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baby, i will fight your parents for you.
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“i have so much love to give” okay so give it to yourself because the way you’re malnourished, dehydrated and sleep deprived all at once is really something.
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the sexual tension between us and knowing maddy is going to beat cassie’s ass senseless soon
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i love observing how moms, who are really happy to be moms, treat their children. like wow you lucky duckling, this woman loves you more than air. she’s been waiting for you. you’re everything to her. you’re going to have a great time on earth with her.
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a tough pill to swallow is that people will hurt you. dehumanize you in so many ways and not feel badly about it. they won’t feel a thing actually. they’ll move on with their day, their week, their life, happy as ever but there you are, crushed. loss of appetite. loss of sleep.
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i think i will want separate bedrooms when i’m married. unless maybe if the bed is super big… no but even so like we can decorate our own rooms the way we want and have sleepovers… man i don’t know. i just feel like we would thrive in our spaces decorated the way we like.
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like why is it so romantic in there
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death is sad because why aren’t you here anymore. what do you mean i can’t hear your laugh again.
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when someone literally kills the relationship with a lack of communication and connecting but wanna act like it’s you
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idk who needs to hear this but you can be a kind person and still express your frustration. you can be a kind person and still lose your patience. you can be a kind person and confront an issue assertively. it doesn’t take away from your kindness. let your feelings flow.
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a lot of people struggle to let go of friends they’ve clearly outgrown and we should talk about it. a lot of us feel this undying loyalty towards them because we remember when they were there for us at our lowest once upon a time. that’s cute & everything but…
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abandonment issues can be caused by so many different things. absent parent, experiencing a death in your environment, a friend moving away in childhood. so many different things can happen to us & lead to an anxious attachment style. individuals with this attachment tend to…
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i think it’s extremely important, especially in the morning, to be quiet.
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on this weeks episode of kids are fucking terrifying and scared of nothing
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it’s such a sick tragedy to have such great chemistry with someone who cannot meet you halfway communication wise. you can have so much passion, great conversation, humor & banter together & yet, their emotional maturity is nowhere to be found.
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serious question... how do people have so many friends. like even the casual ones, how do you maintain them all... because if i died literally maybe 2 friends would show up to my FUNERAL yet you have 15 showing up to your BIRTHDAY DINNER. wow let me just-
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how adorable lmao
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social media is so weird like i randomly get this violent urge to no longer be perceived and i just need to deactivate everything before i explode. i wonder if there’s a name for that feeling because i know i’m not alone.
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as a therapist i can confirm. establishing a routine, mastering time management skills & accepting that healing isn’t linear so you don’t shame yourself when you can’t do things perfectly everyday. giving yourself a strict time frame in which you let depression “win” for the day.
it’s so stupid yet so amazing that the only cure for depression is to brute force your way through completing tasks even if it’s extremely hard and gives you no pleasure at all
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rejection sensitivity is too real. when you feel forgotten by a friend as an adult, it brings up trauma from highschool experiences. feeling left out is one of the worst feelings in the world and to feel that from someone you love so much is a killer.
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the depression you get on your period is crazy. like i am fighting for my life.
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omg amazing!! let’s all start doing this because it is definitely a threat!
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still, at my big age, i immediately feel like i’m overreacting whenever i try to explain to someone why they hurt my feelings. the way i want to backspace, backtrack, delete my existence and pretend i never mentioned a thing. it’s so foreign to me to validate myself.
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do you ever look at your parents who are in a toxic relationship but still together and think to yourself how the hell did you guys coexist this long. honestly. who is this fun for.
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this chapter of my life is called “why do i insist on over communicating & trying to find a deeper reason for their behavior so i can understand them more when i should just focus on the fact that their behavior is not aligning with what i need right now so i can move along”.
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as cute as it sounds in theory, i’ll never make a person my “home”. relax. i am my home. i am my comfort. i am my rock. not you. me.
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the moment someone cheats on you, i think you should leave. questioning if they ever loved you or not is irrelevant in the end bc their act of cheating showed you one thing for certain. that no matter how much they love you, their impulse to cheat is stronger than their love.
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i’ve realized that some men don’t know how to be the man that you need because they’re still in the process of becoming the man that they need. they’re not even sure of the type of man that they’re trying to become. just that they’re trying to become one.
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do you guys ever think about the fact that so many beautiful and successful women are someone’s long term long distance low commitment casual girlfriend and basically settling for crumbs from their situationship instead of a whole loaf from someone worthy.
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my life is nowhere near where i want it to be but i still just feel so grateful to be here right now. to show up most days trying my best to just make it happen for myself. the rough days make me appreciate the radiant ones. i pray i can give myself the life i feel i deserve.
