From 2020-2022, I had a small following under this username. I tweeted, wrote, and gave interviews about being as close to transsexual as one can get w/o medicalizing. To my regret, I revealed a lot of personal info and burned myself out on trans discourse. So why return? 1/

Sexual orientation is about attraction. It doesn’t matter if you want to date them, if you’re attracted to a man you’re not a lesbian, we don’t have male exceptions. I wish you fakebians would go away and stop harming the lesbian community

This trend of bisexual women expressing attraction to men while adopting the lesbian label is so evil and deeply sinister. They're so casual about their lesbophobia too, ignoring the impact it has on the lives of actual lesbians. Y'all are wicked and you deserve the worst

encourage hookup culture so they get on birth control. encourage gender transition so they become infertile. encourage women to transition so they stop having children. encourage dating apps so the endless options make the average woman look less and less attractive to mate with.

If you’re disabled, even just speaking about it once will have someone accusing you of talking too much about it and “letting your disability become your identity.” In other words: don’t talk about disability, it makes the ableds uncomfortable. Good luck shutting me up tho 😆

Who are these white knights saving us from, Shauny-boy? Oh yeah! Other men!!! It’s because of men that there is any violence anywhere at all, sir.

Thank you for admitting men are incapable of taking responsibility, even for themselves. 🖖🏻

Some of the most annoying things said to me recently - a person with disabilities: 🔹 Look at Stephen Hawkins, if he can do it so can you! And he had so much support - that most disabled people will never be able to access. 🔹 Here’s a [insert woo pseudo-cure] for your

@shaindelr @SassyE My parents built a beautiful 3 bedroom home for 25k in 1980. What their generation thought was struggle and self-sufficient bootstrapping is not even on the same planet as what the current generation is dealing with.

If it’s a political identity, I’d be able to change my attraction the way I could change political affiliation. It doesn’t work like that; and the few instances of potential political relevance are *specifically centered around* two women loving and living together.

Update: meeting went really well! I’m going to get hooked in with employment/transportation/care services tailored to ♿️ (🥰)… but until my debt to the government is paid and my alimony payments end—in 29 months—, I can’t apply for a housing waiver (😭).

Young women now are the first large ever cohort raised with evidence of their abilities. They have the grades. They outperform boys academically in most countries. They navigate emotional complexity earlier and more fluently. They are socially, linguistically, and cognitively

Women are so used to being exploited, some can’t even see the exploitation while it’s happening. You say “creepy” and not “sexually abusive” as if there is a wide chasm between the two. Sometimes the line is incredibly thin and perhaps we should err on NOT exploiting the images

reminder: if you ever get groomed as a child into being a permanent medical patient, when you grow up gender gladiators will spew rape-apologist quotes at you like “take accountability” and “nobody tied you down” and “nobody held a gun to your head” then they will proceed to

I often hear: “Just because transition didn’t help you doesn’t mean it won’t help someone else.” Sure. That logic could justify literally anything. Imagine a cult that convinces people they’d be happier if they cut off a healthy arm. People promote it. Some feel relief. Some

Continually facing medical hardship as a result of transition. I’m boundlessly grateful for the friends that stay close to me and help me navigate what keeps coming. I’m able to face things, and focus on healing, and I don’t feel alone. Still, the medical aspects are traumatic.

I'm so sick and tired of braindead queers reinforcing the patriarchal assumption that lesbianism is performative rather than substantive. Heaven forbid lesbians have autonomy over our own sexual orientation. It's no surprise that this lesbophobic jargon comes from a man.

It’s funny because so often, as a victim of domestic abuse, all you want is to be left alone (what I really want is not to be abused, but that’s another story). Except when you have children. Because then silence becomes another weapon. Contact is ordered to happen. When I ask

When regret is framed as “internalized transphobia,” you’ve replaced patient care with narrative enforcement. That’s not compassion. That’s control.

Belief systems require faith. Science requires evidence, limits, and humility. When questioning a medical practice is treated as heresy, you’re no longer doing science.

For anyone who is successful and doing well, especially for those who have pulled themselves out of dark places, there will always be those who want to tear you down and destroy your success. Any time spent engaging with people who don’t wish well for you, or who try to bring