesn't increase after you commit to a girl.
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If she's playing "hard to get", she doesn't like you enough.
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You deserve whatever relationship you accept.
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Every man wants a woman's love. But few men are willing to work on themselves.
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A woman must test you before she can fall in love with you. This is a law of nature.
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You struggle with women because you deny your true desires.
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If you wait for the "right moment" to approach a girl... You're going to be lonely for the rest of your life.
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If you want to attract more women... Approach them in a way that takes advantage of the current situation/environment.
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Want zero stress from women? 1. Have a life outside women. 2. Learn the Art of Attraction. 3. Be great in bed. Master these three things and women will sense you can replace them at a moment's notice. Result: Zero stress.
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Don't be the guy she wants to "settle down" with. Be the man she wants to "lock down". Women only "settle down" with a guy they think they can control. He isn't their first choice.
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Be direct with women. Beating around the bush makes them think you have something to hide.
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The later you wait to start, the more sacrifices you have to make. Start now.
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Stop blaming your looks. Start blaming your lack of knowledge of how women think.
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If nobody respects you, that's a sign you don't respect yourself. People may hate you, but they can't ignore your ability to get results. Competent men are never invisible. Skills make you valuable. Gain competence.
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Never focus on attracting one woman. Women run away from desperate men.
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