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i really dislike when someone expresses to their partner how their partners actions hurt their feelings and that partner takes space from them in a manipulative way as a means to condition them to never stand up for themselves again.
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december is a quiet month for a lot of people. it's the silent grief. it's the spiritual discomfort. it's a lot of things at once.
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A question I like to ask myself when I’m upset is “is it my feelings or my ego that is hurt?” The answer makes how I plan to approach the situation a lot clearer for me.
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and yes, isolating yourself and not making consistent time to socialize or bond with friends (in person preferably) is linked to an increase in depression. along with other needs not being met like poor sleep schedule & not getting enough nutrients in the body.
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guys omg when me and my ex of 7 years broke up and he was moving out. on his last moving day, we stared at each other in the doorway of our room and said “what happened to us” as tears streamed down our faces. isn’t that so fucking sad? i think about it sometimes still…
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i am deeply sorry to any of you who felt comfortable enough to open up to someone about your trauma & insecurities, only to have them throw it in your face when you were arguing later. that’s so unfortunate. that stings in a very different way. i hope you can heal from that soon.
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people be unhappy with a person then bring a baby into this world with them.
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i’ve been thinking about how often we confuse chemistry for compatibility. they might make you laugh & entertain you through good conversation but do they make you feel seen, heard & appreciated? are you both on the same page when it comes to communication or emotional maturity?
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healthy friendships with women are so sacred. i’ll never take it for granted.
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if you’re involved with someone that’s stringing you along or trying to have the relationship experience with you without committing to you & you’re annoyed with yourself for always being available for them whenever they need & not walking away. i have some things to say to you.
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“that’s because they’re dream houses motha fucka”
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Why do movie theater bathrooms scare me. So many mirrors… and when you go when there’s no one else in there and it’s eerily silent… I don’t know. There’s something in there.
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not ariana making side accounts chile
Why do we bash “homewreckers” for breaking up a marriage but we never question if the wife and infant child had bad vibes?
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trust me when i tell you. when a person loves you more than their ego, everything flows. no conversation too uncomfortable. no bare minimum task too great. no reasonable ask too unreasonable. they will move mountains for you because they want to. your happiness makes them happy.
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having your emotions consistently invalidated as a child & one day waking up as an adult expected to validate your own emotions in order to set boundaries & trust your feelings over everyone else’s is an extremely wild fucking experience. be gentle with yourself. you’re learning.
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just because you were triggered again, doesn’t mean you haven’t healed some. repairing wounds takes time. just because you relapsed, doesn’t mean you haven’t made progress. don’t discount your hardwork. don’t beat yourself up for being human.
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begging for communication. begging for consideration. begging for love. begging for attention. begging for quality time. i want more for you. you deserve them to be given to you freely without limit. i want you to meet someone that finds it difficult to not give you these things.
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of course your parents can trigger you easily, they’ve been a source of your trauma since the beginning. they are the first and ultimate trigger.
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there is something so endearing about someone putting in the effort to communicate with you. it’s considerate but ultimately so sweet that someone would want to contribute to getting rid of any anxiety you may have. to fill the silence & fog of confusion with nothing but clarity.
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don’t fake laugh at their joke. let people know they’re not funny.
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bad communication stresses me the fuck out like stop you’re stressing me out can you just tell me what’s going on in a clear and direct way FUCK sake
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relationships are scary because the whole time y’all are getting closer, you’re hoping they’re on the same page as you. you hope each laughter and passion filled night is enough for both of you but realistically, you never know.
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i love people who laugh at their own jokes. especially when the joke isn’t funny. it inspires me to always support myself no matter how embarrassing i am.
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if you are someone that needs a little extra reassurance from your friends or partner, i’ve found it really helps them when you are clear about why you need the reassurance and what you need it about. “i’m feeling insecure about…” “how do you feel about me or my ability to…”
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“relying too much on one friend may also lead to possessiveness.” i use the butterfly example when advising people who lean towards possessiveness in relationships & friendships. it’s great that you find the butterfly beautiful & unique & so special that you want to keep it…
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oh you’re a momma’s boy? you love your mother very much? that is so sweet & wholesome. tell me, is it because she taught you core principles & values or because she still does your laundry & cooks for you regularly while rewarding you for doing the bare minimum everyday?
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i would rather be alone than feel consistently neglected or taken for granted. if i can treat myself better than you can treat me then what are we really doing here.
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Ghosting is the modern day way to completely dissolve a relationship while experiencing zero accountability for doing so. It usually causes the victim of the ghosting to feel indifferent or completely betrayed.
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you do a lot for people because it’s who you are… but i can’t help but wonder if that was instilled in you at a young age. that you are only worthy of love if you are useful to that person. so you over perform and do the most for people you like, who may not even deserve it.
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i truly believe when you lower your non-negotiable standards for someone, you will regret it every time.
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i don’t like when people push you to your breaking point then villainize you when you snap on them like bitch you asked for this.
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the longer you hold things in, the more you end up resenting a person. animosity builds when you aren’t speaking your truth or when you feel unable to.
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people who are motivated in gloomy, overcast weather are out of this world. how the fuck do you do that? i haven’t met one but i’m sure they exist. i’m sure someone wakes up and goes YES 20 degree weather and fog and NO sun, PERFECT. where you at?
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once you internalize that miserable people cannot help but attempt to project or displace their misery onto you, life gets a lot easier to navigate.
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you can be emotionally mature in some aspects & immature in others. you’re still human. you won’t always know what will trigger you until it does. i don’t strive to be perfect because that sounds more harmful than helpful. i strive to improve & feel great when i realize i have.
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i’m scared of the change happening in my life right now but i have this overwhelming sense of calm and a feeling that no matter what decision i make, everything (and i mean everything) is going to be okay.
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i’m a romantic who needs to date another romantic. i’m trying to live in the fantasies i envision. yes to the flowers & sweet treat surprises. yes to the picnic where you feed me fruit & take photos of me slaying to show our children one day. yes to the candle lit dinners. yes.
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people really wait until you’re dead to speak about your impact in their lives and i find that interesting.
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i’m telling you. for me, love really is about these gestures. i need that mindfulness. that attentiveness. that person who doesn’t stop doing all the things they originally did to make you smile. i’ll need this bc i’ll definitely do shit like for my partner & reciprocity is nice.
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acknowledging that you are a sensitive person is the first step. then realizing that you tend to react to things in a purely emotional state is the second. then reflecting on how your emotional reactivity makes you feel after it happens is the third.
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i couldn’t date someone british they’d be sick of me saying HARRY POH AH every time they spoke.
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that one friend you have that you think is the coolest human ever and you’re so glad they’re your friend because you find them to be so beautiful, unique and awesome but you also just look up to them in so many ways.
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i never realized it was my people pleasing qualities that was draining me in social situations. when you are hyper vigilant of everyone’s emotional state due to the inconsistent emotions you experienced from parents in childhood, you spend your socializing focused on others.
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if someone is annoyed by your need to connect, leave them alone please.
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raw dogging a breakup by not using any dating app or flirtationship as a distraction is some strong shit. like what did you do just isolate in a field and meditate the pain away everyday. that’s really something.
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my heart goes out to all of you who had friendships or relationships that could not stand the test of time. for those of you who watched the person you love so deeply, turn cold right before your eyes, due to the constant demands & pressures of life & the rude people around them.
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i refuse to sacrifice my peace and comfort just to keep someone in my life. i refuse to allow consistent disrespect from someone just to keep them in my life.
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he was nice but i deserve someone who’s crazy about me. there’s a lot of “love out loud” that i missed out on as a child. i would love for my future life partner to give me that. love me out loud. speak of me with pride. best believe, i’ll be doing that for you too.
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you believe you started “late” but the universe would argue that you started right on time. “late” in regards to what? trendiness, other people’s timelines? if you’re doing it for you, then your timeline & journey should be the only one you’re focused on.
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i enjoy feeling safe in my relationships. not safe in terms of this is “comfortable” safe but more like… wow i can rely on you to consistently show up for me emotionally, spiritually and physically, over span of time. preferably years.
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i’m sorry but new couples are cute as shit. idc how corny. like it is so endearing to see humans begin again. we come from heartbreak & into anew. the delicate reminder that we never stopped being lovable. it’s a cute thing to see. death into rebirth. we will bloom into new love.
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learning how to be alone has been one of the most exhilarating experiences in my life. it allowed me to slow down, to stop considering others before myself, to consider myself, to get to know myself intimately, to date myself, to cry with myself, to rely on myself for support.
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hey do you guys have any tips on how to choose a good paying career path when you don’t know what the fuck you wanna do with your life?
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don’t fall for comfort and potential. fall for consistent effort and consideration.
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one of the biggest plot twists of adulthood i faced was realizing a lot of people marry people they don’t actually like. they justify their marriages with things like financial security, comfort or getting knocked up prematurely. i hate it very much. i genuinely do not want that.
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there’s an unspoken heaviness in the air around holiday season that most people feel and may not fully understand
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It takes a lot of emotional maturity to look objectively at someone’s actions toward you, even after they hurt your feelings, so that you can understand why it happened because you love them & refuse to villainize them because you understand that people are seldom real villains.
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